# Music to have sex to

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [January 12, 2004, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125 "2004-01-12T05:20:21Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\
**Post date:** [January 18, 2004, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/61 "2004-01-18T16:26:57Z")

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> [@Marley23](#):
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> …am I the only one who never plans sex enough to have CDs ready?

It’s not about planning, its about being prepared. Having the CD’s in the location where you are most likely to have sex. We have a stereo in our bedroom with a collection of CD’s. It’s also good to have the music on so the kids aren’t banging on the door asking questions, ie…" Mom, are you hurt?"

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**Author:** ![Bigdude876](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ce7236/32.png) [@Bigdude876](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bigdude876)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 6:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/62 "2004-02-20T06:21:00Z")

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> [@Bigdude876](#):
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> I don’t know any good music to have sex to could some of you guys please tell me your favorite songs or songs that you think would be good for it? thanks

Musiq - dont change, love, 143,aimewitue, my girl  
Jodeci - You and I, Stay, Love U 4 Life  
Boyz II Men - I’ll Make Love To You  
112 - Anywhere, Cupid  
Fabulous - So Into You  
H-Town - Like It Slow  
KCi and JoJo - I Wanna Make Love To You, Tell Me It’s Real, All My Life

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**Author:** ![CheapBastid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8baadc/32.png) [@CheapBastid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CheapBastid)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 8:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/63 "2004-02-20T08:33:21Z")

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The album **Sex** by _The Necks_.

A wonderful gentle 60+ minutes of lovin’ music.

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**Author:** ![williamweigand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b3f665/32.png) [@williamweigand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/williamweigand)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/64 "2004-02-20T15:05:04Z")

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Welcome to the boards **BigDude876** –What a wonderful coincidence that you resurrected this thread today because I was reminded of it when listening to the Rolling Stones’ **Midnight Rambler** on the radio this morning. The fast parts aren’t quite conducive to love-making , but, when they slow it down , there are parts I just can’t help thrusting my pelvis to , rhythmically.

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**Author:** ![Already\_in\_Use](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@Already\_in\_Use](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Already_in_Use)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/65 "2004-02-20T16:29:55Z")

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> [@electric!sheep](#):
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> Kraftwerk.

Hell yeah!

I would also recommend anything by Devo, Jimi Hendrix, Primus, Igor Stravinsky, Edgard Varese, or Frank Zappa (well, at least his instrumental pieces, unless lyrics like “I’m gonna ram it up your poop chute” turn you on).

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**Author:** ![spingears](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ebca7d/32.png) [@spingears](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spingears)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/66 "2004-02-20T17:34:31Z")

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> [@Bigdude876](#):
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> I don’t know any good music to have sex to could some of you guys please tell me your favorite songs or songs that you think would be good for it? thanks

Why do you think a particular genre is called Rock & Roll?

Could it be . . . . . . . ?

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**Author:** ![lurksfromwork](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@lurksfromwork](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lurksfromwork)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/67 "2004-02-20T17:47:00Z")

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Jamiroqui gets things going.

Had a session with violent femmes playing…interesting. nice crescendos.

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/68 "2004-02-20T18:07:31Z")

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The Minute Waltz.  
OK, I’m kidding. As far as you know.

“Heaven is Ten Zillion Lights” by Stevie Wonder.

“Nothing Compares 2 U”, Sinead O’Connor.

“Brand New Cadillac”, the Clash.

“The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face”, Roberta Flack.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![vibrotronica](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a9a28c/32.png) [@vibrotronica](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vibrotronica)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2004, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/69 "2004-02-20T19:21:23Z")

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[Passion: Music from The Last Temptation of Christ](http://www.allmusic.com/cg/amg.dll?p=amg&uid=UIDSUB040402201417480233&sql=Aa8ngtq7ztu42)

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**Author:** ![Treviathan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@Treviathan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Treviathan)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2004, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/70 "2004-02-21T00:19:17Z")

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Morcheeba, Morcheeba, Morcheeba. Especially _Big Calm_.

