# Middle class white democrats and their experience of being a marginalized and unsafe group under Trump

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**Category:** Politics & Elections\
**Tags:** trump\
**Created:** [May 12, 2026, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028 "2026-05-12T22:26:25Z")\
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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/21 "2026-05-15T15:09:59Z")

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> [@Eric1](#):
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> I think I’m in the demographic in the title but wouldn’t compare my daily life to people that are oppressed

I agree, we aren’t experiencing anywhere near what they go through.

My point is that normally people who are white, educated and middle class are insulated from the conseuences of the evils that America is capable of. its why so many keep saying ‘this isn’t america’ in the current situation. But this is america and always has been, its just that white middle class people are seeing it for the first time, and their wealth, class, race, education, etc isn’t protecting them from seeing it like it normally does.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/22 "2026-05-15T15:20:15Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> I need some anti-Trump wear. I’ve got one sweat shirt, but it’s too hot for summer.

I think you should pick out a simple rainbow silicon bracelet. I think the rainbow lets everyone know where you stand, and puts many people at ease.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/UVepoXddTW4/maxresdefault.jpg "TRYGG - Oslo Pride 2025") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVepoXddTW4)

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/23 "2026-05-15T15:30:27Z")

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> [@Wesley\_Clark](#):
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> My point is that normally people who are white, educated and middle class are insulated from the conseuences of the evils that America is capable of. its why so many keep saying ‘this isn’t america’ in the current situation. But this is america and always has been, its just that white middle class people are seeing it for the first time, and their wealth, class, race, education, etc isn’t protecting them from seeing it like it normally does.

Or, and I might be going out on a limb here, most Americans don’t share in the Ultra-Liberal view of America as some sort of totalitarian fascist failed state.

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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/24 "2026-05-15T15:39:05Z")

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> Or, and I might be going out on a limb here, most Americans don’t share in the Ultra-Liberal view of America as some sort of totalitarian fascist failed state

But America is and always has been a totalitarian fascist state for black people. Slavery and Jim Crow were totalitarian dictatorships.

Which is my point. Gun violence is not an issue as long as it only affects black people. When it gets into the white community, its a national emergency. Same with drugs, as long as it only affects the black community its fine and the response is brutal police. When it affects teh white community, its a national emergency.

Middle class whites are used to America valuing them, caring about their well being, caring about their input, wanting to solve their problems. Black people have lived their entire time in the country knowing the country wants to hurt them, make their life harder and take away their rights.

Under Trump, middle class whites are getting a taste of what America is truly capable of and seeing what its like when America doesn’t value you and actively wants to hurt you, and its causing a lot of culture shock.

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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/25 "2026-05-15T15:40:19Z")

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> Or, and I might be going out on a limb here, most Americans don’t share in the Ultra-Liberal view of America as some sort of totalitarian fascist failed state.

It sure looks that way to the people who regularly have the boot applied to them.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/26 "2026-05-15T16:01:49Z")

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I have a shirt with a KKK hood, a US Confederate cap, and a Nazi hat pictured on it.

The text/caption just says “Same shit, different hat”

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**Author:** ![deltogre](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/deltogre/32/5041_2.png) [@deltogre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/deltogre)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/27 "2026-05-15T21:00:07Z")

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I am cis-male, white, like sour cream white.

My aunt, cousin, so many fraternity brothers I can’t count, and friends, are LGBTQIA+ I can’t count.

I have long been an ally. I’ve not always been the best ally, but dammit, I am. I’ve gotten a lot better at it.

My 7-year-old niece made me a Keychain of rainbow beads. Those beads are outside my pocket. Always.

Very, VERY long story made…shorter. My wide is an assistant principal. A student went missing. Turns out she was taken to a reprogramming camp in Somalia because she was trans.

She escaped. Her only outlet was my wife. Naturally, when the embassy called, we took her in.

She is doing great.

Here is where it ties in: I live in the reddest part of Central Ohio. Like, “next to a gun club” red. Fortunately, most people around here know me well, and know not to fuck with her.

But I do worry…

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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/28 "2026-05-15T22:39:20Z")

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I think this story is relevant to the thread, but it is funny enough to tell anyway. A Greek mathematician was marrying in Bloomington IN a white-bread American woman. When they got a marriage license, the clerk filled in the form. One of the items was race. For the woman he checked “white”. For the man, he checked “other” and and on the line added “white”. So as they joked, she was white and he was other white.

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**Author:** ![F.U.Shakespeare](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@F.U.Shakespeare](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/F.U.Shakespeare)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/29 "2026-05-15T23:38:56Z")

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Reading this story made me feel like I was in a _Twilight Zone_ episode! Details:

My late father was a Greek immigrant. When he married my mother (in 1948, in rural western Maryland) my mother’s race was listed as “White”, and my father’s was left blank. We have surmised that the clerk didn’t know whether Greeks were considered White, because he probably hadn’t seen many of them. Many people who today are considered White might not have been in the relatively recent past. There’s an aphorism I can’t recall exactly, but it says something like “if one person is discriminated against, we all are.” The above incident incident made me realize how true this is.

