# My husband died last night **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 19, 2009, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999 "2009-01-19T16:10:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Omegaman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e480ec/32.png) [@Omegaman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omegaman)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/21 "2009-01-19T16:28:22Z")
Sorry to hear of your loss. I have no words that can or will make a difference in this most despairing of times for you. Peace be with you. ---
**Author:** ![Kyla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/eada6e/32.png) [@Kyla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kyla)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/22 "2009-01-19T16:29:41Z")
Oh my god! I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences. Really. ---
**Author:** ![StGermain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stgermain/32/2868_2.png) [@StGermain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StGermain)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/23 "2009-01-19T16:31:12Z")
I’m so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. StG ---
**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/24 "2009-01-19T16:32:50Z")
Oh, I’m so sorry, jsgoddess…wish I could give you a hug. Know that you are in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/25 "2009-01-19T16:32:51Z")
So, so sorry to hear that. Take care. Take help wherever you can, whenever you need. ---
**Author:** ![dangermom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e274bd/32.png) [@dangermom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dangermom)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/26 "2009-01-19T16:33:00Z")
Oh, I’m so sorry. I knew he was sick, but didn’t know it was so serious. ---
**Author:** ![nashiitashii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7c8e57/32.png) [@nashiitashii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nashiitashii)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/27 "2009-01-19T16:34:18Z")
I’m very sorry for your loss, even though I can only sort of relate. In time, I hope things become better for you, but I know you’re going to be sad for a while. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me. ---
**Author:** ![SmartAleq](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smartaleq/32/163_2.png) [@SmartAleq](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SmartAleq)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/28 "2009-01-19T16:34:24Z")
Oh no! **{{{jsgoddess}}}** I’m so sorry for your loss–I can only imagine how devastated you must be, or will be once the shock wears off. Please take care of yourself and always know that we are here for you. As imaginary as we must all seem to be at times, nevertheless we are here and our shoulders are many and strong, suitable for crying on and our ears are many to hear your shouting at the unfairness of it all. Blessed be. ---
**Author:** ![BlueKangaroo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@BlueKangaroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlueKangaroo)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/29 "2009-01-19T16:34:26Z")
My condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![Acid\_Lamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Acid\_Lamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acid_Lamp)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/30 "2009-01-19T16:35:42Z")
My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/31 "2009-01-19T16:36:04Z")
Oh, js…I’m so very very sorry. I know it sounds trite, but honestly and really, if there’s anything I can do, I’m here. If you need to rant or babble or talk about anything related or not related, my PM and email boxes are open to you. I don’t suppose a casserole would mail well… ---
**Author:** ![Poysyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Poysyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poysyn)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/32 "2009-01-19T16:36:16Z")
I am so sorry. I remember what my mom was like after my step-father died. Even though it was after a long battle with a terminal illness, it didn’t make it any easier. My prayers are with you. ---
**Author:** ![TVeblen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4bbf92/32.png) [@TVeblen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TVeblen)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/33 "2009-01-19T16:40:11Z")
I’m so very sorry, **js**. I wish comfort and peace for you in the days ahead. ---
**Author:** ![Mama\_Zappa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Mama\_Zappa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mama_Zappa)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/34 "2009-01-19T16:41:31Z")
Hell. I am so sorry to hear of your loss ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Kolga](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e56c9b/32.png) [@Kolga](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kolga)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/35 "2009-01-19T16:43:51Z")
I’m so so sorry to hear this. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![MsWhatsit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@MsWhatsit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsWhatsit)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/36 "2009-01-19T16:43:53Z")
This is horrible, shocking news. I am so sorry. Let other people take care of you for a while. ---
**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/37 "2009-01-19T16:45:21Z")
Oh my…this is terrible news. I wish you and your family peace and strength. So sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Dottygumdrop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Dottygumdrop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dottygumdrop)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/38 "2009-01-19T16:46:41Z")
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have lots of friends and family with you in this difficult time. ---
**Author:** ![gallows\_fodder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8c91f0/32.png) [@gallows\_fodder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gallows_fodder)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/39 "2009-01-19T16:47:11Z")
I’m so sorry, **jsgoddess** – you and your family are in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![artemis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/91b2a8/32.png) [@artemis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/artemis)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/40 "2009-01-19T16:47:59Z")
**jsgoddess** , I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts today. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999.md?page=3)