# Misogynist lyrics/songs from the pre-hip-hop era

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 23, 2006, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880 "2006-08-23T13:37:03Z")\
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**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2006, 10:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/41 "2006-08-23T22:55:25Z")

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Shelley Fabares - Johnny Get Angry (also by Hal David)

_Oh, Johnny get angry, Johnny get mad  
Give me the biggest lecture I ever had  
I want a brave man, I want a cave man  
Johnny, show me that you care, really care for me_

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**Author:** ![Jean\_Poutine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a5b964/32.png) [@Jean\_Poutine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jean_Poutine)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2006, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/42 "2006-08-23T23:02:38Z")

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Ahhh…Gary Puckett. Any truth to the rumor he is John Mark Karr’s favorite singer 🙂

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**Author:** ![medstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@medstar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/medstar)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/43 "2006-08-24T00:59:16Z")

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My contribution is a Todd Rundgren song, **We gotta get you a woman** , which contains the wonderful line, “She may be stupid, but she sure is fun”. I wonder if he’s ever publicly apologized for the meanspiritedness of this song.

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**Author:** ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/44 "2006-08-24T02:09:47Z")

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[QUOTE=Evil Captor]  
You’ll have to spell this one out for me. The lyrics you cite are about how much James Taylor likes a woman. How is that sexist?  
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All right. Let’s say you’re a guy. The woman you love sings to you, “When you give me that pretty little pout it turns me inside out – because I love you.” Does this warm the cockles of your heart?

I mean, I can picture a girly-girl type going all warm and liquid at this sentiment. That’s why it’s sexist. I didn’t mean to imply that it was bad. I did mean to imply that I didn’t think much of it, even back when I was young and tender and not such a cranky grouch.

As opposed to an equal opportunity love song. Maybe I’ll think of one in a minute.

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**Author:** ![Loopydude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e56c9b/32.png) [@Loopydude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loopydude)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/45 "2006-08-24T03:10:06Z")

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I’m pretty sure that song was written for Taylor’s daughter…when she was, like, three.

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**Author:** ![Ogre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ecb155/32.png) [@Ogre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ogre)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/46 "2006-08-24T03:31:27Z")

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[QUOTE=saoirse]  
A friend of mine had an album wiht a Robert Johnson song called “Red Lip My Doodlewang.” It wasn’t really misogynist, though.  
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Uh, I don’t know if you’re remembering incorrectly, or if it was a strange misattribution, but I’m pretty sure Robert Johnson (at least not the one I’m thinking of…y’know, “The King of the Delta Blues”) never recorded a song by that name.

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**Author:** ![Loopydude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e56c9b/32.png) [@Loopydude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loopydude)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/47 "2006-08-24T03:46:02Z")

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I know I’ve heard “doodlewang” before, but ah doo nah theenk eet meens hwatchoo theenk eet meens.

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**Author:** ![Evil\_Captor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f17d59/32.png) [@Evil\_Captor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Captor)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/48 "2006-08-24T03:52:55Z")

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[QUOTE=Hilarity N. Suze]  
All right. Let’s say you’re a guy.  
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Seems a reasonable hypothesis, for the sake of argument, but I reserve the right to object at any time.

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> The woman you love sings to you, “When you give me that pretty little pout it turns me inside out – because I love you.” Does this warm the cockles of your heart?

Sure. Means I don’t have to buy her anything to get that effect. Cool. She likes me 'cause I’m cute. I’d put my fingers in a strand of hair and twirl it, too, if that would help. The vacant look on my face … it’s all natural!

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> I mean, I can picture a girly-girl type going all warm and liquid at this sentiment. That’s why it’s sexist. I didn’t mean to imply that it was bad.

Well, I perceived it more as an expression of tender romantic feelings or extreme affection rather than a description of how a woman should behave. It’s more like two young lovers goofing around in the throes of young love than anything you need to take seriously.

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> I did mean to imply that I didn’t think much of it, even back when I was young and tender and not such a cranky grouch.

Hey, nobody ever said you were cranky.

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> As opposed to an equal opportunity love song. Maybe I’ll think of one in a minute.

… doesn’t quite scan right, but I think I’m on the right track …

When you give me that knowing look  
I feel increased solidarity  
Because I respect you  
As an equal in the march to glorious sexual egalitarianism and increased understanding with oppressed peoples of all the world  
Yes I do!

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 4:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/49 "2006-08-24T04:00:44Z")

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[QUOTE=Evil Captor]

… doesn’t quite scan right, but I think I’m on the right track …

When you give me that knowing look  
I feel increased solidarity  
Because I respect you  
As an equal in the march to glorious sexual egalitarianism and increased understanding with oppressed peoples of all the world  
Yes I do!  
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\<snerk\>

\<chortle\>

BWAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

😃

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**Author:** ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/50 "2006-08-24T04:17:26Z")

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[QUOTE=Loopydude]  
I’m pretty sure that song was written for Taylor’s daughter…when she was, like, three.  
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Never too young to start objectifying them . . .