Of course, I’ve never been denied rights or subjected to discriminatory laws the way Black people, Native Americans, Jews and other groups have in America.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 11:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/30 "2026-05-16T11:31:37Z")

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I’m confused. This reads like “A student from Ohio was sent to Somalia?” Is that right?

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**Author:** ![FlikTheBlue](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fliktheblue/32/10972_2.png) [@FlikTheBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FlikTheBlue)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 12:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/31 "2026-05-16T12:01:24Z")

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> [@Wesley\_Clark](#):
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> My impression is educated middle class whites are used to being insulated from the dangers of America and what it is capable of. Yes there are minority groups within that rank like LGBT, Jewish, etc who know what it is like to be a minority and a target. But I feel like a lot of people who are used to being protected by their race, education, income, class, etc are seeing the dangers for what they have always been.
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> Supposedly this is one reason Sanders was a candidate of educated white liberals, and not working class POC. Educated white liberals can afford to gamble on a potential utopia that will likely never materialize because if it fails they are protected by race, class, education and wealth.
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> But people who aren’t in that group need concrete, incremental reforms and protection from mistreatment from people actively trying to harm them.

I agree with the last paragraph. But from what I can tell, that (incremental reforms and protection from mistreatment from people actively trying to harm them) is exactly what America had from roughly the end of WWII up until 1/20/2017. Bernie represents those who want it all at once rather than incrementally. In that sense, yes, he’s a gamble, but one who can, and has backfired when those favoring the “all at once or nothing” approach fail to show up to vote because they hate incrementalism despite it’s proven 70 or so year track record (see the 1994, 2000, 2010, 2016, and 2024 elections among some of the examples of this phenomenon).

> [@Roderick\_Femm](#):
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> The politicians that are trying to make my life worse do not, actually, represent the majority of voters. It is a very united minority that is running things for now. I don’t know if that affects your thesis, because it’s “who’s in charge” that is the relevant question, not whether they are the majority. But the government does not represent the majority, due to various flukes in our electoral system and the failure of many people to vote.
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> Do I think it’s salutary that some kinds of repression are being spread around slightly more evenly than before? Maybe. If it leads to more people being against all repression against anyone. But it is more likely to lead to a kind of competitive repression, where each group seeks to step on the enemy group whenever they get into power. If that’s your goal, then you’re no better than the other side. What’s the point of defending liberal values if what you really want is to act like a thug against people who disagree with you?

I sort of agree with you, but sort of don’t. When liberal are in charge, there has to be punishment dealt out to the bullies that acted illegally. Not just a tap on the wrist, but real punishment. The failure of the Biden administration to do anything meaningful about the 1/6/2021 insurrectionists is exhibit #1 in this tendency that liberals have to believe that “forgive and try to rehabilitate is better than punishing people”. That’s a great belief to have if we’re talking about someone that is addicted to alcohol or other substances, or maybe someone who broke the law as a means of survival (shoplifting food, driving a vehicle that doesn’t meet inspection standards, sleeping in public areas that are illegal to do so while homeless, etc.). It’s a terrible belief when it comes to violent criminals for whoever reform is extremely unlikely at best. For those people, locking them away and throwing away the key (maybe not for life, but for a really long time), is the only sane response.

> [@solost](#):
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> I think of a variation on the old saying “the best trick the devil ever pulled is convincing people he didn’t exist”. My variation is “the best trick the Republicans ever pulled is convincing ordinary Americans that they benefit from the same policies that benefit the super rich”.

Great saying. Despite discussions on this topic in other threads on this board, I still don’t understand how that trick is actually pulled off. Yet, it undeniably is the case that it has been.

> [@Wesley\_Clark](#):
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> > [@msmith537](#):
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> > Or, and I might be going out on a limb here, most Americans don’t share in the Ultra-Liberal view of America as some sort of totalitarian fascist failed state
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> But America is and always has been a totalitarian fascist state for black people. Slavery and Jim Crow were totalitarian dictatorships.
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> Which is my point. Gun violence is not an issue as long as it only affects black people. When it gets into the white community, its a national emergency. Same with drugs, as long as it only affects the black community its fine and the response is brutal police. When it affects teh white community, its a national emergency.
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> Middle class whites are used to America valuing them, caring about their well being, caring about their input, wanting to solve their problems. Black people have lived their entire time in the country knowing the country wants to hurt them, make their life harder and take away their rights.

America used to be a totalitarian fascist state for Black people and other minorities. But it hasn’t always been. There was real, legitimate progress made over the decades, most since WWII, but some even before that. By saying it has “always” been a totalitarian fascist state for Black people, that plays into the all or nothing thinking that gets the anti-fascist side into trouble when Republicans win low D turnout elections.

