# My daughter was just killed by a speeding driver

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 23, 2024, 3:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689 "2024-07-23T15:51:59Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/21 "2024-07-23T16:43:37Z")

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She was a sweet, loving soul. She got all of us in the family in the habit of always saying “I love you” to each other. Now when we say “I love you” to each other, her spirit lives on in us.

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**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/22 "2024-07-23T16:46:11Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/23 "2024-07-23T16:48:32Z")

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Now my grandchildren have lost their mother. Don’t let her death be in vain: Take this as a reminder to slow down.

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**Author:** ![Kimstu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ecd19e/32.png) [@Kimstu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimstu)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/24 "2024-07-23T17:01:56Z")

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That’s a beautiful story of family love, and I’m so very sorry for your loss. Reckless driving literally is murderously irresponsible.

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/25 "2024-07-23T17:04:02Z")

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I feel bad for making _you_ feel bad, but I had to get this message out: Slow down!

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/26 "2024-07-23T17:05:02Z")

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> [@Johnny\_L.A](#):
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> I hope they at least caught the driver.

He’s dead too.

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**Author:** ![Kimstu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ecd19e/32.png) [@Kimstu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimstu)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/27 "2024-07-23T17:05:41Z")

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Don’t feel bad for us, it’s the least we can do to try to help a fellow Doper bear such a crushing burden. Thinking of you.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/28 "2024-07-23T17:15:35Z")

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Oh my, I am so sorry.

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**Author:** ![xtenkfarpl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/c2a13f/32.png) [@xtenkfarpl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xtenkfarpl)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/29 "2024-07-23T17:34:59Z")

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That’s horrible. How did it happen?

In Wales (part of the UK) they have recently lowered the default speed limit to 20 MPH rather than 30 in most urban areas. There has been a lot of grumbling, of course.

Perhaps it will cut injury and death; time will tell…?

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/30 "2024-07-23T17:38:49Z")

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I am sorry also. I wish there was something more to say.

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**Author:** ![iiandyiiii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/iiandyiiii/32/7924_2.png) [@iiandyiiii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iiandyiiii)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/31 "2024-07-23T17:39:00Z")

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Very sorry for your loss; best wishes to you and loved ones.

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**Author:** ![Capn\_Carl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@Capn\_Carl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Capn_Carl)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/32 "2024-07-23T17:41:04Z")

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This is awful. I’ll slow down.

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**Author:** ![engineer\_comp\_geek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/engineer_comp_geek/32/504_2.png) [@engineer\_comp\_geek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/engineer_comp_geek)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/33 "2024-07-23T17:45:34Z")

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I’m very sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/34 "2024-07-23T17:48:46Z")

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Oh no oh no. I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. 💔

> [@Johanna](#):
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> She got all of us in the family in the habit of always saying “I love you” to each other.

That is so lovely. I’d like to know a little bit more about her, when you feel up to writing…

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**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/35 "2024-07-23T17:51:45Z")

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Ah geez…words don’t really suffice. Some of the worst news ever.

All the best wishes to you and yours in this awful moment.

Also, I 100% agree with you about speeding.

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**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 6:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/36 "2024-07-23T18:03:49Z")

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Oh no that’s awful. I’m really sorry.

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**Author:** ![Exapno\_Mapcase](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/exapno_mapcase/32/1051_2.png) [@Exapno\_Mapcase](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Exapno_Mapcase)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/37 "2024-07-23T18:05:51Z")

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I’m so sorry, just like the others. I’m sure many more of us will add condolences as the word spreads.

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 6:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/38 "2024-07-23T18:09:27Z")

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I’m so sorry to see this. My condolences to you, and to all those who love her.

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**Author:** ![Mollie\_Magill](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mollie_magill/32/20882_2.png) [@Mollie\_Magill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mollie_Magill)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/39 "2024-07-23T18:12:08Z")

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That is terrible. I can’t imagine. I am so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2024, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-daughter-was-just-killed-by-a-speeding-driver/1004689/40 "2024-07-23T18:12:17Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss Johanna. This breaks my heart, but your words will be a reminder to me when I have the urge to drive more aggressively than I should. They truly will.

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