# My mom was killed in a fire last night.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 27, 2011, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881 "2011-04-27T12:25:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/201 "2011-04-27T22:10:21Z")

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Oh, Dio…how awful. It’s one of my biggest worries with an elderly, not-so-mobile parent. I’m so sorry you are having to go through this.

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**Author:** ![llcoolbj77](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb9ed0/32.png) [@llcoolbj77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/llcoolbj77)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/202 "2011-04-27T22:28:15Z")

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So sorry Dio! Wishing you peace and calm and strength.

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**Author:** ![Sierra\_Indigo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f0a364/32.png) [@Sierra\_Indigo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sierra_Indigo)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/203 "2011-04-27T22:34:33Z")

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My thoughts are with you and your family, Dio.

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**Author:** ![Kinthalis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kinthalis/32/16084_2.png) [@Kinthalis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kinthalis)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/204 "2011-04-27T22:35:14Z")

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I’m very sorry Dio.

I’ll keep you in my thoughts and wish you all the strength in the world to get through this.

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/205 "2011-04-27T22:36:06Z")

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I wish you every strength and comfort. This is a horrible, horrible thing to deal with.

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**Author:** ![Rilchiam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2bfe46/32.png) [@Rilchiam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rilchiam)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/206 "2011-04-27T22:37:34Z")

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So sorry, **Dio**.

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**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/207 "2011-04-27T22:43:46Z")

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So sorry **Dio**.  
My thought are with you and your family.

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**Author:** ![redtail23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/3e96dc/32.png) [@redtail23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/redtail23)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/208 "2011-04-27T22:59:31Z")

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Oh, Dio, that’s horrendous. I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![GythaOgg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/49beb7/32.png) [@GythaOgg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GythaOgg)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/209 "2011-04-27T23:11:01Z")

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I’m so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/210 "2011-04-27T23:13:28Z")

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I’m really sorry about your loss. Best to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/211 "2011-04-27T23:18:25Z")

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What a horrible thing. My condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![shellofmyformerself](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5f8ce5/32.png) [@shellofmyformerself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shellofmyformerself)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/212 "2011-04-27T23:26:23Z")

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Coming out of (mostly) lurkdom to offer my condolences.

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**Author:** ![Cheez\_Whia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d26b3c/32.png) [@Cheez\_Whia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheez_Whia)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/213 "2011-04-27T23:26:33Z")

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I’m so sorry. It’s difficult to lose a parent. ☹

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**Author:** ![Lazlo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lazlo/32/9678_2.png) [@Lazlo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lazlo)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/214 "2011-04-27T23:26:41Z")

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My deepest condolences.

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**Author:** ![No\_umlaut\_for\_U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ea5d25/32.png) [@No\_umlaut\_for\_U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/No_umlaut_for_U)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/215 "2011-04-27T23:58:21Z")

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Peace and strength to you. Yours was my worst fear for my elderly parents.

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**Author:** ![gardentraveler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gardentraveler/32/3576_2.png) [@gardentraveler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gardentraveler)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/216 "2011-04-28T00:08:07Z")

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How horrible. Condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![missred](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/missred/32/14096_2.png) [@missred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missred)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/217 "2011-04-28T00:09:12Z")

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You and your family are in my thoughts, **Dio**.

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**Author:** ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/218 "2011-04-28T00:50:22Z")

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. This must a real shock to you. Let us hope that it was smoke inhalation.

Not to be difficult, but I’m kinda 😕 about the authorities–how long does it take to be officially notified? When my sister was found dead in her condo, the building manager called me right away and went down to ID her,

Maybe the house has such damage that there are no records or phone numbers available? But then wouldn’t the cops ask a neighbor (perhaps the same one who notified you?). I’m just puzzled about this.

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**Author:** ![An\_Arky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/87869e/32.png) [@An\_Arky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/An_Arky)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/219 "2011-04-28T00:57:00Z")

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I’m really sorry, Dio. Take care.

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**Author:** ![Barrett\_Bonden](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5e9695/32.png) [@Barrett\_Bonden](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Barrett_Bonden)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-mom-was-killed-in-a-fire-last-night/579881/220 "2011-04-28T01:06:42Z")

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I’m so sorry, **Dio**.

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