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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/32 "2026-05-16T14:04:26Z")

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> [@FlikTheBlue](#):
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> America used to be a totalitarian fascist state for Black people and other minorities. But it hasn’t always been. There was real, legitimate progress made over the decades, most since WWII, but some even before that. By saying it has “always” been a totalitarian fascist state for Black people, that plays into the all or nothing thinking that gets the anti-fascist side into trouble when Republicans win low D turnout elections.

In the OP I mentioned that the US was a totalitarian dictatorship for black people until a few decades ago. I think that is a fair statement.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/33 "2026-05-16T15:45:52Z")

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> [@FlikTheBlue](#):
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> I sort of agree with you, but sort of don’t. When liberal are in charge, there has to be punishment dealt out to the bullies that acted illegally. Not just a tap on the wrist, but real punishment. The failure of the Biden administration to do anything meaningful about the 1/6/2021 insurrectionists is exhibit #1 in this tendency that liberals have to believe that “forgive and try to rehabilitate is better than punishing people”.

Uh, they got sent to prison. We are not quite at the bullet in the back of the head. Took a long time to round them up. Trump of course pardoned them and it apears he is going to send them money. Probably because felons have a hard time getting a job. And, well Trump needs to fill out his army of goons and thugs.

We have the Brown Shirts (ICE). Who is gonna be the SS and the Gestapo?

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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/34 "2026-05-16T16:16:57Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> Uh, they got sent to prison. We are not quite at the bullet in the back of the head. Took a long time to round them up. Trump of course pardoned them and it apears he is going to send them money. Probably because felons have a hard time getting a job. And, well Trump needs to fill out his army of goons and thugs.

The ringleader got off without any consequences.

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**Author:** ![FlikTheBlue](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fliktheblue/32/10972_2.png) [@FlikTheBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FlikTheBlue)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/35 "2026-05-16T16:17:31Z")

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> [@enipla](#):
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> Uh, they got sent to prison. We are not quite at the bullet in the back of the head. Took a long time to round them up. Trump of course pardoned them and it apears he is going to send them money. Probably because felons have a hard time getting a job. And, well Trump needs to fill out his army of goons and thugs.

There’s a pretty big middle ground between a bullet to the back of the head and the one year give or take a few months that most of them got, assuming they got any jail time at all. IMHO they should have gotten a 10 to 20 years, not a few months. Yes, I know Trump eventually pardoned them. But at the rate things were going, even if Harris had won, almost none of them would have faced any kind of substantial penalty. We can’t blame that on Trump.

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**Author:** ![FlikTheBlue](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fliktheblue/32/10972_2.png) [@FlikTheBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FlikTheBlue)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/36 "2026-05-16T16:27:35Z")

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As to the main premise of the OP, I don’t think it’s just middle class white Democrats that are joining the ranks of the “they might come for me”. It’s anybody that may have crossed Trump at some point. They don’t even have to be Democrats or liberals, as shown by the treatment given to John Bolton, James Comey, etc.

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/37 "2026-05-16T16:49:21Z")

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> [@Wesley\_Clark](#):
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> The ringleader got off without any consequences.

Yup. And now treasonous moron has coned Americans out of Billions. And congress won’t do a thing.

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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/38 "2026-05-16T18:57:11Z")

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> [@FlikTheBlue](#):
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> The failure of the Biden administration to do anything meaningful about the 1/6/2021 insurrectionists is exhibit #1 in this tendency that liberals have to believe that “forgive and try to rehabilitate is better than punishing people”. (snip) It’s a terrible belief when it comes to violent criminals for whoever reform is extremely unlikely at best.

That’s quite a distance away from what I was discussing. People who have broken the law should be prosecuted under the law. And that discussion is even a further distance away from the issues raised in the OP, i.e. the alleged widespread experience of white, educated, middle-class men WEMCM) of feeling the kind of repression previously reserved for minorities and others not blessed with WEMCM privilege.

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**Author:** ![FlikTheBlue](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fliktheblue/32/10972_2.png) [@FlikTheBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FlikTheBlue)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/39 "2026-05-16T19:14:04Z")

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> [@Roderick\_Femm](#):
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> And that discussion is even a further distance away from the issues raised in the OP, i.e. the alleged widespread experience of white, educated, middle-class men WEMCM) of feeling the kind of repression previously reserved for minorities and others not blessed with WEMCM privilege.

It’s related in the sense that the people who are conducting those prosecutions, not just of the WEMCM people with privilege, but anyone who is being wrongfully prosecuted, should themselves face a firm, harsh, justice when the shoe is on the other foot. No more “forgiving them so that we can all get back to being civil” BS, which from what I saw was how Biden was approaching things.

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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
**Post date:** [May 16, 2026, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/middle-class-white-democrats-and-their-experience-of-being-a-marginalized-and-unsafe-group-under-trump/1030028/40 "2026-05-16T19:21:21Z")

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> [@FlikTheBlue](#):
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> No more “forgiving them so that we can all get back to being civil” BS, which from what I saw was how Biden was approaching things.

And who, exactly, is arguing for that?

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