# my ever caring girlfriend **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [August 1, 2003, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266 "2003-08-01T01:37:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Tir\_Tinuviel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@Tir\_Tinuviel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tir_Tinuviel)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 12:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/21 "2003-08-01T12:32:15Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mr\_Friendly \* > **Of course you’ll be sleeping with your friend, not any rugby players.** Yeah, but they’ll be watching… Life’s too short… you’ll meet plenty of other girlies you like just as much if not more… ---
**Author:** ![bloodytoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f9ae1b/32.png) [@bloodytoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bloodytoe)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/22 "2003-08-01T13:08:24Z")
I believe your girlfriendis cheating on you. If is treating you like that and is not cheating on you. She is a social retard. For treating you like that, not for not cheating on you. (Gawd awful sentence structure.) I would ditch her because the emotional turmoil is not worth it. Rev Bloodytoe ---
**Author:** ![Waverly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/57b2e6/32.png) [@Waverly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waverly)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/23 "2003-08-01T13:13:04Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by bloodytoe \* > Gawd awful sentence structure Well, you have successfully reached the acceptance phase. Yes, I know from psychology that this is the last phase; but for extra credit, go back and fix it next time. ---
**Author:** ![Lucretia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@Lucretia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucretia)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 1:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/24 "2003-08-01T13:31:11Z")
Oh, for pity’s sake: > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mr\_Friendly \* > \*\*And now you’ve gone to sleep in some random guy’s house who you met at the place you were drinking, a rugby club. > \*\* and > [@](#): > > **She likes me far more than I like her but she seems completely incapable of caring about my feelings a lot of the time.** Stop being a complete idiot and end this relationship immediately, for both your sakes. ---
**Author:** ![UrbanChic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9dc877/32.png) [@UrbanChic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UrbanChic)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 2:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/25 "2003-08-01T14:01:49Z")
You people seem to be overlooking the most important part of Mr\_Friendly’s rant: she spent his BIRTHDAY GIFT money! ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/26 "2003-08-01T14:12:47Z")
Since you have all taken care of the meat of this issue (dump her ass, she’s bad news, nothing but heartache coming your way), I will address the remaining burning issue.\*\* “Messagebopards.”\*\* Are they motorized message board scooters? Are they spotted, very fast message board felines? ---
**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/27 "2003-08-01T14:28:57Z")
My ex treated me like this for quite a while. It was very bad news. She’s so going to dump you when she goes to uni, anyway, and/or get poked by all and sundry. You’re best drawing a veil over this before you get too serious. ---
**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/28 "2003-08-01T15:26:56Z")
Leave now! Run away! Scrum! ---
**Author:** ![Q.N.Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/3da27b/32.png) [@Q.N.Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.N.Jones)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/29 "2003-08-01T16:21:08Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mr\_Friendly \* > **I still want to be with her.** WHY? ---
**Author:** ![SnoopyFan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d07c76/32.png) [@SnoopyFan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SnoopyFan)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/30 "2003-08-01T18:23:58Z")
Are you out 'cho MIND? Dump her. ---
**Author:** ![Doomtrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/0ea827/32.png) [@Doomtrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doomtrain)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/31 "2003-08-01T18:39:39Z")
Yea, sorry, calling from a house full of random dudes is BELOW classless. I’m sure she was half-heartedly saying, “But I have a boyfriend”… ---
**Author:** ![hilltopper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c68b51/32.png) [@hilltopper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hilltopper)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/32 "2003-08-01T18:44:34Z")
If she’s good in the sack, keep her around till she bails on her own. Just practice safe sex. Summer is always better with a piece of ass on standby. IF she is not good in bed or is not putting out at all, see all previous posts. ---
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/33 "2003-08-01T21:12:36Z")
Oh dude. Ohhhhhhhh. Reading that OP made my eyes burn & my hair hurt. Run far away; run quickly; don’t look back. She’s a using hobag who’s apparently too much of a cunt or too immature to take your feelings into account. You say that she cares about you more than the reverse: I feel safe in saying that I seriously doubt that this is the case. I mean, she’s calling you while blind drunk & telling you that she spent the night (and will be spending the rest of the night with) a bunch of rugby players, despite knowing that you’re uncomfortable with the her/rugby players combo. Bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad news. ---
**Author:** ![catsix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@catsix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/catsix)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/34 "2003-08-01T21:25:58Z")
This chick will do nothing but damage. Get away from her before she does more serious damage of a lasting variety, like giving you an STD. ---
**Author:** ![Ryan\_Liam](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ryan_liam/32/3965_2.png) [@Ryan\_Liam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ryan_Liam)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 10:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/35 "2003-08-01T22:19:34Z")
Why do these type of women latch onto guys like the OP anyway (OP ure cool, shes a manipulating bitch) shes using u something to fall back on. Run far away!! ---
**Author:** ![superstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@superstar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/superstar)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 10:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/36 "2003-08-01T22:57:07Z")
This should be an easy call, why are you waiting? Go out and do the same thing when you know she’ll be home alone. Call her at 2am, go back to someones house…etc. Then tell her thats exactly how you feel. Don’t waste a great orgasm (because we all know that takes work) on her! ---
**Author:** ![Zenster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/cdc98d/32.png) [@Zenster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zenster)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/37 "2003-08-01T23:07:59Z")
Drop the little scrubber like a live grenade. ---
**Author:** ![Rhum\_Runner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2bfe46/32.png) [@Rhum\_Runner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhum_Runner)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2003, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/38 "2003-08-01T23:37:57Z")
> [@](#): > > There isnt one anyway, shes movng away to university in september but I still want to be with her. I think extra distance will improve the relationship. I think you should stick it out, make sure you are faithful, you can be sure she will be, esp. at University. If you just give her time, she will come to appreciate you for the guy you are. /sarcasm ---
**Author:** ![danceswithcats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9e8a1a/32.png) [@danceswithcats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/danceswithcats)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2003, 5:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/39 "2003-08-02T05:16:35Z")
**BEEP** That was the **BEEP** slut alarm that I **BEEP** was supposed to **BEEP** have shut off after **BEEP** my former slu/ NO! girlfr **BEEP** stop beeping!! ---
**Author:** ![verbigerate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a5b964/32.png) [@verbigerate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/verbigerate)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2003, 7:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266/40 "2003-08-02T07:27:43Z")
Sounds like a whore-able problem. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ever-caring-girlfriend/192266.md?page=3)