# MissBungle - what an unpleasant creature!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [March 7, 2003, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739 "2003-03-07T16:25:44Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Evil\_Captor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f17d59/32.png) [@Evil\_Captor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Captor)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 5:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/41 "2003-03-09T05:43:13Z")

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Well, I find MissBungle very abrasive. It’s not just that her social and political viewpoints differ from my own. Others whose opinions strongly differ from mine, like December and Polycarp, don’t particularly abrade me. I mean I think their brains are screwed in sideways but I don’t wanna bite 'em. MissBungle has a certain … aggressively self-righteous, smarmy quality to her posts that makes me want to bite her, in a virtual sort of way. I really can’t put my finger on exactly what pisses me off about her just yet, but I will eventually if she keeps pissing me off, and then I’ll, I’ll … write a post about it.

That’ll show her.

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**Author:** ![MissBungle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/57b2e6/32.png) [@MissBungle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MissBungle)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/42 "2003-03-09T13:42:55Z")

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_bump_

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**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/43 "2003-03-09T15:24:13Z")

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Bump?

Why the fuck would you want to bump a thread started against you as a flame?

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/44 "2003-03-09T15:30:52Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Jack Batty \*  
> \*\*Bump?
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> Why the fuck would you want to bump a thread started against you as a flame? \*\*

Maybe she’s cold!

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**Author:** ![Tusculan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecd19e/32.png) [@Tusculan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tusculan)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/45 "2003-03-09T15:31:23Z")

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Seeing the bump I’ll give in my 0.5 cents (inflation) as a fellow-newbie. I must say, **MissBungle** that the first couple of your posts seemed a bit harsh, though it is difficult to see where people draw the line. However, having read lately quite a lot of your other posts I see nothing out of order. For what it’s worth, your opinions to my mind do contribute positively to the threads I’ve read. So I for one am glad to see you here. (I also appreciate, if I may be so bold, that your punctuation has become more polished)

For the record, as a newbie I find it hard as well to find the proper tone. It does take some practice to find the exact amount of irony you are allowed to use; I guess the olbies (old-bies? oldies?) are used to each other and know that someone must be joking, while new persons have to earn that good-will.

And **Jack Batty** , I guess that was a vanity bump. A personal pitting within a month, that’s impressive, especially since people step in for you. Congratulations! 😉

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**Author:** ![Lamia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Lamia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamia)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/46 "2003-03-09T16:59:09Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Jack Batty \*  
> \*\*Bump?
> 
> Why the fuck would you want to bump a thread started against you as a flame? \*\*

Maybe she got sick of eating dessert and doing yoga.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/47 "2003-03-09T17:21:45Z")

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Well, we have quite a few self-professed “blunt” posters around here who don’t invoke the ire that **MissBungle** has. For example, say, **Airman Doors** , or **NachosforSara**. Both very blunt, somewhat aggressive posters, who, at the same time, haven’t really rubbed anyone the wrong way like **MissBungle**.

Why is that?

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**Author:** ![Airman\_Doors\_USAF](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Airman\_Doors\_USAF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Airman_Doors_USAF)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/48 "2003-03-09T17:48:50Z")

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Thanks, **Guin**. I think. 😉

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**Author:** ![CrazyCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@CrazyCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrazyCatLady)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/49 "2003-03-09T18:18:59Z")

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Well, **Guin** , that was part of my point. There’s been more than one instance where I’ve read the links in a newbie-Pitting and just had to scratch my head. “Well, shit,” I think, “most of us post worse than this _all the fucking time_ and nobody turns a hair. Why’s everybody jumping down this guy’s throat?”

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/50 "2003-03-09T20:18:59Z")

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**Airman** , for what it’s worth, I’ve met you in real life, and I think you’re a pretty cool individual. So yes, it is a compliment.

