# My cousin was killed in Afghanistan yesterday

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 14, 2010, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126 "2010-10-14T13:55:04Z")\
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**Author:** ![Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Paul_in_Qatar)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/21 "2010-10-14T16:41:08Z")

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What monstrously sad news. I will pray for the soul of your young Marine and for strength for your family.

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**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/22 "2010-10-14T17:22:18Z")

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My condolences and best wishes for you and your family.

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/23 "2010-10-14T17:42:27Z")

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i’m so very sorry to hear this.

may his memory be eternal.

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**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/24 "2010-10-14T21:07:58Z")

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Thank you everyone for the kind words. It’s been a tough day.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/25 "2010-10-14T22:28:21Z")

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**Bob** , I’m sorry for your troubles. ☹

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**Author:** ![gardentraveler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gardentraveler/32/3576_2.png) [@gardentraveler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gardentraveler)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/26 "2010-10-14T22:37:16Z")

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**Bob** , I’m so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![moejoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de053/32.png) [@moejoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moejoe)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 10:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/27 "2010-10-14T22:48:50Z")

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I’m so sorry for you loss, and grateful for his brave service. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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**Author:** ![user\_hostile](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/user_hostile/32/474_2.png) [@user\_hostile](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/user_hostile)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/28 "2010-10-14T23:07:31Z")

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Very sorry over your loss and condolences to you and the whole family and friends.☹

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/29 "2010-10-14T23:09:01Z")

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I am very sorry to hear this. Your family is right to be proud of that young man.

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/30 "2010-10-14T23:14:29Z")

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I am so very sorry for your loss **Bob**.

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**Author:** ![Satchmo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/satchmo/32/4223_2.png) [@Satchmo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satchmo)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/31 "2010-10-14T23:35:24Z")

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So sorry for the brave young man’s life ended so soon.  
Proud that the Marine Tradition is still strong. Semper Fi!

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**Author:** ![lavenderviolet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/cdc98d/32.png) [@lavenderviolet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lavenderviolet)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/32 "2010-10-14T23:42:22Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear of this sad news. You definitely should be proud of him. I hope that everyone who reads this remembers his brave service and unimaginable sacrifice. Peace to you and your loved ones.

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**Author:** ![Kolga](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e56c9b/32.png) [@Kolga](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kolga)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/33 "2010-10-14T23:43:07Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/34 "2010-10-14T23:57:55Z")

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So sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 10:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/35 "2010-10-15T22:08:04Z")

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Sorry to hear this. I get email updates from DOD everytime a combat casualty is identified. Keeps things in perspective for me. I haven’t received the one for his incident yet, but when I do, I will think of you and your family, and your brave Marine.

Casualties this week:  
Lance Cpl. Irvin M. Ceniceros, 21 (USMC)  
Pfc. Jordan M. Byrd, 19, (USA)  
Cpl. Justin J. Cain, 22, (USMC)  
Lance Cpl. Phillip D. Vinnedge, 19 (USMC)  
Lance Cpl. Joseph E. Rodewald, 21, (USMC)  
Pfc. Victor A. Dew, 20, of Granite Bay, Calif. (USMC)  
Lance Cpl. Raymon L. A. Johnson, 22, (USMC)  
Lance Cpl. John T. Sparks, 23, (USMC)  
Hospital Corpsman Edwin Gonzalez, 22 (USN)

9 So far reported in only the past 6 days. None of them older than 23. Can’t wait to get out of this place.

Again, sorry for your loss!!

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**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/36 "2010-10-15T22:22:30Z")

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Lance Cpl. Joseph C. Lopez, 26, (USMC) . . .

These emails NEVER stop coming.

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**Author:** ![ralph124c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8797f3/32.png) [@ralph124c](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ralph124c)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/37 "2010-10-15T23:40:59Z")

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I am profoundly sorry for your losss.  
I’m sure he was a great young man.

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**Author:** ![China\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@China\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/China_Guy)\
**Post date:** [October 16, 2010, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/38 "2010-10-16T00:33:15Z")

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My condolences.

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**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\
**Post date:** [October 16, 2010, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/39 "2010-10-16T04:38:57Z")

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> [@Bear\_Nenno](#):
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> Lance Cpl. Irvin M. Ceniceros, 21 (USMC)  
> Pfc. Jordan M. Byrd, 19, (USA)  
> Cpl. Justin J. Cain, 22, (USMC)  
> Lance Cpl. Phillip D. Vinnedge, 19 (USMC)  
> Lance Cpl. Joseph E. Rodewald, 21, (USMC)  
> Pfc. Victor A. Dew, 20, of Granite Bay, Calif. (USMC)  
> Lance Cpl. Raymon L. A. Johnson, 22, (USMC)  
> Lance Cpl. John T. Sparks, 23, (USMC)  
> Hospital Corpsman Edwin Gonzalez, 22 (USN)

Jesus Christ, they’re all so young. It seems to me they usually are but it still shocks me every time.

My condolences, Bob, to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![missred](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/missred/32/14096_2.png) [@missred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missred)\
**Post date:** [October 16, 2010, 11:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-cousin-was-killed-in-afghanistan-yesterday/557126/40 "2010-10-16T11:59:49Z")

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My deepest sympathies to you and your family, **Bob**. You have every right to be proud of your cousin’s service and sacrifice.

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