# My cat Hope has just passed

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 10, 2021, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242 "2021-10-10T03:32:04Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/1 "2021-10-10T03:32:04Z")

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It was not entirely unexpected, as she has been doing poorly for some time, and I have had her into the vet’s a few times in the last week. She was sacked out on the rug in the living room when I went out earlier today, and enjoyed her head skritches. When I got back a few hours later, she was in the same place, in the same position, but managed a weak “meow.” I was worried, and looked up the number of the local 24-hour emergency pet clinic. But it was too late; when I checked on her a few minutes later, she was cold and unresponsive. I rushed her to the clinic, where she was pronounced dead.

Hope was 18 years old, and a wonderful companion. She loved to play, and enjoyed watching the birds in the trees in my yard. She was always ready for a nap on my lap, during which she would purr. In fact, all you had to do was to touch her, and she would purr. If there was a World Championship of Purring, she would have won it. And most mornings, I’d wake up to find her beside me, curled up like a teddy bear. She was a sweet cat, and I miss her already.

Time heals, and it will this time also, but my house seems a little empty tonight. At least she passed in familiar and friendly surroundings. Friends, please join me in celebrating the life of my cat, Hope.

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**Author:** ![JaneDoe42](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/janedoe42/32/14104_2.png) [@JaneDoe42](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JaneDoe42)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 3:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/2 "2021-10-10T03:54:55Z")

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What a lovely tribute to a beloved pet. You are right that time will heal and some day you will remember your beautiful Hope with smiles instead of tears.

It sounds like she had a good life with a very kind hooman. You did good.

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**Author:** ![nelliebly](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nelliebly/32/5422_2.png) [@nelliebly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nelliebly)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/3 "2021-10-10T03:58:29Z")

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What a wonderful creature! She was as blessed to have spent her 18 short years with you as you were to have her. Godspeed, Hope. Wishing you a gentle grief, @Spoons.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/4 "2021-10-10T04:04:40Z")

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I am very sorry. And I’m glad you got home in time for her to know you were there; as you’d been there for her all of her life.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/5 "2021-10-10T04:21:10Z")

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Oh god, another heartbreaking loss. Keep strong, **Spoons** , and remember all the good times you and Hope had together. You were both so lucky to have each other.

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**Author:** ![BippityBoppityBoo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bippityboppityboo/32/5745_2.png) [@BippityBoppityBoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BippityBoppityBoo)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/6 "2021-10-10T04:28:01Z")

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I’ll be holding you both in the light, @Spoons.

Hope was a very lucky kitty to have you.

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**Author:** ![BippityBoppityBoo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bippityboppityboo/32/5745_2.png) [@BippityBoppityBoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BippityBoppityBoo)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/7 "2021-10-10T04:41:05Z")

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For both of you:

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/xKQULTTnaI8/maxresdefault.jpg "Amazing Grace with more than 200 bagpipes; live in Berlin") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKQULTTnaI8)

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/8 "2021-10-10T04:49:30Z")

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Thank you, **Boo**. I sang in a church choir for many years, and sang that hymn many times, and it always made me feel better. Again, thank you for posting that video–it made me feel better.

And thank you to everybody else also. Your comments mean a lot.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 4:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/9 "2021-10-10T04:53:45Z")

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RIP, Hope. ☹

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/779978/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats2)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 6:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/10 "2021-10-10T06:27:21Z")

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May your memories of her be as soft as her fur.

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**Author:** ![CairoCarol](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cairocarol/32/3825_2.png) [@CairoCarol](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CairoCarol)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 6:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/11 "2021-10-10T06:37:07Z")

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You were near her at the end; it sounds like she had a peaceful passing. It still hurts the humans who get left behind, though.

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**Author:** ![gkster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gkster/32/14107_2.png) [@gkster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gkster)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 6:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/12 "2021-10-10T06:55:15Z")

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I’m so sorry. It’s hard to lose a furry friend. You were there for her; may good memories sustain you.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 7:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/13 "2021-10-10T07:14:24Z")

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I’m very sorry for your loss. She sounds like a wonderful cat.

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**Author:** ![Fluffy\_PickleSniffer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/77aa72/32.png) [@Fluffy\_PickleSniffer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fluffy_PickleSniffer)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 1:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/14 "2021-10-10T13:54:43Z")

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It sounds like Hope had a lovely life with you, and I’m glad you were with her at the end, and she could die peacefully at home, in familiar surroundings. I’m sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![StGermain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stgermain/32/2868_2.png) [@StGermain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StGermain)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/15 "2021-10-10T17:25:14Z")

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It always hurts. Be grateful for all the years you had, they were precious. My most sincere condolences.

StG

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**Author:** ![DavidNRockies](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidnrockies/32/6279_2.png) [@DavidNRockies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidNRockies)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/16 "2021-10-10T18:02:18Z")

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My deepest condolences. There’s something even a _touch_ more poignant about the “loss of Hope.”

May your grief be mercifully brief, but may your memories of eighteen years with this girl be sweet and everlasting.

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**Author:** ![aurora\_maire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aurora_maire/32/328_2.png) [@aurora\_maire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aurora_maire)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/17 "2021-10-10T23:34:47Z")

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> [@Spoons](#):
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> At least she passed in familiar and friendly surroundings.

My cat Will died in his sleep a year and a half ago. That did make it a bit easier for me. Sending good thoughts to you.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [October 10, 2021, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/18 "2021-10-10T23:40:45Z")

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She sounds like a lovely cat. Our furry companions bring so much to our lives and leave such a hole when they leave. I wish you the best during this time.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2021, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/19 "2021-10-11T16:29:17Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear about Hope’s passing. For such tiny beings, cats sure do leave a large hole in our lives. ☹

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2021, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cat-hope-has-just-passed/952242/20 "2021-10-11T17:52:32Z")

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Vienna sends her love and condolences.

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