# My husband died last night

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 19, 2009, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999 "2009-01-19T16:10:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/101 "2009-01-19T19:04:51Z")

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My condolences on your loss.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Baldwin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/baldwin/32/7264_2.png) [@Baldwin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baldwin)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/102 "2009-01-19T19:05:55Z")

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I’m so sorry, jsgoddess. You’re in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![The\_Blue-Sighted\_Shadow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecae2f/32.png) [@The\_Blue-Sighted\_Shadow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Blue-Sighted_Shadow)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/103 "2009-01-19T19:07:33Z")

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I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/104 "2009-01-19T19:08:22Z")

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You have my deepest sympathy.

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/105 "2009-01-19T19:15:27Z")

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i’m so sorry.  
may his memory be eternal.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/106 "2009-01-19T19:15:58Z")

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So sorry. Hope you can find a way to make sense of it all, however long it takes.

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/107 "2009-01-19T19:17:06Z")

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I don’t suppose words on an Internet message board really help much, but please take what comfort you can from the well wishes of those here.

Do we have any Dopers near **jsgoddess** in Ohio who would be willing to lend her a hand, or take her a casserole or something?

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**Author:** ![Carl\_Corey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Carl\_Corey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Carl_Corey)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/108 "2009-01-19T19:17:22Z")

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I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![bovine\_3.14159](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b9bd4f/32.png) [@bovine\_3.14159](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bovine_3.14159)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/109 "2009-01-19T19:19:36Z")

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My heart hurts for you. I wish that were enough to ease some of your hurt.

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**Author:** ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/110 "2009-01-19T19:24:05Z")

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Best wishes, **jsgoddess**. I hope you’re doing as well as one can be in this situation.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/111 "2009-01-19T19:24:41Z")

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If one more message of condolence helps at all, here it is. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Elenfair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/cc9497/32.png) [@Elenfair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elenfair)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/112 "2009-01-19T19:25:18Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, jsgoddess.

Condolences from the nofair household. ☹

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**Author:** ![taxi78cab](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e47c2d/32.png) [@taxi78cab](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/taxi78cab)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/113 "2009-01-19T19:27:15Z")

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I’m so sorry, **jsgoddes**.

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**Author:** ![Hippy\_Hollow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hippy_hollow/32/4841_2.png) [@Hippy\_Hollow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hippy_Hollow)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/114 "2009-01-19T19:28:39Z")

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Terrible news and very, very sad. I’m sorry for your loss, **jsgoddess**.

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**Author:** ![picker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/picker/32/13969_2.png) [@picker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picker)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/115 "2009-01-19T19:29:12Z")

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I’m so very sorry for you. Wishing you peace and comfort.

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**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/116 "2009-01-19T19:30:13Z")

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My condolences **jsgoddess**. I hope you’re holding up okay.

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**Author:** ![Lissla\_Lissar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lissla\_Lissar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissla_Lissar)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/117 "2009-01-19T19:37:47Z")

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Oh, **js** , I’m so sorry. You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![The\_Second\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bbe5ce/32.png) [@The\_Second\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Second_Stone)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/118 "2009-01-19T19:45:28Z")

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I’m sorry to hear this. You are in my prayers.

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**Author:** ![Viridiana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/ebca7d/32.png) [@Viridiana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Viridiana)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/119 "2009-01-19T19:50:18Z")

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As so many others have said, I’m really sorry this has happened. My heart goes out to you!

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**Author:** ![vix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vix)\
**Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-husband-died-last-night/481999/120 "2009-01-19T19:51:06Z")

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I’m very sorry for your loss.

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