What I mean is, peeps, that there are some who are capable of being blunt without being assholes. **MissBungle** does not seem to be one of them.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/51 "2003-03-09T20:48:35Z")

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Heck, I’m just jealous of all the attention. I’ve been here for 2 1/2 years with 2700 posts, and I still think nobody reads my posts. ::sniff:: I guess that’s the problem with trying to be diplomatic and reasonable. Of course, I can say just about anything I want and nobody seems to notice that, either. 😃

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**Author:** ![samarm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@samarm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/samarm)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/52 "2003-03-09T20:54:35Z")

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> \*Originally posted by featherlou \*  
> \*\*Heck, I’m just jealous of all the attention. I’ve been here for 2 1/2 years with 2700 posts, and I still think nobody reads my posts. ::sniff:: I guess that’s the problem with trying to be diplomatic and reasonable. Of course, I can say just about anything I want and nobody seems to notice that, either. 😃 \*\*

I’m shocked and outraged by this, **featherlou**. Rest assured I will be starting a pit thread about your behaviour.

Feel better? 😃

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 9:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/53 "2003-03-09T21:44:27Z")

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Thanks, **samarm**. Appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/54 "2003-03-09T21:52:35Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Jack Batty \*  
> \*\*I’ll back her up on that “Making Love” thread.
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> The guy goes on about he can only enjoy sex by hurting his partners, and she’s being told to shut the fuck for calling him on it?
> 
> That’s fucked up. \*\*

Thank you for cursing, **Jack Batty**. Before your post, this “Pit” thread was starting to sound like a tea party from _Jane Austin_.

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**Author:** ![The\_Peyote\_Coyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5f8ce5/32.png) [@The\_Peyote\_Coyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Peyote_Coyote)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/55 "2003-03-09T21:58:50Z")

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Hell, featherlou, I’ve been on this board almost four years and nobody’s ever pitted me.

I guess (sob) that (sob) nobody likes me!!! (bawwwl!)

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**Author:** ![Tusculan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecd19e/32.png) [@Tusculan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tusculan)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/56 "2003-03-09T22:12:20Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Bosda Di’Chi of Tricor \*  
> \*\*a tea party from _Jane Austin_. \*\*

That’s Jane Austen, you $#%^@&

There, feel better now? 😃

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/57 "2003-03-09T22:24:00Z")

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Yet another vote for “lame and undeserved” Pit thread.

MissBungle, look at the good side. You are being noticed, and your posts are having an impact.

I had 3x as many posts as you before someone pitted me. OTOH, that thread was even lamer than this one.

Stick to your guns, MissBungle.

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**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2003, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/58 "2003-03-09T22:29:05Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Bosda Di’Chi of Tricor \*  
> \*\*Thank you for cursing, **Jack Batty**. \*\*

Hey, “Fuck” is my middle name.

My parents were such jokesters.

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**Author:** ![ultress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/7c8e57/32.png) [@ultress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultress)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2003, 8:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/59 "2003-03-10T08:14:30Z")

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Keep this up and you won’t be taught the secret handshake either.

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**Author:** ![Dinsdale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/97f17d/32.png) [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2003, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/missbungle-what-an-unpleasant-creature/159739/60 "2003-03-10T14:11:06Z")

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Apologies to all of those who consider my OP lame. My phrasing should have tipped folks off to the relatively low energy I wished to afford this issue. She’s just one more unpleasantness in a world teeming with them. I choose to expend far more of my attention towards more positive things. My OP was more of an IMHO, but for the specific object. Was basically expressing a personal preference against consistantly unpleasant people.

Tho some have questioned whether MsB’s posts were pit-worthy, I note no one has yet responded to this question in my OP:

_Just wondering, in her brief tenure on these boards has MissBungle posted ANYTHING that is not mean, judgmental, and/or intolerant? Has she said anything positive? Encouraging?_

No, everything does not always have to be sweetness and light. We would soon get tired of such sunny saccharine. But, speaking only for myself, I find the opposite end of the spectum equally wearisome.

If, MsB is as consistently unpleasant and judgmental in every aspect of her life as she portrays herself on these boards, then IMHO she must be a sorry excuse for a human being. OTOH, if she does have some more redeeming characteristics, I wonder why she chooses to share only the venom with us?

And I submit her vanity bump certainly lends credence to the narcissism characterization.

And I promise to reference goat felching in my next Pit thread.

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