# My 6 year old daughter is not doing well.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 5, 2002, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640 "2002-12-05T04:51:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![beagledave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6de8d8/32.png) [@beagledave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beagledave)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/141 "2002-12-08T21:50:01Z")

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What a sweet smile. What a hard loss.

I don’t know what else to say except that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Watch over each other.

Dave

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**Author:** ![PunditLisa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@PunditLisa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PunditLisa)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/142 "2002-12-08T22:22:46Z")

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“And He will raise you up on eagle’s wings.  
Bear you on the breath of dawn;  
Make you to shine like the sun  
And hold you in the palm of His hand.”

-Michael Joncas

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/143 "2002-12-08T22:24:20Z")

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I did a Google search for the address of the Ronald McDonald House in LA. It is:

Ronald McDonald House, Los Angeles  
4560 Fountain Avenue  
Los Angeles, California 90029

As \*\*Roadwalker \*\* said, we can donate there or to a local House. We have one in Topeka, but I think I will send something to both places. And don’t forget, you \*can \* sign up to be a potential bone marrow donor!

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**Author:** ![Salem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8c91f0/32.png) [@Salem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Salem)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/144 "2002-12-08T22:50:14Z")

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Adding my condolences and prayers for peace in your hearts and Naomi’s soul.

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**Author:** ![vivalostwages](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/d07c76/32.png) [@vivalostwages](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vivalostwages)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/145 "2002-12-08T23:01:02Z")

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I am very sorry, Roadwalker and family.

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**Author:** ![DeadlyAccurate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac91a4/32.png) [@DeadlyAccurate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DeadlyAccurate)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/146 "2002-12-08T23:04:23Z")

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My condolences to your family, **Roadwalker**.

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**Author:** ![MsRobyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@MsRobyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsRobyn)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/147 "2002-12-08T23:08:09Z")

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On behalf of the Doors family, I want to extend our deepest condolences. Naomi died knowing she was loved and with the people she loved the most.

Consider collecting the new baby’s cord blood. I did that with Aaron, and if he, God forbid, gets sick, we’ve got it. Ask your obstetrician for more information.

Robin

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**Author:** ![N9IWP](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/n9iwp/32/3154_2.png) [@N9IWP](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/N9IWP)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/148 "2002-12-08T23:16:57Z")

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It was bad enough having my mother in Hospice (~4 years ago). I can’t imagine it with a 6 year-old.

Glad she is no longer in pain…

Brian

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**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/149 "2002-12-08T23:16:58Z")

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heartfelt condolences on your loss.  
i’ll pray for you and yours.

i’m so sorry.  
may your family be kept in the loving shelter of his wings.

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**Author:** ![Tuckerfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/eada6e/32.png) [@Tuckerfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tuckerfan)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/150 "2002-12-08T23:25:25Z")

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☹

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**Author:** ![Rasa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rasa/32/3578_2.png) [@Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rasa)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/151 "2002-12-08T23:29:33Z")

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Farewell Naomi. I’m so sorry for the hand the Universe dealt you, but am glad you graced us, if even for such a short time.

From _The Little Prince_ by Antoine de Saint Exupery :

\*“And when your sorrow is comforted (time soothes all sorrows) you will be content that you have known me. You will always be my friend. You will want to laugh with me. And you will sometimes open your window, so, for that pleasure . . . And your friends will be properly astonished to see you laughing as you look up at the sky! Then you will say to them, ‘Yes, the stars always make me laugh!’ . . .” \*

**Roadwalker** , your family has my condolences. While one light has gone out, may it bring you some comfort that another will be brought into the world.

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**Author:** ![TV\_time](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f17d59/32.png) [@TV\_time](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TV_time)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/152 "2002-12-08T23:29:39Z")

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Your loss is our loss too. We all are diminished by your daughter’s passing. There is nothing that can be said but so much that must be shared. My family sends all of our love to yours.

TV

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**Author:** ![OxyMoron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@OxyMoron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OxyMoron)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/153 "2002-12-08T23:30:50Z")

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Deepest sympathies, may her memory be a blessing.

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**Author:** ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/154 "2002-12-08T23:43:14Z")

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There are no words. Except a heartfelt expression of sorrow for your loss.

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**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2002, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/155 "2002-12-08T23:54:54Z")

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I shouldn’t have clicked on the picture link. Gods, what a beautiful little girl. Although **Mermaid** is right… no parent should ever have to bury their child… I’m glad she spent her last days surrounded by the love and support of her family, and was afforded the peaceful, dignified passing we should all hope for.

Hugs to you and yours during this sad time, yet best wishes for the new life that will no doubt be welcomed into you life with great love.

-BK

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**Author:** ![Francesca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9fc348/32.png) [@Francesca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Francesca)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 12:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/156 "2002-12-09T00:05:17Z")

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What a beautiful girl. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this tumultuous time, and my very best wishes for the new life soon to join your family.

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**Author:** ![Jurhael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cab0a1/32.png) [@Jurhael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jurhael)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 12:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/157 "2002-12-09T00:11:33Z")

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**Author:** ![hardygrrl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a3d4f5/32.png) [@hardygrrl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hardygrrl)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 12:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/158 "2002-12-09T00:38:36Z")

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My thoughts and prayers are with you. ☹  
January 28th will be the fourth year anniversary of when my nephew died of cancer. I’ve been through it myself. Email is in my profile if you or your family need an ear.  
Rest peacefully, little **Naomi**.

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**Author:** ![dreamer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/6bbea6/32.png) [@dreamer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dreamer)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/159 "2002-12-09T01:10:44Z")

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I pray for the spirit, strength, and comfort of God to rest upon you and your family **Roadwalker**.

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**Author:** ![TVeblen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4bbf92/32.png) [@TVeblen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TVeblen)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/160 "2002-12-09T01:24:39Z")

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I am so very, very sorry for your loss, **Roadwalker**. Valiant little Naomi is at peace, and I’ll hold you and your wife in my thoughts, wishing comfort for you.

My deepest sympathies.

TVeblen

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