# Men who stare... and act ashamed about it. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 15, 2013, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020 "2013-03-15T16:55:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 15
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/281 "2013-03-22T20:32:54Z")
> [@AClockworkMelon](#): > > Can we please not turn this into a thread about slut shaming and get back to shaming this slut? I mean even other women were shaming this slut. It’s something that can unite people on both sides of the divide. This slut’s shaming is the slutty glue that holds us together. Shut it, slut and make with the boobie gifs. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/282 "2013-03-22T20:34:49Z")
> [@Troppus](#): > > I don’t think women are victims, I think you’re a dick. Seconded. Sorry, Shakes, but you have not exactly presented yourself well, ever, when it comes to women. ---
**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/283 "2013-03-22T20:36:23Z")
> [@April\_R](#): > > these bouncing tits are much more amusing (SFW) 😉 > [http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/\_\_cb20090227175854/uncyclopedia/images/1/18/Bouncing\_tits.gif](http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090227175854/uncyclopedia/images/1/18/Bouncing_tits.gif) That’s making me all hot and bothered. ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/284 "2013-03-22T20:37:09Z")
[bounce](http://okayface.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/asian-Beach-Bounce.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/285 "2013-03-22T20:38:13Z")
Oh, it’s actually bouncing boobs. _disappointed_ ---
**Author:** ![Darth\_Nader](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ad7895/32.png) [@Darth\_Nader](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darth_Nader)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/286 "2013-03-22T20:40:54Z")
> [@Bob Ducca](#): > > I did the same for mine and just ended up with a bunch of pictures of Bob Ducca. Cleary, **Donna** your work here is not yet finished. Seriously, I suspect a lot of of the negative reaction here is that you are mostly presenting youself as a faceless pair of hanging tits. I’m okay with that, I find looking at boobs of any size to be very soothing, for the most part. However, there are other ways I would seek that out, and at a place like this-- It’s not going over vey well, is it? I do hope you stick around, Folks who can expess themselves and actually spell are welcome here, mostly. And that’s “Darth Nader”, with maybe a smiley face, okay? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/287 "2013-03-22T20:42:06Z")
> [@Bob Ducca](#): > > You called me a hooker once, I don’t even want to know where that puts me on this scale… Ha! Did I now? I almost always use the term “hooker” with affection. Consider yourself on the list of People I Don’t Hate. > [@Anaamika](#): > > OMG she totally is. What’s great about her though, is she’s equally judgemental on everyone. Oh, I judge the shit out of people, but not a gal for liking to get her swerve on. I mean, if someone acts desperate or sad (which is what people sometimes mean when they describe a woman as “slutty”), I do cringe inside, but a woman who likes business time? Who doesn’t like business time? I wish it were business time right now. ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/288 "2013-03-22T20:42:30Z")
> [@Inner\_Stickler](#): > > Oh, it’s actually bouncing boobs. _disappointed_ OK, OK, [here](http://kuonji.com/misc/boobs_bouncing.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Kimballkid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b5a626/32.png) [@Kimballkid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimballkid)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/289 "2013-03-22T20:47:01Z")
[Bounce](http://www.bouncefresh.com/)? ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/290 "2013-03-22T20:47:29Z")
> [@MeanOldLady](#): > > Oh, I judge the shit out of people, but not a gal for liking to get her swerve on. I mean, if someone acts desperate or sad (which is what people sometimes mean when they describe a woman as “slutty”), I do cringe inside, but a woman who likes business time? Who doesn’t like business time? I wish it were business time right now. That’s what I meant. You slut. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/291 "2013-03-22T20:49:25Z")
> [@AClockworkMelon](#): > > OK, OK, [here](http://kuonji.com/misc/boobs_bouncing.gif) [Goddamn you.](http://i.imgur.com/mf4bfR9.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/292 "2013-03-22T20:51:02Z")
> [@Inner\_Stickler](#): > > [Goddamn you.](http://i.imgur.com/mf4bfR9.gif) LMAO!!! Damn, thats funny 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/293 "2013-03-22T20:53:06Z")
> [@Nzinga\_Seated](#): > > Hee! Doesn’t matter. I knew you were thinking it. Now check your pms. There’s a gif of my mom’s boobs. Hey now if you’re going to share you have to share with the whole class and not just your besties. > [@Shakes](#): > > It’s an analogy. I didn’t call anyone a slut. And your “women are victims” crusade is getting old. Seriously. Yeah, Troppus, stop being a slut. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/294 "2013-03-22T20:54:06Z")
That’s me, purveyor of year old internet memes. Just you wait, I have a Sudden Clarity Clarence from 2011 that will knock your socks off. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/295 "2013-03-22T20:55:13Z")
All right, bye all you sluts. I’m outta here for the weekend. ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/296 "2013-03-22T20:55:18Z")
> [@Inner\_Stickler](#): > > [Goddamn you.](http://i.imgur.com/mf4bfR9.gif) Oh, I thought you meant you were disappointed with the quality of the gif. Sorry, [this is probably more what you’re looking for](http://4.cdn.tapcdn.com/images/thumbs/taps/2012/07/a-great-bounce-break-bouncebreak-com-big-boobs-boobs-bounce-car-hot-jiggle-jugs-nip-slip-real-boobs-sexy-tits-wiggle-b26a1f17-sz500x375-animate.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/297 "2013-03-22T20:56:35Z")
> [@Darth\_Nader](#): > > Cleary, **Donna** your work here is not yet finished. > > Seriously, I suspect a lot of of the negative reaction here is that you are mostly presenting youself as a faceless pair of hanging tits. I’m okay with that, I find looking at boobs of any size to be very soothing, for the most part. However, there are other ways I would seek that out, and at a place like this-- It’s not going over vey well, is it? What do you mean, it’s not going over well? It’s going over great! She’s getting tons of attention, probably dozens of PMs, she’s cracking jokes, being a good sport and totally not displaying any kind of hangups at all. What part isn’t going well for Donna? She’s having a bit of fun. Look, she’s getting so much attention, she’s got other posters trying to upstage her with pics of random boob models! Male posters!!! Don’t let em steal your thunder, Donna. Amp it up with some new gifs in some nice new clothes! ---
**Author:** ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/298 "2013-03-22T20:57:26Z")
> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#): > > Yeah, Troppus, stop being a slut. I don’t blame you for hatin’ cause I get plenty. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/299 "2013-03-22T20:59:52Z")
> [@Inner\_Stickler](#): > > [Goddamn you.](http://i.imgur.com/mf4bfR9.gif) This is probably my favorite gif on the internet. The killer is the way the guy on the left laughs at the end. His laughter is key. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2013, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/300 "2013-03-22T21:03:28Z")
It is a very good gif. I mean, I’m not a super great judge but the first time I saw it, I bought the illusion. But yes, the laughter is great. It’s refreshingly honest. Can I say that about a chatroulette gif? There’s just a sincerity about it that catches me by surprise every time. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020.md?page=14) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020.md?page=16)