# My 6 year old daughter is not doing well.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 5, 2002, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640 "2002-12-05T04:51:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![vix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vix)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/161 "2002-12-09T01:37:38Z")

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I’m so sorry, **Roadwalker**.

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**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/162 "2002-12-09T01:53:05Z")

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May you and your family have a blessed holiday season sharing memories of your beloved **Naomi**. She’ll smile from heaven knowing you rejoice in the memory of her life as you grieve her passing.

God Bless.

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**Author:** ![Kwyjibo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/59ef9b/32.png) [@Kwyjibo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kwyjibo)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/163 "2002-12-09T02:15:57Z")

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Roadwalker, I do feel I know the pain you are going through. I am so sorry for what has happened. My thoughts are with you for ever and always.

Kwyj. ☹

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**Author:** ![benson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ea5d25/32.png) [@benson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/benson)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/164 "2002-12-09T02:32:23Z")

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My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family on your terrible loss. My thought and prayers are with you all.

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**Author:** ![DarkWriter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ee59a6/32.png) [@DarkWriter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DarkWriter)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/165 "2002-12-09T02:37:00Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain of losing a child. ☹

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**Author:** ![Anonymous\_Coward](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/94ad74/32.png) [@Anonymous\_Coward](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anonymous_Coward)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/166 "2002-12-09T02:40:18Z")

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My deepest sympathies. You and Naomi will be in my thoughts for a long time.

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**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/167 "2002-12-09T02:46:09Z")

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((( **Roadwalker** )))

Words are failing me.

I just went and kissed my children again, though. They’re sleeping, and I didn’t wake them. But I just had to.

You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![Geek\_Mecha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ecae2f/32.png) [@Geek\_Mecha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geek_Mecha)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 2:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/168 "2002-12-09T02:54:45Z")

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My condolences, **Roadwalker**. ☹

We’ve been losing too many loved ones lately.

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**Author:** ![tsarina](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f4b2a3/32.png) [@tsarina](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tsarina)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/169 "2002-12-09T03:00:02Z")

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Naomi,

The night you died, I sucked down two beers in my dorm room and goofed off on my computer when I should have been studying for finals and cursed my fate, while you, little one, were bravely facing death.

I’d read what your daddy had posted a few days previously, and then revisited it a few minutes ago to learn that you were gone. I know that although your mommy and daddy are grieving right now, at the same time they realize that they were so very lucky to have been a part of your life, and the rest of your daddy’s friends here at the boards are thinking the same thing.

While we choke back our tears, remember that we are thinking of you and your family, and realize, little one, that you are braver than any of us will ever be.

Love,

- tsarina.

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**Author:** ![Tikki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5daacb/32.png) [@Tikki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tikki)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/170 "2002-12-09T03:47:17Z")

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Go in peace, sweet Naomi. Your parents and so many others love you.

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**Author:** ![Hometownboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/5e9695/32.png) [@Hometownboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hometownboy)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 3:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/171 "2002-12-09T03:55:02Z")

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When my beloved wife died six years ago at a way-too-young 47, I found some comfort in the words of Garth Brook’s “The Dance” …“I could have missed the pain, but I’d have had to miss the dance.”

Naomi, I’m sure, was a grace in your lives.

God bless.

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**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/172 "2002-12-09T03:59:50Z")

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**Roadwalker** , my thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May God be with you and yours now at this time. ☹

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 4:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/173 "2002-12-09T04:06:48Z")

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I am so very sorry for your loss. ☹

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**Author:** ![Rosebud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ea666f/32.png) [@Rosebud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rosebud)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/174 "2002-12-09T04:22:54Z")

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So sorry, Roadwalker & Family… thank you for keeping us posted.

Love,  
Rose

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**Author:** ![BiblioCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BiblioCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BiblioCat)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 4:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/175 "2002-12-09T04:32:49Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, Roadwalker.  
☹

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**Author:** ![leander](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bcef8e/32.png) [@leander](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/leander)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/176 "2002-12-09T04:37:33Z")

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What a beautiful little girl. You have my deepest condolences.

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**Author:** ![Spit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/76d3ee/32.png) [@Spit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spit)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/177 "2002-12-09T05:42:12Z")

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Words fail me.  
You and your family are in my thoughts Roadwalker.

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**Author:** ![Cerowyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/82dd89/32.png) [@Cerowyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cerowyn)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/178 "2002-12-09T05:55:17Z")

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As a father, I have an inkling of what this must by like for you, and I have to echo the thoughts expressed that you are handling this with great dignity and bravery. I’m glad you have the hope of a new child on the way, and I am sad for your loss.

Be well.

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**Author:** ![yosemite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/3ab097/32.png) [@yosemite](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yosemite)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 6:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/179 "2002-12-09T06:41:24Z")

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My prayers go out to you and your family, Roadwalker. What a sweet little girl. She will never be forgotten.

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**Author:** ![tritone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8e7dd6/32.png) [@tritone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tritone)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2002, 6:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-6-year-old-daughter-is-not-doing-well/140640/180 "2002-12-09T06:56:41Z")

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**Roadwalker** , I wish there was something I could say.

All my love to you, and your family, and to Naomi.

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