# My cleaning woman is extremely hot

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cleaning-woman-is-extremely-hot/194895>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 13, 2003, 1:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cleaning-woman-is-extremely-hot/194895 "2003-08-13T13:10:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 1\
**Page:** 2

<div class="post-metadata">

**Author:** ![BrotherCadfael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@BrotherCadfael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrotherCadfael)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2003, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cleaning-woman-is-extremely-hot/194895/21 "2003-08-13T17:27:59Z")

</div>

> [@](#):
>
> \*Originally posted by Mr. Excellent \*  
> \*\*I hate to say this, but - might the only responsible thing to do be to just put this whole issue out of your mind? I mean, this woman is a professional, doing a moderately unpleasant job that she’s good at and that you hired her to do. Would you want _your_ boss checking you out? Even if, ahem, your boss was a very attractive female. I wouldn’t, simply because there’s a time and place for that sort of thing, and that’s not when I’m doing my job.
> 
> Question: If you make some sort of move, or ask your cleaning lady out, and she says no, then won’t things be really awkward? Would you be tempted to get a new cleaning lady in that case? If so, that would be ridiculously unfair - this woman would end up losing her gig through no fault of her own.
> 
> My advice: get over it. 🙂 The world is full of attractive women, my friend. \*\*

This is good advice. Take it.

The time to have asked her out was _before_ you hired her.

[Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cleaning-woman-is-extremely-hot/194895.md?page=1)