# My husband died last night **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 19, 2009, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999 "2009-01-19T16:10:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/81 "2009-01-19T17:54:24Z")
May whatever gods there be, be with you and your family during this difficult time. Sending supporting thoughts your way! ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/82 "2009-01-19T17:55:16Z")
I just don’t have the words. You and your family are in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/83 "2009-01-19T17:57:08Z")
Oh, no! I’m so sorry, **jsgoddess**. And I can extend **supervenusfreak** ’s condolences as well. I remember losing my father and what my mother went through that first 48 hours. There aren’t even words. _hug_ ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/84 "2009-01-19T17:57:52Z")
How awful. I am so sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Scarlett67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scarlett67/32/7387_2.png) [@Scarlett67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scarlett67)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/85 "2009-01-19T17:57:56Z")
What terrible news. Peace be with you. ---
**Author:** ![psycat90](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@psycat90](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/psycat90)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/86 "2009-01-19T18:02:56Z")
I am so sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/87 "2009-01-19T18:06:03Z")
That’s awful, **jsgoddess**. I’m very sorry to hear it. ---
**Author:** ![Misnomer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/misnomer/32/14897_2.png) [@Misnomer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Misnomer)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/88 "2009-01-19T18:15:06Z")
I am so sorry, **jsgoddess**! Like **jayjay** , my first thought was “oh, no.” ---
**Author:** ![criminey.jicket](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@criminey.jicket](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/criminey.jicket)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/89 "2009-01-19T18:15:25Z")
Oh my, **jsgoddess**. I am so, so sorry to hear this. Every word I can think to say is hopelessly inadequate. I’m sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Borgia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_borgia/32/156_2.png) [@Larry\_Borgia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Borgia)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/90 "2009-01-19T18:17:25Z")
I’m very sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Cisco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Cisco](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cisco)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/91 "2009-01-19T18:20:31Z")
This is terrible news, and I’m really sorry to hear it, jsgoddess. ---
**Author:** ![TheScogg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a5b964/32.png) [@TheScogg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheScogg)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/92 "2009-01-19T18:25:06Z")
My sincerest condolences jsgoddess. Take care of yourself. ---
**Author:** ![Jenaroph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e8c25b/32.png) [@Jenaroph](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jenaroph)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/93 "2009-01-19T18:28:49Z")
I feel useless here, there isn’t a single thing to say that’s going to break through the shock and help anything. I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/94 "2009-01-19T18:29:54Z")
You’re in our thoughts. Let us know if there’s anything we can do for you. ---
**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/95 "2009-01-19T18:32:55Z")
I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![interface2x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c0e974/32.png) [@interface2x](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/interface2x)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/96 "2009-01-19T18:42:11Z")
What an awful thing. I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Equipoise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/equipoise/32/151_2.png) [@Equipoise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Equipoise)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/97 "2009-01-19T18:51:45Z")
How awful, terrible, horrible. You helped me once when I really needed it. I was so grateful and still am. I wish there was something I could do to help you, but there are no words or deeds that would suffice, that will make it better. {{{{HUGS}}}} ---
**Author:** ![MadPansy64](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@MadPansy64](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MadPansy64)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/98 "2009-01-19T18:51:46Z")
I’m so very sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Philster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/13edae/32.png) [@Philster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Philster)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/99 "2009-01-19T18:57:58Z")
I’m saddened by the news but wish much strength for you. ---
**Author:** ![tumbleddown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e9bcb4/32.png) [@tumbleddown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tumbleddown)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/100 "2009-01-19T19:01:55Z")
I wish you peace and comfort, **jsgoddess**. You’ll be in my thoughts. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999.md?page=6)