# My niece has been raped **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [May 26, 2009, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632 "2009-05-26T00:47:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![Gfactor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@Gfactor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gfactor)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/141 "2009-05-30T00:10:52Z")
> [@jakesteele](#): > > Now, if you really want to get down and dirty, see if you can hire two or three bigass, leather, gay guys to rape him. > > If he has children, make an anonymous call to the Child Protective Services accusing him of child abuse. Then do it a couple of months later and so forth. The CPS, by law, have to investigate every claim. They will clear him, but they will have a paper trail on file on him and will always consider him a person of interest. I don’t mean to single this post out. We’ve had some other suggestions of illegal conduct. I just want to remind everyone that the registration agreement says: > [@](#): > > You agree not to post material that in our opinion encourages activity that is illegal in the U.S. > **[SDMB registration agreement as of 12/29/2008](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=423183)** > > The agreement below spells out the rules by which SDMB users are expected to abide. Changes since the last version are indicated in bold. These changes reflect the change in ownership and switch to free posting. All changes are effective immediately.... Let’s keep the suggestions legal from now on. No warnings issued. \*\* Gfactor\*\* Pit Moderator ---
**Author:** ![El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/41988e/32.png) [@El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Cid_Viscoso)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 12:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/142 "2009-05-30T00:46:25Z")
An ex-girlfriend “P” in Boulder got drugged and diddled by “Q,” a male “best friend” she’d known since grade school. Q was a Marine. Two years later Q’s back from deployment and stays over at the house P’s renting. Q passes out at a party, wakes up on the couch getting a blowjob from a notorious male seducer we all know. P gets video of most of it, including the happy ending and walk of shame. What do you think she’s done with this video so far? ---
**Author:** ![jakesteele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ed8c4c/32.png) [@jakesteele](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jakesteele)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/143 "2009-05-30T00:58:59Z")
> [@FriarTed](#): > > It’s very cold… in space. > > > [@](#): > > > > Not that it’s relevant but any chance to quote Khan! I loved that movie. ---
**Author:** ![jakesteele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ed8c4c/32.png) [@jakesteele](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jakesteele)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/144 "2009-05-30T01:00:25Z")
> [@Gfactor](#): > > I don’t mean to single this post out. We’ve had some other suggestions of illegal conduct. I just want to remind everyone that the registration agreement says: > > [SDMB registration agreement as of 12/29/2008 - About This Message Board - Straight Dope Message Board](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=423183) > > Let’s keep the suggestions legal from now on. No warnings issued. > \*\* > Gfactor\*\* > Pit Moderator I apologize for that, it won’t happen again. ---
**Author:** ![Cisco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Cisco](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cisco)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/145 "2009-05-30T03:09:25Z")
> [@El\_Cid\_Viscoso](#): > > An ex-girlfriend “P” in Boulder got drugged and diddled by “Q,” a male “best friend” she’d known since grade school. Q was a Marine. > > Two years later Q’s back from deployment and stays over at the house P’s renting. Q passes out at a party, wakes up on the couch getting a blowjob from a notorious male seducer we all know. P gets video of most of it, including the happy ending and walk of shame. What do you think she’s done with this video so far? Wait, he woke up and let the guy keep going until he came? ---
**Author:** ![El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/41988e/32.png) [@El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Cid_Viscoso)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/146 "2009-05-30T14:09:19Z")
> [@Cisco](#): > > Wait, he woke up and let the guy keep going until he came? Yep. ---
**Author:** ![Cisco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Cisco](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cisco)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/147 "2009-05-30T15:44:55Z")
It sounds like he thought of it more as a free blowjob than revenge. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/148 "2009-05-30T16:27:26Z")
Semen is a dish best served warm. ---
**Author:** ![El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/41988e/32.png) [@El\_Cid\_Viscoso](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Cid_Viscoso)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/149 "2009-05-30T19:04:37Z")
> [@Cisco](#): > > It sounds like he thought of it more as a free blowjob than revenge. Until P showed the video to Q’s brother, a co-worker and his fiancée. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632/150 "2009-05-31T17:46:13Z")
Any updates? Could [this](http://www.recordnet.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20090529/A_NEWS/905290324) be your niece? i don’t honestly think it is, but I recommend reading the article. Her father sounds like a prick and a throwback, but as the article illustrates, he is not alone (and may actually truly believe he’s sparing his daughter). > [@](#): > > A woman identified in court papers as Jane Doe claimed in a March lawsuit that two basketball players raped her at a May 2008 party at Townhouses, campus housing on Pershing Avenue, and that a third player came into the room where she was and assaulted her as the first two players were leaving. > > Pacific spokesman Richard Rojo said Thursday that the school does not consider the incident to be a rape. > > “We would call it date rape,” he said. > > Rojo said the university considers “outright rape” and date rape to be different, in that date rape does not involve “a rapist jumping out of bushes and attacking people randomly.” > > He said, "These are people who knew each other. … It’s a social situation and unfortunately an all-too common problem at universities. > > … > > The university’s Judicial Hearing Board heard from witnesses June 16, including from men’s and women’s basketball players who said Doe was flirting with at least two of the men she said assaulted her, the university claimed. > > … > > One women’s basketball player said Doe was engaging in “a lot of ‘sleazy behavior,’” the university said in its filing. That student said Doe also “made comments such as, ‘Who is going to get laid tonight?’” Pacific claimed, and two witnesses said they saw Doe hug one of the accused men after the incident. > > … > > In her lawsuit, Doe accused Pacific Vice President of Student Life Elizabeth Griego of blaming Doe for the assault and saying the three men “are very popular and do not need to force anyone to have sex with them.” Just cutting and pasting some of that tripe makes me sick, but it’s all there – treating acquaintance rape as ‘not real rape’ (even though it’s the standard (eally, it should be ‘rape’ and ‘stranger rape’), questioning the (alleged) victim’s reputation, assuming that any woman who’s friendly with a man is consenting to sex, assuming consenting to sex with one person opens up the floodgates to anyone who’s game, treating rape as if it’s all about sex (meaning no handsome or popular man could ever commit it). In 2009. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-niece-has-been-raped/497632.md?page=7)