# My one and only thread about Abortion

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519>\
**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [June 20, 2001, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519 "2001-06-20T20:30:54Z")\
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**Author:** ![Ad\_Noctum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b19c9b/32.png) [@Ad\_Noctum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ad_Noctum)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/1 "2001-06-20T20:30:54Z")

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ABORTION IS MURDER.  
there are two bodies involved. The womans and that of the life she carries: it is selfishness, heartlessness and hedonism in its most vile, deplorable form to believe that the life created is inconsequential if it means that that life might interrupt the entertainment level or inconvenience the mother or the father in any way.  
God have mercy on us all for this evil which our laws now sanction.  
God have mercy on those who defend this “right”  
God have mercy on those of us who know it is evil and who say nothing.

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**Author:** ![BornDodgy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19b73/32.png) [@BornDodgy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BornDodgy)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/2 "2001-06-20T20:48:35Z")

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If devil should posess me to board a flight to the US one fine day… somebody hit me in the head until my eyes fall out…

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**Author:** ![minty\_green](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f6c823/32.png) [@minty\_green](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/minty_green)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/3 "2001-06-20T20:50:56Z")

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> _Originally posted by Ad Noctum_  
> ABORTION IS MURDER.

Keeping in mind that “murder” is a _legal_ concept . . . cite, please?

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> there are two bodies involved. The womans and that of the life she carries:

Surprisingly enough, that woman’s body is still not yours. And just because the tone of this manifesto leads me to believe you think fully-human life begins at conception, would you please tell me how a single cell qualifies as a “body”?

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> it is selfishness, heartlessness and hedonism in its most vile, deplorable form to believe that the life created is inconsequential if it means that that life might interrupt the entertainment level or inconvenience the mother or the father in any way.

Screw those reasons. If I was a woman, I’d have as many abortions as possible just to piss of all the insufferably sanctimonious anti-abortion folks.

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> God have mercy on us all for this evil which our laws now sanction.  
> God have mercy on those who defend this “right”  
> God have mercy on those of us who know it is evil and who say nothing.

Funninly enough, you’ve just said “something.” No mercy for you then, huh? 😉

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**Author:** ![SisterCoyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@SisterCoyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SisterCoyote)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/4 "2001-06-20T21:21:30Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Ad Noctum \*  
> **it is selfishness, heartlessness and hedonism in its most vile, deplorable form to believe that the life created is inconsequential if it means that that life might _interrupt the entertainment level or inconvenience the mother or the father in any way_.** (emphasis mine - db)

You know, this arguement fascinates me. I don’t know a single woman for whom the choice to have an abortion had anything to do with inconvenience or “interruption of entertainment level.” In fact, from what I’ve seen, it’s a horrible, wrenching thing to have to go through, and I hope I’m never put in the position of having to make the choice.

How many women do you know, **Nocturne** , if any, that have made this decision? How was it for them? Just flip a switch - oops, made a mistake - and go on with life?

I find that hard to believe.

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**Author:** ![Ad\_Noctum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b19c9b/32.png) [@Ad\_Noctum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ad_Noctum)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/5 "2001-06-20T21:32:19Z")

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\*Originally posted by dogsbody \*  
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> \*Originally posted by Ad Noctum \*  
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> How many women do you know, **Nocturne** , if any, that have made this decision?  
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Hi, how are ya? I’m Ad Noctum. Not Nocturne. Thank you.

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**Author:** ![Weird\_AL\_Einstein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c67d28/32.png) [@Weird\_AL\_Einstein](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weird_AL_Einstein)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/6 "2001-06-20T21:34:29Z")

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> \*Originally posted by minty green \*  
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> > _Originally posted by Ad Noctum_  
> > ABORTION IS MURDER.
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> Keeping in mind that “murder” is a _legal_ concept . . . cite, please?  
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I think that is a flawed argument. Genocidal dictators aren’t breaking any laws…they **make** the laws…but we still hold them to account for their actions.

