# Mom is dying.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [February 19, 2007, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820 "2007-02-19T16:29:38Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Rysdad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7cd45c/32.png) [@Rysdad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rysdad)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/61 "2007-02-20T02:34:33Z")

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I’m sorry, man.

May peace and strength be yours.

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**Author:** ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/62 "2007-02-20T02:36:05Z")

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Im sorry, **Bosda**. ☹

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/63 "2007-02-20T02:43:26Z")

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Condolences for your loss, **Bosda**.

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**Author:** ![StGermain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stgermain/32/2868_2.png) [@StGermain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StGermain)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/64 "2007-02-20T03:41:46Z")

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My condolences. May your family have peace.

StG

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/65 "2007-02-20T03:45:04Z")

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[QUOTE=Bosda Di’Chi of Tricor]  
She’s dead.  
[/QUOTE]

**Bosda** , I am sorry for your loss.

Jim

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**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/66 "2007-02-20T03:45:09Z")

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Best wishes for your family; may your Mom find rest.

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**Author:** ![Hunter\_Hawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/50afbb/32.png) [@Hunter\_Hawk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hunter_Hawk)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/67 "2007-02-20T04:41:08Z")

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My condolences for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Anastasaeon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Anastasaeon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anastasaeon)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/68 "2007-02-20T04:44:10Z")

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Oh, **Bosda** , I’m so very sorry. You will be in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 5:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/69 "2007-02-20T05:12:58Z")

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Godspeed to you, **Bosda**. Take gentle care of you and yours through this difficult time. I’m so sorry for your loss. ☹

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**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/70 "2007-02-20T05:34:10Z")

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Awwww, **Bosda**. ☹

_lights a candle for **Bosda’s Mom**._

Sweetly be, dear lady.

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**Author:** ![Risha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/5fc32e/32.png) [@Risha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Risha)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 5:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/71 "2007-02-20T05:35:32Z")

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You and your family have my deepest sympathies.

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**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/72 "2007-02-20T05:42:05Z")

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That’s so heart wrenching ☹ I can only imagine what you are going through.

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**Author:** ![Rico](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rico/32/3582_2.png) [@Rico](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rico)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 5:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/73 "2007-02-20T05:45:40Z")

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**Bosda** , I’m so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing.

If you would care to, feel free to e-mail me your mom’s name and I’ll put her on our church prayer list.

Words are never enough. You have many friends here. Take strength and comfort from us.

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**Author:** ![Tuckerfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/eada6e/32.png) [@Tuckerfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tuckerfan)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 8:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/74 "2007-02-20T08:48:57Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 8:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/75 "2007-02-20T08:56:29Z")

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Te acompaño en el sentimiento… I share your feelings.

That line had always seemed trite to me, it didn’t make any sense. Then Dad died, and I understood: a lot of what you feel is grief, but also other things that novels and movies never talk about. Anger, emptiness. You see something that reminds you of that person and abandon your cart in the middle of the supermarket, to go break out in boohooing, howling tears in your car in the parking lot, and you’re not even sure if you’re sad or angry or pitying yourself or what but whatever it is it hurts.

Yours was the first Dopername I recognized. {{{{Bosda}}}}

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**Author:** ![scareyfaerie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scareyfaerie/32/3135_2.png) [@scareyfaerie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scareyfaerie)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 9:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/76 "2007-02-20T09:28:41Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, **Bosda**. May your memories of your mother always be of the best times.

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**Author:** ![Phantom\_Dennis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/51bf81/32.png) [@Phantom\_Dennis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Phantom_Dennis)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 9:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/77 "2007-02-20T09:31:49Z")

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Such a sad, sad, painful thing, to lose a mom. Words fail at moments like these.

Take care of yourself, **Bosda**.

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**Author:** ![picunurse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 9:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/78 "2007-02-20T09:38:35Z")

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**Bosda** , I’m so sorry. I wish there were more words to comfort, but there aren’t. Hold her hand and talk to her, hearing lasts after other senses fade.

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**Author:** ![Silence\_of\_the\_clams](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Silence\_of\_the\_clams](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silence_of_the_clams)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 9:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/79 "2007-02-20T09:47:16Z")

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**Bosda** , I’m so sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mom-is-dying/392820/80 "2007-02-20T13:22:47Z")

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Cremation, after my brother Tommy sees her.

Memorial ceremony at the Episcopal Church (Mom never set foot in the local one, but she was raised in that faith).

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