# My Mom Died Today

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 19, 2018, 11:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855 "2018-03-19T23:36:08Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/41 "2018-03-20T18:35:05Z")

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> [@The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](#):
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> My condolences, Two Many Cats. I was on a plane rushing home when my Mom passed away, so I’m glad you could be there.

Oh no. I’m sorry – I feel so lucky I was able to get to see my mom awake for a little bit before she feel asleep and died later that night.

I’m sorry, OP, but glad your mom was at peace and had you there with her. My father was right by my mom and pointed out when he heard the rattle. ☹

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**Author:** ![Yllaria](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yllaria/32/3452_2.png) [@Yllaria](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yllaria)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/42 "2018-03-20T19:29:35Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss, **Two Many Cats**. And I hope your cat is OK.

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**Author:** ![mind\_the\_gap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ea666f/32.png) [@mind\_the\_gap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mind_the_gap)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/43 "2018-03-20T19:40:08Z")

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Hugs and condolences from Mrs. Gap and me.

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**Author:** ![Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim_r.mortiss/32/142_2.png) [@Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tim_R.Mortiss)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/44 "2018-03-20T19:52:01Z")

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So sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I’m sure your very presence, even if you were just sitting there quietly, helped to ease her passing.

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**Author:** ![Shinna\_Minna\_Ma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f08c70/32.png) [@Shinna\_Minna\_Ma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shinna_Minna_Ma)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2018, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/45 "2018-03-20T20:39:11Z")

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I am sorry for your loss.

I was with my sister when my mom passed in her hospice room. It was a powerful moment.

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**Author:** ![janis\_and\_c0](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/janis_and_c0/32/21_2.png) [@janis\_and\_c0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/janis_and_c0)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/46 "2018-03-21T01:56:53Z")

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SO sorry to hear this _HUGS_

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**Author:** ![betterlifethroughchemistry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/betterlifethroughchemistry/32/3094_2.png) [@betterlifethroughchemistry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/betterlifethroughchemistry)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/47 "2018-03-21T02:24:06Z")

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I’m very sorry for your loss, **Cats**. I was beside my father when he passed away at home in hospice care…I think he passed when my Mom went to walk the dogs - she needed a break and I think he knew it was time…it was 16 years ago and it seems like yesterday and I miss him everyday…

My heart goes out to you…

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 5:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/48 "2018-03-21T05:45:14Z")

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Condolences. ☹

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**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/49 "2018-03-21T16:35:07Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself right now, Two Many Cats.

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**Author:** ![Jasmine](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jasmine/32/2964_2.png) [@Jasmine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jasmine)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/50 "2018-03-21T16:39:55Z")

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Don’t beat yourself up. It would be impossible, anyway, to be looking at her day and night without stop. You were there with her and she knew it. Take comfort in that!

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**Author:** ![Poysyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Poysyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poysyn)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/51 "2018-03-21T17:15:57Z")

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It’s always too soon to say goodbye to a loved one, how beautiful that her passing was so peaceful. I am so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![swampspruce](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampspruce/32/261_2.png) [@swampspruce](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampspruce)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2018, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-died-today/810855/52 "2018-03-21T19:06:36Z")

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My sincerest condolences, **TMC**. My own Mom passed away in August in much the same way although it was my sister who was there, not me. I feel your loss.

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