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**Author:** ![astorian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ad7895/32.png) [@astorian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astorian)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/51 "2006-08-24T05:29:01Z")

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Songs don’ come more mysogynistic than the Fabulous Thunderbirds’ “How Do You Spell Love ( M-O-N-E-Y)”, a rant about how women are nothing but greedy whores and leeches who just use men for meal tickets.

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**Author:** ![devilsknew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4da419/32.png) [@devilsknew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/devilsknew)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/52 "2006-08-24T05:44:35Z")

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Wang Dang Sweet Poontang…

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**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 6:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/53 "2006-08-24T06:09:12Z")

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I was a teenager in the 1950’s, but this romantic lyric from the 1930’s (I think) was what I was taught that all men wanted in a woman:

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“The girl that I marry will have to be as soft and as pink as a nursury.  
The girl I call my own will wear satin and laces and smell of cologne.  
Her nails will be polished and in her hair she’ll wear a gardenia…A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be.”

It’s so sexist --which is admittedly different from what the OP asked for.)

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**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 8:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/54 "2006-08-24T08:40:35Z")

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The sond Der Trihs is thinking about is “He Hit Me (And It Felt Like a Kiss)” by the Crystals. Bizarrely enough, it was co-written by Carole King.

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**Author:** ![LateComer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b5ac83/32.png) [@LateComer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LateComer)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/55 "2006-08-24T13:01:04Z")

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The first thing that came to my mind when opening this thread was AC/DC’s “The Jack.” Honorable mention to “Dirty Deeds” (“Gotta lady and you want her gone . . .”) and Soul Stripper:

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> And when she had me hollow and naked  
> That’s when she put me down  
> Pulled out a knife and flashed it before me  
> Stuck it in and turned it around

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**Author:** ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/56 "2006-08-24T14:02:15Z")

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I always thought that _Getting Better All the Time_ was intended as sarcasm–snark in spades.  
I thought the guy “doing the best that I can” wasn’t really trying.

Re Mary Chapin Carpenter–love that song. It’s a savage look at the death of dreams and also a pointed commentary on role expectations. All this from a pop song.

Who sang the one about “really love your peaches, wanna shake your tree?”

Ugh–sexist, but not misogynistic.  
I never thought James Taylor was singing to his 3 year old. The rest of the song really doesn’t fit with her as the focus, no? I never liked that “pretty lil pout” line either. I liked the PC version posted here, though… 😉

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**Author:** ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/57 "2006-08-24T14:04:42Z")

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[QUOTE=Zoe]  
I was a teenager in the 1950’s, but this romantic lyric from the 1930’s (I think) was what I was taught that all men wanted in a woman:

(Excerpts)

“The girl that I marry will have to be as soft and as pink as a nursury.  
The girl I call my own will wear satin and laces and smell of cologne.  
Her nails will be polished and in her hair she’ll wear a gardenia…A doll I can carry, the girl that I marry must be.”

It’s so sexist --which is admittedly different from what the OP asked for.)  
[/QUOTE]

That’s from _Annie Get Your Gun_ --beautiful melody. Needs a change in lyrics.  
How about songs from _Grease_? Perhaps not so much openly misogynistic as celebratory of the thuggish behavior for guys (a real pussy wagon etc).

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**Author:** ![saoirse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@saoirse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saoirse)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/58 "2006-08-24T15:11:21Z")

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[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]  
Country music is full of sexism and misogyny. From “Attitude Adjustment” by Hank Williams Jr:  
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I can’t imagine where he gets that sexism from:

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> The way to keep a woman happy  
> And doin’ what’s right  
> Is to love her every morning  
> And bawl her out at night

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**Author:** ![saoirse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@saoirse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saoirse)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/59 "2006-08-24T15:15:37Z")

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[QUOTE=eleanorigby]  
Who sang the one about “really love your peaches, wanna shake your tree?”  
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Are you talking about [The Clovers](http://leoslyrics.com/listlyrics.php;jsessionid=BD0684DE98EA15670D67F87B90EDE1E0?hid=fJlRfG%2FKG7w%3D)? Probably [Steve Miller](http://www.straightdope.com/classics/a4_065.html).

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**Post date:** [August 24, 2006, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogynist-lyrics-songs-from-the-pre-hip-hop-era/369880/60 "2006-08-24T18:57:31Z")

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I don’t think it’s sexist or misogynist to express physical attraction to a woman. For instance, I’m pleased that my husband likes my peaches and I don’t assume that if he says so, it means he thinks I’m stupid or his property or anything like that. I wouldn’t assume it unless he actually said it, and then I’d laugh and tell him to get back to washing the dishes.

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