Just got back from the meeting. The receptionist was pushing a brochure on me, urging me to report an auto claim, even “helpfully” pointing out that there is a open-line telephone over there. I insisted on meeting with an insurance agent. She put me in, told me to wait and have a seat. While I was looking over my papers, I heard my name being called, looked up, and saw the insurance agent. He made a good impression on me. We talked about the weather, how it was a cold morning and that it’s now summer. Then we got down to business. The insurance agent asked if I was a visual learner. I thought that was an interesting question. I told him that, yes, partly, I am a visual learner. He got out a sheet of paper and we sketched out the scene of the accident. It was intense! I knew I was in a car insurance office, but it felt like I was in a court of law.
Here’s how the accident played out, according to the sheet we both wrote out:
12:00 PM – I go to lunch.
12:03 PM – I get in my car.
12:05 PM – accident
I look for oncoming traffic.
She’s looking for oncoming traffic. She decides not to go.
While looking for oncoming traffic, I see cars turning into the parking lot.
I look out for traffic, decide to go, start to turn, and see car’s glare which impared my vision, hit her car, and heard impact. (Did it impare her vision?)
12:06 – I get out of car, inspect her damage noticing scuffing on left side of rear bumper while simultaneously she is rolling down her window presumably inspecting my damage noticing dent in the right side of the hood. From my point of view, I see her looking at me. I look at her and she says “Pull over to the side and we’ll talk.” She calls the police. We talk. The police arrive. The police officer gives us a report to fill out jointly. We fill out the report to the best of our ability. The police officer help us fill it out and asks questions and we briefly discuss the accident. The police officer leaves. The other driver leaves. I leave. Approximate end time: 12:30 PM. I come back from lunch at 1:00 PM.
The insurance agent explained to me that unfortunately the police department won’t care about the car that was turning into the parking lot. They won’t care that the car’s glare impared my vision. In fact, the police report form only had room for two parties, two cars.
The easy part: Deciding to not report an auto claim; instead, getting a reference to a shop. Bottom line: Tell the police (already done), don’t tell the insurance (report an auto claim), get repairs (need to do), and my insurance rates will not go up (no surcharge).
It’s 24 hours after the accident. In 48 hours (72 hours after the police report) I need to get a copy of the police report and get an estimate on the repairs. The good news: I’m off Wednesday.
The hard part: Knowing what she will do. First of all, I am glad that my car received the brunt of the impact and that her car only sustained scuffing. Optimally, of course, we would have both recieved scuffing. Theoretically, there would have been no impact. Secondly, I’m glad that she said “Pull over to the side and we’ll talk” and not “Pull over to the side. We’ll talk.” Meaning, you’ll be getting a call from me.
Me and my insurance agent spend most of our hour long meeting going over what she could do. In short, either I call her or she calls me. Her not filing any claims regarding scuffing on rear bumper depends on whether she wants to buff out the scuffing. Worst case scenario is her insurance company calling my insurance company… One alternative scenario is for her deciding to settle in which case she goes to collision shop, gets $100 estimate, calls me with the estimate, and I offer to pay the estimate. Another scenario involves me calling her in 48 hours asking “Have you decided whether you want to file a claim?” and then asking her “Would you like me to pay for your damages instead of filing a claim?”
Should I call her? What should I say?