# "MTMLT" a.k.a. Music to Make Love To

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 7, 2000, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865 "2000-07-07T16:00:45Z")\
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**Author:** ![rundogrun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/5daacb/32.png) [@rundogrun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rundogrun)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/1 "2000-07-07T16:00:45Z")

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In college it was Genesis and Ravel’s Bolero (from Bo Derek’s smokin’ “10” days). In my single days, it was a bunch of “MTMLT” tapes my roommates and I made that were a compilation of all kinds of stuff - rock, jazz, blues. Now that we’ve got tunes back in our bedroom, I’m looking for new ideas.

So what’s your background pleasure for pleasure? I mean, besides Barry White, of course…

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**Author:** ![Zarathustra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/898d66/32.png) [@Zarathustra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zarathustra)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/2 "2000-07-07T18:27:28Z")

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I’ve heard some people mention Zeppelin’s “Cashmere”. Must only work when you’re on drugs, I guess.

Besides that, anything by the Buggles.

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**Author:** ![xizor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xizor/32/102_2.png) [@xizor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xizor)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/3 "2000-07-07T18:49:00Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Zarathustra \*  
> \*\*Besides that, anything by the Buggles. \*\*

_Video Killed the Radio Star_ would kill my mood faster.

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**Author:** ![Dragwyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dragwyr/32/2855_2.png) [@Dragwyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragwyr)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/4 "2000-07-07T18:51:36Z")

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I’ve always been told that “Moments in Love” by The Art of Noise was a good one for this sort of thing, although I’ve never used that one personally for just such an occasion (Though I am a REALLY BIG Art of Noise fan).

Personally, I’ve used entire Kenny G Live CD for that occasion. It worked out rather well. 🙂

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**Author:** ![gobear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8dc957/32.png) [@gobear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gobear)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/5 "2000-07-07T19:27:21Z")

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First, it’s Kashmir, like the state in India. I have found these discs to be great sex soundtrack music.  
Philip Glass, **Glassworks**  
Macy Gray, \*\* The Way Life Is\*\*  
Richard Wagner, **Mild und Leise** , aka the Liebestod from Tristan und Isolde.  
Anything by Prince  
Pink Floyd, **Echoes**  
Bob Marley, **Legend**  
Anything with a nice repetitive beat to help you get your freak on works.

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**Author:** ![right\_said\_fred](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9d8465/32.png) [@right\_said\_fred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/right_said_fred)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/6 "2000-07-07T19:32:14Z")

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Ted Nugent’s “Stranglehold”

Nine Inch Nails’ “The Downward Spiral”

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/7 "2000-07-07T19:56:54Z")

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“Wicked Game” by Chris Isaac  
“Crush” and “Crash” by Dave Mathews Band  
“Take my Breath Away” by Berlin  
“Let’s Get it On” Marvin Gaye

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**Author:** ![plnnr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 8:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/8 "2000-07-07T20:03:30Z")

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Jazz (no vocals, unless its Billy Holiday), and classical (but nothing too bombastic - Holtz, for instance, is just too much, same with Mahler), maybe Haydn or Mozart. Bolero works because of the repetition and the looooong build up (a little trite, but good for a laugh).

Speaking of Philip Glass, a joke:

Knock knock  
Who’s there?  
Philip Glass  
Philip Glass who?  
Knock knock  
Who’s there?  
Philip Glass  
Philip Glass who?  
Knock Knock  
ad infinitum (or nauseum)

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**Author:** ![jubei2k](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a87d85/32.png) [@jubei2k](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jubei2k)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 8:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/9 "2000-07-07T20:04:46Z")

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I put on Barry White once and my (ex) girlfriend was like, “Oh no, we’re not fucking to that.”

She got really mad about 15 minutes later when I started singing along to the CD, right in the middle of sex.

