# My Dad died

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [March 21, 2014, 4:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210 "2014-03-21T04:58:45Z")
**Posts on this page:** 19
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### Author: ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)
#### Post date: [March 21, 2014, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/21 "2014-03-21T15:59:24Z")

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**zoid** , I am so sorry for your loss, but that was an amazingly lovely tribute. Your dad sounds like a man I would’ve been honored to know because he understood that life was about making the world a better place. May you take comfort in all that he contributed and may he rest in peace while his legacy continues.

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### Author: ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)
#### Post date: [March 21, 2014, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/22 "2014-03-21T16:48:29Z")

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My condolences, **zoid**. May you and your family find comfort and peace in this difficult time. He sounds like a wonderful man, and I would have loved to have eaten at his table.

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### Author: ![Tom\_Tildrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e95f7d/32.png) [@Tom\_Tildrum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tom_Tildrum)
#### Post date: [March 21, 2014, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/23 "2014-03-21T17:07:32Z")

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> [@zoid](#):
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> He was always there for me and now at almost 50 years old I know what it’s like to be truly alone. No one will ever be there again to fix it for me. It’s all on my shoulders now. I sink or swim, responsible for myself with no back up. I haven’t needed him in years and in fact I cared for him far more than he cared for me over the last 10 years, but knowing he was there and he was my Dad…

I felt exactly the same way when my father passed away. Best regards.

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### Author: ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)
#### Post date: [March 21, 2014, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/24 "2014-03-21T17:24:13Z")

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zoid - my deepest condolences to you and your family - he sounds like a wonderful man.

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### Author: ![Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a88e4f/32.png) [@Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Digital_is_the_new_Analog)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/25 "2014-03-22T02:43:04Z")

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I can’t say more than what other posters have said in this thread, **zoid**. That was a lovely tribute to what sounds like a great man. My condolences.

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### Author: ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/26 "2014-03-22T02:55:16Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss, **zoid**. I know what you mean about feeling alone–my dad passed away at 80 last Christmas Day, and I often get these random zaps (usually in the middle of the night) where I realize that I don’t have any parents anymore.

Your dad sounded like he was a great guy, and that was a lovely tribute.

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### Author: ![missred](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/missred/32/14096_2.png) [@missred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missred)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/27 "2014-03-22T03:17:17Z")

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I am sorry for your loss, **zoid**. Your father sounds like a man well worth knowing.

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### Author: ![gwendee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@gwendee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gwendee)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 3:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/28 "2014-03-22T03:51:30Z")

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While I’m sorry for your loss, I’m also that you grew up knowing a great dad.

Thanks for sharing him with us, and please feel free to tell us more.

Take care of yourself and your family.

Godspeed to your father.

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### Author: ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 5:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/29 "2014-03-22T05:14:24Z")

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Thank you all 🙂

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### Author: ![PunditLisa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@PunditLisa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PunditLisa)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 11:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/30 "2014-03-22T11:31:55Z")

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So sorry to hear this. Glad you had such a great father.

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### Author: ![Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sticks_and_scones/32/16951_2.png) [@Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sticks_and_Scones)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 12:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/31 "2014-03-22T12:22:57Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss and happy for the pleasant memories that you have.

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### Author: ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/32 "2014-03-22T13:15:46Z")

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**zoid** –I lost my Dad, too.

☹

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### Author: ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/33 "2014-03-22T13:45:25Z")

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He sounds like a really great guy. I’m very sorry for your loss…

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### Author: ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 4:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/34 "2014-03-22T16:06:31Z")

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I am very sorry for your loss, but very grateful for the beauty of your tribute to your father.

> [@Bricker](#):
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> May his soul, and souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Amen.

Regards,  
Shodan

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### Author: ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/35 "2014-03-22T17:21:31Z")

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Big hugs, my friend.

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### Author: ![Dr.Girlfriend](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr.girlfriend/32/193_2.png) [@Dr.Girlfriend](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Girlfriend)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/36 "2014-03-22T19:09:23Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss, **zoid**. That was a lovely tribute you wrote and it sounds like your dad was a great man.

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### Author: ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/37 "2014-03-22T19:19:22Z")

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I’m so sorry, Zoid. It’s rough to lose a Dad, but at least it sounds like he didn’t suffer.

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### Author: ![Fluffy\_PickleSniffer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/77aa72/32.png) [@Fluffy\_PickleSniffer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fluffy_PickleSniffer)
#### Post date: [March 22, 2014, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/38 "2014-03-22T23:49:51Z")

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(((Zoid))) It sounds like you had a wonderful dad. I’m sorry for your loss, but I’m glad his end was peaceful.

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### Author: ![chronometer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c2a13f/32.png) [@chronometer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chronometer)
#### Post date: [March 23, 2014, 12:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-dad-died/684210/39 "2014-03-23T00:49:28Z")

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He was a good man. All peace to you and your family.

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