# Misogyny, victim-blaming, and the board culture (yet again)

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**Created:** [November 15, 2019, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogyny-victim-blaming-and-the-board-culture-yet-again/843504 "2019-11-15T19:37:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![HurricaneDitka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/96bed5/32.png) [@HurricaneDitka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HurricaneDitka)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2019, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/misogyny-victim-blaming-and-the-board-culture-yet-again/843504/236 "2019-11-20T17:51:39Z")

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> [@Helena330](#):
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> That’s it? Seriously? You’d rather lose a bunch of women posters so you can keep HIM? Message received.

IANAMod and don’t get to make any decisions over who stays and who has to go, but in another recent post, you said this:

> [@Overarching board moderation/culure problems](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/overarching-board-moderation-culure-problems/843635/15):
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> Rather than trying to legislate other people’s behavior, why don’t you modify your own so you don’t give them reasons to say those things to you?

ISTM that there’s some application for those words of yours here as well.

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