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> \*Originally posted by BornDodgy \*  
> **If devil should posess me to board a flight to the US one fine day… somebody hit me in the head until my eyes fall out…**

No problem. I assume it will then be ok to to take your ticket to return to the US, which is what I will definitely want to do, in spite of the fact that I am sure that there are no crazy people where **you** live :rolleyes:

To paraphrase Winston Churchill, the USA is the worst nation on earth, except for all the other ones.

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**Author:** ![TexasSpur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a6a055/32.png) [@TexasSpur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TexasSpur)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/7 "2001-06-20T21:38:28Z")

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If it is such a heart wrenching thing for the women to go through, how come half of women who have one abortion have another? It seems like they would cease the irresponsible behavior so they would never have to go through it again.

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**Author:** ![ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/8 "2001-06-20T21:41:24Z")

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> \*Originally posted by BornDodgy \*  
> \*\*If devil should posess me to board a flight to the US one fine day… somebody hit me in the head until my eyes fall out…
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This is one of the most narrow-minded, short-sighted OPs I’ve ever read here. It’s an unfortunate side-effect that in the land of the free, people with no understanding, information, or insight are ALSO free to spout their dim opinions. Having a discussion with someone like this is as senseless as becoming involved in an argument with a person who uses the Bible to prove that everything he says is correct.

I’m starting to feel like boarding a plane OUT of this country.

-L

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**Author:** ![december](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/838e76/32.png) [@december](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/december)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/9 "2001-06-20T21:45:41Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Ad Noctum \*  
> \*\*way.  
> God have mercy on us all for this evil which our laws now sanction.  
> God have mercy on those who defend this “right”  
> God have mercy on those of us who know it is evil and who say nothing. \*\*

If and when God contacts me and affirms that abortion is murder, I’ll believe it. So far, I haven’t heard Him discuss the issue.

Sorry to be flip. If **Ad’s** God says that abortion is murder, that’s the of the debate\* for **Ad** \*. But, it doesn’t answer the question for the rest of us.

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**Author:** ![BornDodgy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19b73/32.png) [@BornDodgy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BornDodgy)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/10 "2001-06-20T21:46:52Z")

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I am sure that there are no crazy people where **you** live :rolleyes:

To paraphrase Winston Churchill, the USA is the worst nation on earth, except for all the other ones.

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fair enough…

It is only that I recently heared on the radio that “reeducation” camps (for gay/lesbian teenagers) really exist, so I kind of lost the last bit of trust in the universe…  
Europe is just as bad… only in diffrent ways.

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**Author:** ![BornDodgy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19b73/32.png) [@BornDodgy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BornDodgy)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/11 "2001-06-20T21:50:12Z")

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^  
sorry for the hijack

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**Author:** ![zwaldd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a9adbd/32.png) [@zwaldd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zwaldd)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/12 "2001-06-20T21:54:54Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Ad Noctum \*  
> \*\*God have mercy on those who defend this “right”  
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Thank you, that’s very kind. If God grants your prayer, will he still have mercy on me even if I’ve committed other sins, so long as I continue to defend abortion “rights”?

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**Author:** ![BornDodgy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19b73/32.png) [@BornDodgy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BornDodgy)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/13 "2001-06-20T22:12:37Z")

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> \*Originally posted by SexyWriter \*
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> This is one of the most narrow-minded, short-sighted OPs I’ve ever read here. It’s an unfortunate side-effect that in the land of the free, people with no understanding, information, or insight are ALSO free to spout their dim opinions. Having a discussion with someone like this is as senseless as becoming involved in an argument with a person who uses the Bible to prove that everything he says is correct.
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Right. One post of me you dont like and you already know everything about my personality.  
Anyways… I dont want this to be another hijack… so…

Ad, while I like an abortion thread now and then I dont see where this one should be leading. There are no real arguments at all in your post (or maybe I am just too stuckup to see them :rolleyes: and it is cruel to those of us here who have had an abortion. Even if it sounds dumb, the only thing I can think of that equals your extreme opinion (unless it was a hoax… was it? I am not sure actually)well the only thing I can think of is to say that wanking is murder too. Think of all the poor spermies!!!  
You write there are two bodies involved… in my opinion: one body, one fetus. If you count the fetus as a human being and give it rights, you are taking rights from the already existing human through enforcing the unborn’s rights.

