# My fiance miscarried today. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 6, 2003, 10:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847 "2003-04-06T10:23:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/21 "2003-04-06T19:44:35Z")
I’m very sorry that you and your fiancee have had to go through this heartbreak, but I also wish you luck as you prepare for marriage. Best wishes to you both. ---
**Author:** ![Angua](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8baadc/32.png) [@Angua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Angua)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/22 "2003-04-06T19:52:08Z")
YOu have my deepest condolances and sympathies. ---
**Author:** ![Flutterby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Flutterby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flutterby)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 8:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/23 "2003-04-06T20:00:48Z")
_sends big hugs to them both_ ---
**Author:** ![Tansu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/67e7ee/32.png) [@Tansu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tansu)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 8:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/24 "2003-04-06T20:02:56Z")
So sorry for your bad news, **Tristan**. Hugs to you and your lady. Hugs for **Washte** , too. One day, I really hope. One day. ---
**Author:** ![zut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zut/32/2875_2.png) [@zut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zut)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/25 "2003-04-06T20:33:07Z")
Aw, man, that sucks. My sympathies. ---
**Author:** ![Kithara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8491ac/32.png) [@Kithara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kithara)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/26 "2003-04-06T22:24:02Z")
My thoughts and sympathies on your loss. My congratulations and well wishes on your life together. ---
**Author:** ![Lorenzo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/4da419/32.png) [@Lorenzo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lorenzo)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2003, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/27 "2003-04-06T23:26:16Z")
I am sorry for your loss. I will pray for you today. ---
**Author:** ![Pixiesnix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/898d66/32.png) [@Pixiesnix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixiesnix)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2003, 5:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/28 "2003-04-07T05:41:39Z")
I am sorry, **Tristan**. Good luck with your proposal tonight, and better fortune in the future. ---
**Author:** ![Siemsi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b19c9b/32.png) [@Siemsi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siemsi)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2003, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/29 "2003-04-07T13:25:44Z")
I’m sorry for your loss…((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) Please know that time will heal…good luck to you and your lady. ---
**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2003, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/30 "2003-04-07T13:32:02Z")
Sorry for your loss, **Tristan**. ---
**Author:** ![Tomcat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Tomcat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tomcat)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2003, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/31 "2003-04-07T14:19:19Z")
Sorry man, keep well. Hope the hugs and shoulder thing helps her through this. -Tcat ---
**Author:** ![Tristan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tristan/32/18058_2.png) [@Tristan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tristan)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2003, 7:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/32 "2003-04-09T07:08:21Z")
Update: First off, thank you all for the kind words and thoughts. Knowing that we’re not alone in dealing with this helped quite a bit. We appreciate it. As for the proposal… we were at Macaroni Grill, compliments of **Kat Lady** and during dessert I popped the question. She replied with a very teary yes, which made me feel good. She said that she thought it was coming, but the timing was great and helped make her feel quite a bit better. She also said that if she had been thinking better, she would have hemmed and hawwed, just to mess with me. I love my evil fiance. Thanks again all. ---
**Author:** ![Branwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ea924/32.png) [@Branwen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Branwen)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2003, 7:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847/33 "2003-04-09T07:19:49Z")
Congratulations on your engagement, and I am so very sorry for your loss. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-fiance-miscarried-today/166847.md?page=1)