# my Mom has passed away

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 15, 2003, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975 "2003-06-15T06:02:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/21 "2003-06-17T11:44:04Z")

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**Tarragon918** I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![Gazelle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Gazelle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gazelle)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 11:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/22 "2003-06-17T11:45:07Z")

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Oh **tarragon** , I’m so sorry.

I hold you and your family in my thoughts and in my heart.

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**Author:** ![Elza\_B](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Elza\_B](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elza_B)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 1:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/23 "2003-06-17T13:10:09Z")

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I’m so sorry. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. What a lovely thing your daughter did for your mother.

Ava

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**Author:** ![Shirley\_Ujest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@Shirley\_Ujest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shirley_Ujest)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/24 "2003-06-17T13:13:15Z")

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Your mom was very fortunate to have two women in her life that cared so much.

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**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/25 "2003-06-17T13:20:04Z")

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**tarragon** , my deepest condolences. My mother is currently undergoing weekly chemotherapy for her liver cancer, and I know what a hardship it is for her. I am sure that she appreciated your care more than you will ever know.

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/26 "2003-06-17T13:39:33Z")

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\*\* tarragon\*\* I’m so sorry about the loss of your mother. I’m offering a prayer for you and your whole family, that your grief may soon be lessened. How wonderful that your daughter was able to care for her grandmother in this way!

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/27 "2003-06-17T13:45:36Z")

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\*\* tarragon\*\* I’m so sorry about the loss of your mother. I’m offering a prayer for you and your whole family, that your grief may soon be lessened. How wonderful that your daughter was able to care for her grandmother in this way!

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**Author:** ![Siemsi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b19c9b/32.png) [@Siemsi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siemsi)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/28 "2003-06-17T14:30:29Z")

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I’m so very sorry for your loss…prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Ashkicker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/4bbf92/32.png) [@Ashkicker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ashkicker)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/29 "2003-06-17T14:52:27Z")

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I am very sorry to hear about your mom. Hugs to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![tarragon918](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d26b3c/32.png) [@tarragon918](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tarragon918)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/30 "2003-06-17T15:06:05Z")

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Thank you all for your kind thoughts and prayers and support; it means a lot to my family and I. There’s a bit of turmoil going on now about the funeral, hopefully that will be resolved before Saturday (although I must say that I doubt it, unfortunately :().

My daughter has really been a rock of both strength and help these past two months and we are all very grateful that she was able to take care of Mom.

Thank you again, everyone.

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**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/31 "2003-06-17T16:50:52Z")

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I’m sorry for your family’s loss - please accept my condolences as well.

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**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/32 "2003-06-17T21:20:34Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss.  
Be sure to kiss your daughter and tell her how truly special she is.

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**Author:** ![ReBusEniGma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/d9b06d/32.png) [@ReBusEniGma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ReBusEniGma)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/33 "2003-06-17T21:31:42Z")

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My sincerest condolences on your loss, **terragon**. Nothing can really prepare you for a time like this. Take time to greave and heal.

You’re in our thoughts.

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**Author:** ![Slainte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Slainte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slainte)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/34 "2003-06-17T21:43:32Z")

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**tarragon918** , your family is in my thoughts.

What a wonderful daughter you have.

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**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/35 "2003-06-17T21:52:49Z")

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Take time and take care **tarragon**. Thank you for sharing this special time with us here. Sometimes heavy hearts can be eased just a little by sharing the pain with others.

We’re holding you and your family in our thoughts.

kambuckta.

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**Author:** ![PunditLisa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@PunditLisa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PunditLisa)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 10:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/36 "2003-06-17T22:08:41Z")

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So very sorry to hear about your loss. Glad your mother was around a long enough time to leave a lasting imprint on those who grieve her now.

Sorry about the funeral mess. People tend to either act very well or very badly at these things.

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**Author:** ![Quasimodem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Quasimodem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quasimodem)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2003, 11:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/37 "2003-06-17T23:33:43Z")

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I would like to add my name to the long list of your friends who grieve with you. Your daughter sounds like she’s really been your “rock”. My sincere condolonces on your loss **tarragon**.

Quasimodem

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**Author:** ![beckwall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b487fb/32.png) [@beckwall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beckwall)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2003, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/38 "2003-06-18T00:52:26Z")

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Your Mom knew that you were there on Saturday. People feel the presence of their loved ones, even in a comatose state.

May you find some comfort in knowing that she has found her peaceful path.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![photopat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e95f7d/32.png) [@photopat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/photopat)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2003, 12:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/39 "2003-06-18T00:55:58Z")

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My condolences, **tarragon**.

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**Author:** ![robgruver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@robgruver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robgruver)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2003, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-has-passed-away/181975/40 "2003-06-18T01:46:08Z")

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Its good to know your daughter gave her last days joy and happiness. Much love to you **tarragon**.

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