# Mild Pitting of Beck

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [October 12, 2024, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691 "2024-10-12T05:25:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/221 "2024-10-14T04:35:50Z")

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> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> Nope. Not at all.

Then why did you post it? Did you just _want_ us to think it was from her?

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/222 "2024-10-14T04:38:19Z")

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Somebody on The Dope, a community that he flamed and abandoned, came thru for him. He came back, and was thankful, and specifically named Beck in some kind of apology. Said something about how he was wrong about her or something.

That’s it.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/223 "2024-10-14T04:41:53Z")

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> [@needscoffee](#):
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> Did you just _want_ us to think it was from her?

No. Not at all. Can’t even see how that could be insinuated. I’m not privy to Beck’s finincial contrubutions.

EDIT: Except the ones she explicitly declined

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**Author:** ![Sylvanz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Sylvanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sylvanz)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/224 "2024-10-14T04:44:22Z")

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Being the pit and all … you’re a dick.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/225 "2024-10-14T04:45:39Z")

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> [@Sylvanz](#):
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> Is there no rule here about talking about PM’s _ **Private** _ Messages?

By the way, the poster in question has said they will provide evidence to the contrary.

I’ll still waiting.

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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/226 "2024-10-14T04:47:02Z")

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> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> He came back, and was thankful, and specifically named Beck in some kind of apology. Said something about how he was wrong about her or something.

So you don’t know the “large” donation was from her. Either would he, unless she used an identifying email address, _and_ he knew her name. So either it was not actually anonymous, or you’d like us to think it was her whether it was or not. .

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/227 "2024-10-14T04:48:22Z")

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Yeah. You are in Good Company with this opinion. Many years of empirical evidence proves your point. I won’t argue.

But my Dogs love Me! I bought them a Jeep!

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/228 "2024-10-14T04:51:16Z")

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> [@needscoffee](#):
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> So either it was not actually anonymous, or you’d like us to think it was her whether it was or not.

Not at all. Sorry for any confusion. Just pointing out that The Dope, as a Community, came together for this guy.

And he saw fit to mention her on his return. Nothing more. C’mon. Well all read the thread.

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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/229 "2024-10-14T04:54:03Z")

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> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> He came back, and was thankful, and specifically named Beck in some kind of apology. Said something about how he was wrong about her or something.

Dude, he thanked her for her kind thoughts in the thread. Don’t try to insinuate she made a large anonymous donation. Maybe she did, but if you don’t know so, then don’t insinuate it.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/230 "2024-10-14T05:00:47Z")

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Okay, what kind of Gaping Asshole are you that you think I promoted the idea that Beck did Jack Fucking Shit?

But he did come back and say he was wrong about her and issued an apology.

That’s it. That was the point. The Dope Community (which is in a state of Shit right now, if you ask me) rallied around a former troubled Mod. He came back, he said some Righteous shit. Primarily, being wrong about Beck.

Really? Is there anything more we need to discuss about this? In NO WAY did I insinuate where any donations came from.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/231 "2024-10-14T05:05:02Z")

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> [@Sylvanz](#):
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> Being the pit and all … you’re a dick.

But can we still be Friends? 😉

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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/232 "2024-10-14T05:16:25Z")

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> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> Okay, what kind of Gaping Asshole are you that you think I promoted the idea that Beck did Jack Fucking Shit?

> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> Flamed out over some dispute with Beck and flounced.
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> Oh, he was back recently, after getting bailed out by Dopers, including one big “Anonymous” doner, and issued an apology to the very same Beck.

> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> In NO WAY did I insinuate where any donations came from.

Okay.

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**Author:** ![Sylvanz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Sylvanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sylvanz)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/233 "2024-10-14T05:19:52Z")

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Sure, as long as I never share anything with you in confidence.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/234 "2024-10-14T05:19:56Z")

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I apologize. The use of the term “very same” was completely wrong in that context.

I see how that was misconstrued.

Please forgive any insult upthred.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/235 "2024-10-14T05:20:48Z")

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Are you a lawyer, bychance?

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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/236 "2024-10-14T05:22:10Z")

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> [@Gatopescado](#):
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> Please forgive any insult upthred

Done! No worries.

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**Author:** ![Sylvanz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Sylvanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sylvanz)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/237 "2024-10-14T05:22:42Z")

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Oh man I wish I had that sort of money.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/238 "2024-10-14T05:25:20Z")

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> [@Sylvanz](#):
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> Sure, as long as I never share anything with you in confidence.

Please remember, these PM’s were between other people, and one of them thought they were inappropriate, and were being victimized. She sought my advice. They ain’t confidential when they shared them with me.

I can print them on the back of The First Lady"s Raincoat

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**Author:** ![Sylvanz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Sylvanz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sylvanz)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/239 "2024-10-14T05:27:16Z")

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Yep tell one person a secret and it’s not a secret anymore.

Too bad Jerry Springer is dead.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2024, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mild-pitting-of-beck/1008691/240 "2024-10-14T05:27:19Z")

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Thanks. That was kinda like how Walz said he “carried weapons in war”.

Close, but no Cigar.

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