# Men who stare... and act ashamed about it. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 15, 2013, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020 "2013-03-15T16:55:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/41 "2013-03-15T19:05:43Z")
> [@Euphonious\_Polemic](#): > > **Donna Lange** , you clearly have a great sense of humor - good for you to not be insulted by a few boobs here on the SDMB. Agreed. Thank you for taking the unwarrented insults in good humor. And **Giraffe** and **Marley** , you should know better. **Donna** , you remind me of a good friend who once complained to me “Men keep looking me in the eye. Hello, my tits are DOWN HERE!” I love that woman. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/42 "2013-03-15T19:14:30Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Agreed. Thank you for taking the unwarrented insults in good humor. And **Giraffe** and **Marley** , you should know better. > > **Donna** , you remind me of a good friend who once complained to me “Men keep looking me in the eye. Hello, my tits are DOWN HERE!” I love that woman. 😃 Aww, thanks 🙂 _shakes your hand_ and nice to meet you! I do understand the feeling they might be getting trolled by some random guy, pics or it didn’t happen as they say 🙂 Sounds like the kind of gal I’d love to hang out with! ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Borgia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_borgia/32/156_2.png) [@Larry\_Borgia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Borgia)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/43 "2013-03-15T19:15:23Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > Please stop. No one’s making you click. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/44 "2013-03-15T19:17:24Z")
> [@kayaker](#): > > _stares at **Anaamika** _ Awww, kayaker, _you_ can look. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/45 "2013-03-15T19:17:54Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > Sounds like the kind of gal I’d love to hang out with! She is a blast. I’m very lucky to know her. ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/46 "2013-03-15T19:21:50Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > She is a blast. I’m very lucky to know her. Awesome! I always love people with a good sense of humor myself and fun people are great to be around! ---
**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/47 "2013-03-15T19:29:23Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > Sounds like the kind of gal I’d love to hang out with! When you say “hang out with”… What exactly do you mean? ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/48 "2013-03-15T19:32:20Z")
> [@Meatros](#): > > When you say “hang out with”… What exactly do you mean? Well, MOIDALIZE wanted to hear all about the nude pillow fights I routinely has during slumber parties. So I guess I would be “Hanging” out having a pillow fight with her and giggling like school girls and talking about hot guys? Sounds like fun to me ^\_- ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/49 "2013-03-15T19:35:35Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > Awww, kayaker, _you_ can look. But not me right? Because I’m fat and ugly right? Only the pretty boys get to stare right? You go to hell you fugly slut! ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/50 "2013-03-15T19:36:10Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > She is a blast. I’m very lucky to know her. Is this a claim that you know her IRL? ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/51 "2013-03-15T19:37:20Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > Well, MOIDALIZE wanted to hear all about the nude pillow fights I routinely has during slumber parties. So I guess I would be “Hanging” out having a pillow fight with her and giggling like school girls and talking about hot guys? Sounds like fun to me ^\_- I can probably make that happen. I’m pretty sure she’d like it. ---
**Author:** ![Donna\_Lange](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Donna\_Lange](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Donna_Lange)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/52 "2013-03-15T19:38:01Z")
> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#): > > But not me right? Because I’m fat and ugly right? Only the pretty boys get to stare right? > > You go to hell you fugly slut! Hot, skinny, fat, old, young (18+ I hope) ugly or whatever. You and all other guys are welcome to stare at me if you like 🙂 But I bet she’s a lot more attractive 😃 So I guess you lose out? ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/53 "2013-03-15T19:40:39Z")
> [@Boyo\_Jim](#): > > Is this a claim that you know her IRL? I’m talking about my friend, not the OP. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/54 "2013-03-15T19:41:43Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > Hot, skinny, fat, old, young (18+ I hope) ugly or whatever. You and all other guys are welcome to stare at me if you like 🙂 But I bet she’s a lot more attractive 😃 So I guess you lose out? (Fugly slut is just a joke from another thread. I’m not offended.) besides, everyone knows what pervs drunk smurfs are. ---
**Author:** ![Heart\_of\_Dorkness](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/4bbf92/32.png) [@Heart\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heart_of_Dorkness)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/55 "2013-03-15T19:46:28Z")
There’s something happening here. What it is ain’t exactly clear. ---
**Author:** ![Yaxche](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/8dc957/32.png) [@Yaxche](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yaxche)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/56 "2013-03-15T19:47:12Z")
I think you’ve got smurfs confused with the Nac Mac Feegle. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/57 "2013-03-15T19:47:45Z")
> [@Donna\_Lange](#): > > I do understand the feeling they might be getting trolled by some random guy This is the source of the skepticism. It happens a lot, and on this board it happens pretty much daily. Sometimes a bird flies into our bug-zapper of suspicion. Sorry. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/58 "2013-03-15T19:52:13Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > I’d look away from those. I’m starting to hate you less and less everyday. > [@Ambivalid](#): > > Please stop. \ ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/59 "2013-03-15T19:53:19Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > It happens a lot, and on this board it happens pretty much daily. Really? In my 13 years on this board, I don’t think I’ve seen it even once. Somehow I’ve managed to avoid every time. Maybe threads like that just don’t interest me. ---
**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2013, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/men-who-stare-and-act-ashamed-about-it/653020/60 "2013-03-15T19:54:45Z")
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