# My husband died last night

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 19, 2009, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999 "2009-01-19T16:10:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![DMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@DMark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DMark)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 7:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/241 "2009-01-20T07:17:07Z")

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I cannot imagine your feelings of grief and sadness.  
I am truly sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Queen\_Tonya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/4491bb/32.png) [@Queen\_Tonya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Tonya)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 7:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/242 "2009-01-20T07:25:45Z")

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As soon as I saw this my heart sank into my stomach. I remember so much affection for your husband coming from your posts, it’s just awful that he’s gone. I am most sincerely sorry for your loss.

We’re almost neighbors, please let us know if we can help, anytime and anyway.

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**Author:** ![si\_blakely](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d9b06d/32.png) [@si\_blakely](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/si_blakely)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 7:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/243 "2009-01-20T07:43:06Z")

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Just adding to the expressions of sympathy and condolence. You and your family are in my prayers, **jsgoddess**.

Si

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**Author:** ![meenie7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7993a0/32.png) [@meenie7](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/meenie7)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 10:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/244 "2009-01-20T10:13:20Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. All my best wishes are with you and the others who loved your husband and mourn him.

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**Author:** ![SomeUserName](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e480ec/32.png) [@SomeUserName](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SomeUserName)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 10:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/245 "2009-01-20T10:46:07Z")

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My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 11:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/246 "2009-01-20T11:54:15Z")

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Nothing I can say that hasn’t been mentioned.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/247 "2009-01-20T12:00:51Z")

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I’m sorry for your troubles, **jsgoddess**. ☹

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/248 "2009-01-20T12:08:48Z")

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I’m so sorry. I hope you find peace.

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**Author:** ![Svejk\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ea666f/32.png) [@Svejk\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Svejk_1)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/249 "2009-01-20T12:11:16Z")

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☹

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**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/250 "2009-01-20T12:28:05Z")

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Death is such an integral part of life, but it still knocks us for a total sixer whenever it happens to our most loved-ones. Nothing any of us can say or do will make your journey now any easier **jsgoddess** , but we Dopers are thinking and caring and praying for you. Take care and be kind to yourself.

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**Author:** ![Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Unauthorized_Cinnamon)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/251 "2009-01-20T12:35:29Z")

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How horrible. I wish there were something I could say that would make it better. I’ll have to settle for saying I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/252 "2009-01-20T12:45:16Z")

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Our hearts are with you, **js**.

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**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/253 "2009-01-20T12:54:43Z")

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I’m so sorry very for your loss…positive thoughts to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Dr.Woo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr.Woo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Woo)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/254 "2009-01-20T13:15:48Z")

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I am so terribly sorry for your loss, **jsgoddess**. You will be in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![ReuvenB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9fc348/32.png) [@ReuvenB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ReuvenB)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/255 "2009-01-20T13:18:53Z")

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I am so sorry, **jsgoddess**.

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**Author:** ![Sami41](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c57346/32.png) [@Sami41](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sami41)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 1:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/256 "2009-01-20T13:19:55Z")

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So sorry. . .

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**Author:** ![AtomicDog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ac91a4/32.png) [@AtomicDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AtomicDog)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/257 "2009-01-20T13:20:02Z")

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Anne\_Neville](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Anne\_Neville](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anne_Neville)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/258 "2009-01-20T14:25:32Z")

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{{{{{ **jsgoddess** }}}}}

My condolences for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Harmonious\_Discord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/74df32/32.png) [@Harmonious\_Discord](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Harmonious_Discord)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/259 "2009-01-20T15:04:04Z")

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I’m sad for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Tupug\_Anachi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7993a0/32.png) [@Tupug\_Anachi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tupug_Anachi)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 3:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/260 "2009-01-20T15:10:07Z")

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{{{{{jsgoddess}}}}} I am so sorry.

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