# MidAtlantic Birthday Dopefest? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 11, 2001, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571 "2001-01-11T19:35:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MannyL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@MannyL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MannyL)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/21 "2001-01-16T08:27:38Z")
If there are any dopers from the NYC area attending and would give me a lift. I’d pay for gas and trolls. I mean tolls I think I can attened otherwise it looks like I will not be able to make it. I am supposed to go to a friends party sometime in Feb but she keeps forgetting to tell me the date. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/22 "2001-01-16T14:45:39Z")
Question: Which would people prefer? A) meet at a restaurant (one with a bar) and hang out there for the evening. You would pay for your food & drinks, there wouldn’t be much moving around freely, might be hard to hear people, might get kicked out of our tables after eating if they are busy… or B) meet at the clubhouse at my development and hang out there. You would be encouraged but not required to chip in for booze and pizza or some other type of meal-food plus snacks (there is a liquor store 3 minutes away, and 2 grocery stores. We have a van. A pilgrimage could be made to get just the right stuff.) and to cover the rental of the place for the evening. Wandering around freely, talking to people, no background noise, no pesky other customers to worry about bothering… Which sounds best to people, and I’ll start looking into the costs for that choice? ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_griffin-kentzel/32/14787_2.png) [@Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Griffin-Kentzel)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/23 "2001-01-16T14:59:21Z")
I vote for clubhouse! ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/24 "2001-01-16T15:30:34Z")
I would love to come for this shindig…and wish DaOpalCat a most bodacious birthday…but I don;t know if I can. I’ve gone to two of these…er, three of these things in the last couple of months, and I think Tark is getting sick of being left with the wee ones over the weekends, not to mention the fact that he misses me when I go (awwwwww…). I’ll try, though. And I vote for clubhouse, should my vote count; the only people we’ll piss off are each other. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/25 "2001-01-16T15:50:22Z")
Bring the wee ones with you!! ---
**Author:** ![Falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Falcon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falcon)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2001, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/26 "2001-01-16T15:52:38Z")
I vote for clubhouse! ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/27 "2001-01-24T00:15:16Z")
I’d like to party with the Kitty and everyone, but I need to know where to go. Since this is in NoVA, I might be able to get GF to come with if we can get a non-smoking or drinking section. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ChiefScott](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@ChiefScott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChiefScott)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 12:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/28 "2001-01-24T00:27:50Z")
> [@](#): > > We have a van. A pilgrimage could be made to get just the right stuff. Will there be moose schlong or yetis available? Can you say “guy stuff” boys and girls? ---
**Author:** ![Lucretia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@Lucretia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucretia)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/29 "2001-01-24T03:31:51Z")
Well, heck. I’ve been wanting to meet you for a long time, Opal, so I hope to see you at Montfort and Anniz’s fest, but we have plans for your birthday weekend. I hope you have a happy one! ---
**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 3:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/30 "2001-01-24T03:44:51Z")
I think I can come, and clubhouse sounds good. Ohhhh! Is it in a tree? ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/31 "2001-01-24T19:07:36Z")
Well, GF is too shy to attend. At the very least, I might be able to get her to bring me there & back. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2001, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/32 "2001-01-24T21:48:28Z")
Well the phone number to call to inquire about the clubhouse has been temporarily disconnected (“at the owner’s request” according to the message…??) but one of my neighbors said he thinks it is $200-$300 to rent it. Anyway, the other alternative is Carlos O’Kelly’s, which is a mexican restaurant just up the street. They have a smaller dining room in the back that we could probably take over for the evening, and they have a bar. They also have karaoke but I don’t know if they do it on Saturday nights or not. Heh. ---
**Author:** ![dcnewsman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d6d6ee/32.png) [@dcnewsman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dcnewsman)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/33 "2001-02-01T03:53:04Z")
I haven’t seen anything new on this in awhile. Are we still on? Where are we doing this? Please update us… ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/34 "2001-02-01T13:00:43Z")
Hi! Sorry, I’ve been in Florida, but YES we are still doing this. We are doing it at Carlos O’Kelly’s restaurant 9959 Main St, Fairfax, VA 22031-3906 Phone: (703)591-7113 Saturday, Feb. 10 We haven’t set a time yet… what do people want? 7pm? Continued at my place afterward, for further social hijinks. Anyone up for breakfast at the Old Country Buffet? It’s one price for all you can eat and they lay out quite a spread. They only do breakfast on the weekends. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/35 "2001-02-01T13:05:15Z")
(The clubhouse idea fell through because the number to call to inquire is disconnected! Arg. My neighbor thinks it costs around $200-$300 to rent it for the evening, which might have been a bit cost prohibitive anyway) ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/36 "2001-02-01T13:07:15Z")
ATTENDEES (some are definite, some are hopeful) OpalCat UndeadDude Nicky Billdo Cajun Man DrMatrix ChiefScott MannyL Silo Falcon Ukelele Ike ultress dcnewsman Sqrlcub Jeff Olsen weirddave ---
**Author:** ![ChiefScott](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@ChiefScott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChiefScott)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/37 "2001-02-01T15:36:30Z")
My son has asked me to go to a school play on the ninth, so I’ll be up in N.J. (if I can get my car running reliably). I must regretfully beg off, **Ope**. ---
**Author:** ![Spritle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@Spritle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spritle)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/38 "2001-02-01T16:50:05Z")
Hey, **Opal** , my burfday is the 12[sup]th[/sup], and I’d **love** to celebrate w/ y’all, but we have family plans on Saturday. ☹ Maybe the next one… ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/39 "2001-02-01T19:52:40Z")
Argh. I’d _love_ to show up, but I’m probably going to the one on the 3rd AND I might have to throw together birthday for the kidling on the 10th. Dernit. Spit. Crap. I’ll try, though. Sounds like a good time. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571/40 "2001-02-01T20:37:30Z")
Btw, children are welcome. I forgot to add that before. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/midatlantic-birthday-dopefest/49571.md?page=3)