God has nothing to do with this if you ask me. One of the reasons why the abortion rate is so high (and also teenage mothers are getting more and more common) is religion (not religion itselfs, just some of the people who know too little about it and preach too much in their sparetime)  
Sex is bad. But using condoms/taking the pill is equally bad… worse even? This cant lead anywhere. Waiting until marriage might be a nice concept, and it might work for some, but not for everybody. Scaring people doesnt usually help solve problems. Telling kids less about “flowers and bees” but more about contraception would be nice… it might not solve the problem, but it would help.

dodgy

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**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 10:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/14 "2001-06-20T22:25:29Z")

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> Hi, how are ya? I’m Ad Noctum. Not Nocturne. Thank you.

On behalf of **dogsbody** , let me say “oops. Sorry about that. Now please answer the question.”

Or are you just trolling? A little drive-by hellfire and brimstone for us? Completely uninterested in learning what other people believe and how they think?

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**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/15 "2001-06-20T22:29:42Z")

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> Right. One post of me you dont like and you already know everything about my personality.

**Dodgy** , I think she was referring to the original post (OP), not yours.

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**Author:** ![ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 10:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/16 "2001-06-20T22:34:36Z")

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[QUOTE]  
\*Originally posted by BornDodgy \*  
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> There are no real arguments at all in your post… \*\*

Yes, THIS is what I was trying to say. That’s why I made the comment about the OP, as in Original Post. I wasn’t insulting you. I was agreeing with you.

-L

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**Author:** ![SisterCoyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@SisterCoyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SisterCoyote)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/17 "2001-06-20T23:24:25Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Ad Noctum \*  
> \*\*Hi, how are ya? I’m Ad Noctum. Not Nocturne. Thank you. \*\*

Boys and girls, this is why you should never post in a hurry.

Thank you, mea culpa, and goodnight.

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**Author:** ![SisterCoyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@SisterCoyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SisterCoyote)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/18 "2001-06-20T23:29:46Z")

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> \*Originally posted by TexasSpur \*  
> \*\*If it is such a heart wrenching thing for the women to go through, how come half of women who have one abortion have another? It seems like they would cease the irresponsible behavior so they would never have to go through it again. \*\*

Cite, please.  
(oh, and **andros**? TYVM. :))

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**Author:** ![SisterCoyote](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@SisterCoyote](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SisterCoyote)\
**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/19 "2001-06-20T23:35:53Z")

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One last thing - **TexasSpur** , having sex !necessarily= “irresponsible behavior.” Particularly if one (or both) parties are using birth control (as they should be).

Birth control **does** fail, as has been mentioned elsewhere on the board. Unexpected/unwanted pregnancies can happen to almost anyone choosing to have sex (our GBLT friends avoid this particular hazard neatly). In, or out, of marriage.

Unless you’re suggesting that those who don’t want to get pregnant should _only_ be having sex with members of their own gender until they want/can afford a pregnancy and/or are married. Which doesn’t necessarily sound like a bad idea.

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**Author:** ![TexasSpur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a6a055/32.png) [@TexasSpur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TexasSpur)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-one-and-only-thread-about-abortion/69519/20 "2001-06-21T00:17:45Z")

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dogsbody

[http://www.abortionfacts.com/statistics/previous\_abortions.asp](http://www.abortionfacts.com/statistics/previous_abortions.asp)

I seriously doubt that people that are having multiple abortions are using birth control correctly. Condoms and the pill are pretty effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies.

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