# My sister has been murdered **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [February 13, 2012, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731 "2012-02-13T19:01:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 11
**Author:** ![slightly\_askew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d07c76/32.png) [@slightly\_askew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/slightly_askew)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/202 "2012-02-15T00:36:19Z")
My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![even\_sven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/dfb087/32.png) [@even\_sven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/even_sven)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/203 "2012-02-15T00:52:16Z")
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![SanibelMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@SanibelMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanibelMan)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/204 "2012-02-15T00:58:01Z")
I’m very sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![El\_Kabong](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/el_kabong/32/496_2.png) [@El\_Kabong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Kabong)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/205 "2012-02-15T02:08:35Z")
Just adding to the chorus; very sorry to hear of your loss. ---
**Author:** ![CreaseMunky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f475e1/32.png) [@CreaseMunky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CreaseMunky)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/206 "2012-02-15T02:09:57Z")
Deepest sympathies and condolences to you and yours at this sad time. ---
**Author:** ![flatlined](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eb9ed0/32.png) [@flatlined](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flatlined)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/207 "2012-02-15T02:15:42Z")
I’m so sorry for you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![KSO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f07891/32.png) [@KSO](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KSO)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/208 "2012-02-15T02:36:08Z")
I’m so sorry–my deepest sympathies. ---
**Author:** ![Guy\_Incognito](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guy_incognito/32/3920_2.png) [@Guy\_Incognito](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guy_Incognito)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/209 "2012-02-15T03:34:12Z")
I’m sorry for your loss and wish peace for your family and justice for your sister. You will be in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![Dr.Girlfriend](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dr.girlfriend/32/193_2.png) [@Dr.Girlfriend](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Girlfriend)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 3:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/210 "2012-02-15T03:44:14Z")
I’m sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/211 "2012-02-15T03:47:04Z")
Frank, I’m just a marginal poster from 2 time zones away. I never met her, but I know now that its my loss. And yours. I’m so very sorry for your loss… ---
**Author:** ![Brown\_Eyed\_Girl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/brown_eyed_girl/32/3574_2.png) [@Brown\_Eyed\_Girl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brown_Eyed_Girl)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/212 "2012-02-15T05:02:18Z")
I’m sorry for your loss, **Frank**. Thank you for sharing your memories of her. For what it’s worth, it brought a smile to my face and makes my empathy for you and your family that much stronger. Though what must have been a difficult life culminated in tragedy, it’s good to remember that she, at times, brought happiness to those around here. I sincerely hope you will treasure those memories of your sister and that they bring you comfort. My heart breaks for you and yours. ---
**Author:** ![GusNSpot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gusnspot/32/436_2.png) [@GusNSpot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GusNSpot)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 5:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/213 "2012-02-15T05:30:24Z")
Sorry Frank. Hang tough & remember the good times. Am there still after losing my daughter. You will get better… ---
**Author:** ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/214 "2012-02-15T05:49:50Z")
> [@GusNSpot](#): > > You will get better… Quoted for truth. The best advice I ever got after losing someone was allow yourself to feel whatever you’re feeling. Whatever you feel is okay, and those feelings will change from one day to the next. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/215 "2012-02-15T06:01:07Z")
I send inadequate condolences too. ---
**Author:** ![PunditLisa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@PunditLisa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PunditLisa)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/216 "2012-02-15T15:16:30Z")
Hope you’re doing okay today, Frank. I wish your family strength to endure the upcoming weeks and months. ---
**Author:** ![Woeg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/df705f/32.png) [@Woeg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Woeg)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2012, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/217 "2012-02-15T21:16:13Z")
Words fail… Is there any thing you need, man? I have friends in the Denver area - just let me know. Deepest sympathies. ---
**Author:** ![MN\_Maenad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e95f7d/32.png) [@MN\_Maenad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MN_Maenad)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2012, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/218 "2012-02-16T00:57:39Z")
I’m sorry for your and your family’s loss. Please let us know if you need anything. ---
**Author:** ![cherry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/da6949/32.png) [@cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cherry)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2012, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/219 "2012-02-16T01:06:17Z")
Very sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2012, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/220 "2012-02-16T02:43:45Z")
Just saw this. We’ve had our differences in the past, you and I, but I certainly don’t like hearing about this. I hope they catch whoever did it and quickly. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2012, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/221 "2012-02-16T03:18:19Z")
A description and picture have been issued today of the last person to be seen with my sister. I hasten to add, this does not mean he is a suspect. Yet. I hope he comes forward. If he is the murderer, I hope one of his buddies comes forward. The police aren’t going to be interested in busting someone for crack or meth or whatever. They only want information about a murder. I am this close to starting a pit thread that three days later her last name is still being misspelled by half of the news organizations reporting on the case. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731.md?page=10) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731.md?page=12)