# Mrs Piper haz new job. I is happy and sad

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [October 31, 2022, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053 "2022-10-31T01:47:24Z")
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### Author: ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)
#### Post date: [October 31, 2022, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/1 "2022-10-31T01:47:24Z")

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Happy because it’s a great new job and she’s going to be great in it.

Sad because we have worked together in the same office for a decade, with individual offices side-by-side. We’ve worked on files together, been in court together. She’s a very good barrister, better than me. It’s been a fun ride.

Now we cleaned out her office tonight and all that is done. It’s not her office any more. It’s just an empty office, and the next occupant won’t be Mrs P.

😀👍😟😔

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### Author: ![Princhester](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/3e96dc/32.png) [@Princhester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Princhester)
#### Post date: [October 31, 2022, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/2 "2022-10-31T02:24:08Z")

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> [@Northern\_Piper](#):
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> We’ve worked on files together, been in court together.

Holy cow that’s impressive. Talk about stress testing your marriage!

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### Author: ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)
#### Post date: [October 31, 2022, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/3 "2022-10-31T02:29:40Z")

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As one senior QC said when he first heard: “Same office, side-by-side, 24/7? That’s a lot of together-time.”

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### Author: ![Dr\_Paprika](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr_paprika/32/3042_2.png) [@Dr\_Paprika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr_Paprika)
#### Post date: [October 31, 2022, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/4 "2022-10-31T21:52:34Z")

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Well, at least Covid was easier to handle. Congratulations - perhaps.

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### Author: ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)
#### Post date: [October 31, 2022, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/5 "2022-10-31T23:03:37Z")

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Congratulations to Mrs. Piper on the new job and to both of you for having worked so well together as an office team.

May all go well for both of you in the future.

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### Author: ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/6 "2022-11-01T12:11:01Z")

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Changes, man. Always an interesting time.

May you have fair winds.

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### Author: ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/7 "2022-11-01T12:55:54Z")

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Yesterday, filed the last brief that we both worked on.

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### Author: ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/8 "2022-11-01T13:00:06Z")

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That’ll be an interesting social adaptation for both of you. And now you can’t share the commute from home to work either. Waah!

For a few years long before COVID I did WFH alongside my first wife in our common home office. We had two different and unrelated jobs in unrelated industries, but had continuous togetherness nevertheless. Without even the distraction of other cow-orkers, lunch rooms, etc., that you two have had.

It worked for us, but lots of other people were surprised it did. It speaks well of your marriage that what you have had worked so well for you both. You will want (need?) to find ways to add back more togetherness in the rest of your day now that your newly separate worklives won’t be providing any of that. We sure felt the lack when our co-working came to an end.

Congrats on Mrs. Piper moving upwards and onwards! Be it ever thus.

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### Author: ![Die\_Capacitrix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/die_capacitrix/32/9_2.png) [@Die\_Capacitrix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Die_Capacitrix)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/9 "2022-11-01T18:39:27Z")

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Sounds like a big change. I hope you can still meet up for lunch, if her new office isn’t too far away.

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### Author: ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/10 "2022-11-01T18:46:56Z")

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Oh, that part is okay. She’s just down the street, and she may even get underground parking, instead of the open air parkade we’re in now.

(These things are important when it’s 35 below. ❄ ❄ ❄ )

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### Author: ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/11 "2022-11-01T19:09:17Z")

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Hope each and every little things works out well for the both of you!

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### Author: ![Jasmine](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jasmine/32/2964_2.png) [@Jasmine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jasmine)
#### Post date: [November 1, 2022, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/12 "2022-11-01T19:37:16Z")

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Wow, please convey our congratulations for her new position!! 🙂

The good news is you will see her at home every evening, so you haven’t lost her at all!  
💓

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### Author: ![Die\_Capacitrix](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/die_capacitrix/32/9_2.png) [@Die\_Capacitrix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Die_Capacitrix)
#### Post date: [November 2, 2022, 9:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/13 "2022-11-02T09:31:38Z")

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> [@Northern\_Piper](#):
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> She’s just down the street, and she may even get underground parking, instead of the open air parkade we’re in now.

Now that’s a silver lining!

Or should I say quicksilver lining. 😜

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### Author: ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2022, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mrs-piper-haz-new-job-i-is-happy-and-sad/974053/15 "2022-11-04T16:50:18Z")

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> [@Northern\_Piper](#):
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> As one senior QC said when he first heard: “Same office, side-by-side, 24/7? That’s a lot of together-time.

I guess he’s a KC now. (That’s Queen’s/King’s counsel.)

I have been with my wife 24/7 since I retired nearly 23 years ago and it has been great. Anyway, best fortune to both of you.
