# My ignorant sister massive BITCH!! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [August 7, 2011, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833 "2011-08-07T16:18:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/21 "2011-08-08T20:14:33Z")
> [@Chimera](#): > > So… joined this month with a questionable user name to post this. > > yeah. That should be fk\_yeah ---
**Author:** ![dba\_Fred](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c37758/32.png) [@dba\_Fred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dba_Fred)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 9:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/22 "2011-08-09T09:15:32Z")
“… and shit” Super Kapowzler ---
**Author:** ![Enderw24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ba9def/32.png) [@Enderw24](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enderw24)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 11:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/23 "2011-08-09T11:30:27Z")
> [@fk\_this](#): > > However I do thank you for the critique. I know I’m not perfect. Of course I can’t take out my anger by smashing some plates or going on a rampage. that’s why ranted on this thread - hoping to able to receive some feedback of what everyone thinks and maybe I can learn something from what people say. You can learn from your own mistakes, but you can also learn from the mistakes of others too. What I’ve learned, because you’ve provided absolutely no concrete details upon which to comment, is that you hate her because you hate her. She’s a bitch because she’s a bitch. So my advice is going to be just as specific. Stop dealing with her. Tada. ---
**Author:** ![Chessic\_Sense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7c8e57/32.png) [@Chessic\_Sense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chessic_Sense)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/24 "2011-08-09T15:38:17Z")
Look, OP, you’ve been around her your entire life, but we haven’t. We have no idea if you’re telling us the truth or not. Right now, we only know that you hate her because she said something mean to your girlfriend and she refused to help your mother with a phone bill. That doesn’t exactly invoke images of hell-spawn to me. In other words, what else ya got? ---
**Author:** ![JBDivmstr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JBDivmstr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JBDivmstr)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/25 "2011-08-09T16:43:40Z")
> [@Chessic\_Sense](#): > > Look, OP, you’ve been around her your entire life, but we haven’t. We have no idea if you’re telling us the truth or not. Right now, we only know that you hate her because she said something mean to your girlfriend and she refused to help your mother with a phone bill. That doesn’t exactly invoke images of hell-spawn to me. > > In other words, what else ya got? Seconded! So far, we’ve only heard _one side_ of this, _ **YOUR** _ side. :dubious: Here’s an idea. Why don’t you get **her** to join the SDMB, too! :eek: We’ll get to hear _ **both** _ sides, and _ **then** _ we might be able to offer some insight and advice. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![JBDivmstr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JBDivmstr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JBDivmstr)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 4:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/26 "2011-08-09T16:53:28Z")
> [@Enderw24](#): > > What I’ve learned, because you’ve provided absolutely no concrete details upon which to comment, is that you hate her because you hate her. She’s a bitch because she’s a bitch. > > So my advice is going to be just as specific. Stop dealing with her. Tada. IMHO…_ **That** _, probably **ain’t** _ **gonna** _ _ **happen** _! :rolleyes: That’s a too easy and too simple, solution! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/27 "2011-08-09T17:47:24Z")
> [@JBDivmstr](#): > > Seconded! > > So far, we’ve only heard _one side_ of this, _ **YOUR** _ side. :dubious: > > Here’s an idea. Why don’t you get **her** to join the SDMB, too! :eek: > > We’ll get to hear _ **both** _ sides, and _ **then** _ we might be able to offer some insight and advice. 😉 What a wonderful idea! What this place really needs is two angsty teenagers airing their endless dirty laundry and sniping at each other! Actually, they’d fit right in. ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/28 "2011-08-09T18:57:02Z")
> [@fk\_this](#): > > a lotus flower grows in the deep mud, eventually reaching the light becoming a beautiful flower. > [@cochrane](#): > > The monkey eats custard. The bear shits in the woods. ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/29 "2011-08-09T22:39:30Z")
> [@Freudian\_Slit](#): > > How do you become morally trained? Is it through Cesar Milan-esque TSSST sounds when you do something un-righteous like committing adultery in your heart? That remains my all-time favourite _South Park_ episode. Kills me every time. ---
**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/30 "2011-08-09T22:50:53Z")
> [@fk this](#): > > What i thought was outrageous was when she directly confronted my girlfriend asking her ‘why would you like such a person like him?’ which put my girlfriend and I in a very awkward position. Why, she couldn’t think of an answer? ---
**Author:** ![WOOKINPANUB](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wookinpanub/32/132_2.png) [@WOOKINPANUB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WOOKINPANUB)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/31 "2011-08-09T23:29:22Z")
I think the OP suffers from middle child syndrome. “Marcia Marcia Marcia!” ---
**Author:** ![Double\_Foolscap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85e7bf/32.png) [@Double\_Foolscap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Double_Foolscap)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2011, 4:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833/32 "2011-08-10T16:04:28Z")
C’mon, if you’re going to pit a family member, at least provide some juicy stories - you’ve lived with her for (I’m going to guess your age based on your post) 15 years, you must have something beyond a vague attitude problem and showing you up in front of your girlfriend. Where are the screaming fits about how her dance classes are more important than anything else in the world? Where are the opening of presents meant for you for no discernible reason? Where are the tantrums that are initiated by a single aspect of a plan not working out? Where are the constant screwing up of golden opportunities anybody in their right mind would give their right arm to get? Not that I’m, you know, projecting or anything. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-ignorant-sister-massive-bitch/591833.md?page=1)