You’re taking two separate points and assuming I’m incorrectly linking them. The breakdown is fairly straightforward:
Point 1: A woman’s right (indeed any person’s right) to bodily autonomy. If she doesn’t feel her rights are being impinged, good. If she feels they are, she should be allowed to seek remedies.
Point 2: If you disregard Point 1 (or at least the aspects that relate to abortion, to forestall any recreational drug-use tangents, which deserve threads of their own) and ban abortion, there are consequences, one (but by no means the only) of which is increased crime 15 or so years down the road.
Personally, I think Point 1 stands on its own and by itself justifies access to abortion. Point 2 need only be employed to address arguments to ban abortion made by people who have not considered or are deliberately indifferent to the consequences.
Well, the equally plausible counter-position is that abortion access is either supportable based on the rights of women, or they are not. Trying to compare the rights of a woman to that of a fetus is not at all a hard choice for me.
I don’t see it as a dodge to point out that you are dodging, refusing to acknowledge the consequences of your actions, but I’ll play along for the sake of argument. Let’s say the label “child” applies from the instant of fertilization to the age of 18. Let’s also say that “child abuse” refers to the deliberate infliction of injury or death on a “child”. It’s my position that “child abuse” is acceptable for the first nine month of the “child’s” existence, with birth being the point at which this stops because for those nine months, the “child” is not an autonomous entity; there is another entity, the mother, involved. Ignoring this serves no useful purpose that I can see, and birth is a useful benchmark. Heck, even the onset of the third trimester would be an acceptable benchmark, with the usual caveats about the woman’s life/health.
When we have medical procedures that can easily (i.e. as easily or more easily than a D&C) move a fetus from a woman who doesn’t want it to another woman who does or to an artificial womb of some kind paid for by someone prepared to adopt the fetus, I’ll gladly revisit the issue.