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**Author:** ![CheapBastid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8baadc/32.png) [@CheapBastid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CheapBastid)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/10 "2000-07-07T21:11:39Z")

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[Enigma](http://www.cdnow.com/cgi-bin/mserver/SID=244101289/pagename=/RP/CDN/FIND/album.html/artistid=ENIGMA/itemid=800270)

[Nova Bossa](http://www.cdnow.com/cgi-bin/mserver/SID=244101289/pagename=/RP/CDN/FIND/album.html/ArtistID=VA-RED+HOT+AIDS+BENEFIT+SERIES/DDCN=SD-31451+35884+2)

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**Author:** ![MadPoet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8c91f0/32.png) [@MadPoet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MadPoet)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 10:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/11 "2000-07-07T22:38:37Z")

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Group in general: Dead Can Dance.  
Particular album: Pink Floyd’s “Wish You Were Here”  
Particular song: More Human than Human

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**Author:** ![Sealemon88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@Sealemon88](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sealemon88)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2000, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/12 "2000-07-07T22:54:54Z")

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BT’S ESCM

Certain tracks off of The Jungle Brothers’ V.I.P. album: Sexy Body, Freakin’ You, I Remember. Overall, the CD is pretty good backgroound music for gettin’ freaky.  
Al Green.  
I Burn and When I’m Away by The Toadies.  
Blue Buhdda, by My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult.

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**Author:** ![ThisYearsGirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@ThisYearsGirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThisYearsGirl)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 12:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/13 "2000-07-08T00:37:36Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Zarathustra \*  
> \*\*I’ve heard some people mention Zeppelin’s “Cashmere”. Must only work when you’re on drugs, I guess.  
> \*\*

I’m a foaming at the mouth Zeppelin fan, so I have to point out that the song title is “Kashmir.”  
To answer the question, anything by Van Morrison (esp. Moondance) or Dusty Springfield.

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**Author:** ![ThisYearsGirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@ThisYearsGirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThisYearsGirl)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/14 "2000-07-08T00:39:15Z")

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> \*Originally posted by MadPoet \*  
> \*\*Particular song: More Human than Human \*\*

Kinda off the subject–until pretty recently, I thought the lyrics to that song were “Paul Newman” over and over again. I guess that wouold make it a good sex song.

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**Author:** ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/15 "2000-07-08T01:57:43Z")

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**jubei2k** –

Your ex has no taste.

Another vote here for Barry White. There’s a guy at work, sounds **exactly** like him.

Wonder if he’d be amenable to coming over and hanging out under the bed. He could just talk till things got going good. Wouldn’t even matter what he said. Sigh.

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**Author:** ![Nika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ba9def/32.png) [@Nika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nika)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/16 "2000-07-08T03:00:22Z")

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Anything with amazing saxaphone. Too many words are a bad thing. I agree with cheepbastid about Enigma. Clannad is pretty good to or Enya. It depends on the sex though. Hard sex needs hard music etc.

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**Author:** ![Nacho4Sara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Nacho4Sara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nacho4Sara)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/17 "2000-07-08T04:01:51Z")

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I can’t imagine getting it on with Kenny G or classical music. Ick.

However, I recommend:

“Crash” by Dave Matthews

“Supernatural” by Santana

“This is Jazz” Billie Holliday

Anything by John Coltrane

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**Author:** ![DRY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@DRY](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DRY)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/18 "2000-07-08T04:19:14Z")

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Well, why not the 1812 Overture?

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**Author:** ![SPOOFE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c5a1d2/32.png) [@SPOOFE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SPOOFE)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 9:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/19 "2000-07-08T09:09:28Z")

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There are only two songs you need for sex:

Wagner’s “Ride of the Valkyries” and Yello’s “Oh Yeah”.

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_Angel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d26b3c/32.png) [@Johnny\_Angel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_Angel)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2000, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/mtmlt-a-k-a-music-to-make-love-to/24865/20 "2000-07-08T13:41:48Z")

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The proper music of intercourse is R&B, like the Clovers, Fats Domino, or Hank Ballard and the Midnighters. Hell, Hank Ballard is practically trying to teach you rhythm:

Oh baby, get it  
Get it  
Get it, get it, get it.  
You know I waaaana  
Seeeeee you wit’ it  
Wit’ it  
Wit’ it, wit’ it, wit’ it  
Because I’m yours darling baby  
Yours right away…

A lot of your early fifties R&B had a clearly sexual beat.

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