And though I haven’t had the opportunity to test this theory, I imagine the Broken Social Scene’s _You Forgot it in People_ would be a good choice.

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**Author:** ![look\_ninjas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b2d939/32.png) [@look\_ninjas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/look_ninjas)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2004, 12:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/71 "2004-02-21T00:34:42Z")

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Cassandra Wilson is always good, as is _This is Hardcore_ by Pulp. And depending on what you’re doing, “Glory” by Liz Phair can be quite apt.

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**Author:** ![Omnipresent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8c91f0/32.png) [@Omnipresent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omnipresent)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 12:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/72 "2004-02-22T00:25:57Z")

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“Cum m’lady, cum-cum m’lady. You’re my butterfly, sugar-baby”

Or, a good recording of a jack hammer going at it!

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/73 "2004-02-22T02:32:50Z")

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Moving this to Cafe Society.

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**Author:** ![tracer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tracer/32/20578_2.png) [@tracer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tracer)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 3:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/74 "2004-02-22T03:05:06Z")

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If the two of you like country-and-western music, there’s always the timeless classic **“Let’s Get Drunk and Screw”**.

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**Author:** ![Zjestika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/8edcca/32.png) [@Zjestika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zjestika)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/75 "2004-02-22T03:12:00Z")

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Morphine is great for sex, particularly the song “Hanging on a Curtain.”

The saxophone is so naughty it makes you feel like you’re doing in in the filthy back room of some seedy dive bar.

If you’re into that sort of thing…

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**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/76 "2004-02-22T04:20:50Z")

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I guess it all depends on the mood.

All Mine - Portishead. (I can’t hear it and not think of sex…Slow, with a loud, perfectly paced beat for that slow but powerful session)

Hurt - Nine Inch Nails (Takes the right kind of people, otherwise it’s a mood killer… But damn, it’s fun)

Jesus Built My Hotrod. - Ministry (Fast. Raw. Again, takes the proper people but come on… Ding-a-ding-dang-your-dang-a-long-ling-long)

Foxy Lady - Jimi Hendrix (Perfect theme, great beat)

Caress Me Down - Sublime (“Mucho gusto, me llamo Bradley, I’m hornier than Ron Jeremy” is the first two lines of the song, I think that says enough)

Fucking an Animal - GWAR (You need a sense of humour for this… To say the least)  
That’s about all I can think of right now.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/77 "2004-02-22T04:30:35Z")

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We had very good luck with _Howlin’ Wolf: His Best_ the other day. 🆒

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**Author:** ![Hey\_It\_s\_That\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Hey\_It\_s\_That\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hey_It_s_That_Guy)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/78 "2004-02-22T04:31:55Z")

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> [@Zjestika](#):
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> Morphine is great for sex, particularly the song “Hanging on a Curtain.”
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> The saxophone is so naughty it makes you feel like you’re doing in in the filthy back room of some seedy dive bar.
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> If you’re into that sort of thing…

Ah Morphine, one of my favorite bands! They can sound raunchy and dirty one moment and smooth and sensual the next, but always sexy. Mark Sandman was taken from us way too soon.

> [@St\_Ides](#):
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> All Mine - Portishead. (I can’t hear it and not think of sex…Slow, with a loud, perfectly paced beat for that slow but powerful session)

Can’t go wrong with Portishead either. Beth Gibbons’ voice smolders perfectly over the music. I might go out on a limb and call them the best band to have sex to!

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**Author:** ![Evil\_Death](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ecccb3/32.png) [@Evil\_Death](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Evil_Death)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 11:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/79 "2004-02-22T11:17:41Z")

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If either of you can tell what the music is, you’re not having great sex.

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**Author:** ![St\_Ides](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ccd318/32.png) [@St\_Ides](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/St_Ides)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2004, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/music-to-have-sex-to/224125/80 "2004-02-22T15:48:19Z")

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One day at the record store I saw this: [http://www.pornosonic.com/unreleased.html](http://www.pornosonic.com/unreleased.html)

So I bought it. It was the single greatest purchase of my life.

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