# My sister has been murdered

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [February 13, 2012, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731 "2012-02-13T19:01:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/41 "2012-02-13T20:06:47Z")

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I am so sorry **Frank**. That is horrible.

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**Author:** ![Agent\_Foxtrot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9fc29f/32.png) [@Agent\_Foxtrot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Agent_Foxtrot)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/42 "2012-02-13T20:07:56Z")

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My condolences. Truly horrible. Please keep us posted.

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/43 "2012-02-13T20:08:05Z")

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Oh such shocking, terrible news! I’m so sorry, Frank. Such a tragedy. I’ll offer prayers for her, for your parents, and for everyone who loved her.

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/44 "2012-02-13T20:09:40Z")

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Very sorry to hear that, **Frank**. Be strong for your parents.

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**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/45 "2012-02-13T20:10:14Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> Do you know anything about what happened?

Beyond the bare facts, no. She died of “upper body trauma”. Whatever those injuries may be, the police did not hesitate to call it murder. The autopsy is today, and I expect we’ll get the details after that. I’m not sure I want to know.

There’s an implication in one of the online articles I read that the person who discovered her may have a good idea of who did it. We’ll just have to wait further knowledge.

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**Author:** ![Skara\_Brae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f0a364/32.png) [@Skara\_Brae](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skara_Brae)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/46 "2012-02-13T20:12:10Z")

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That’s awful. I am so sorry for you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/47 "2012-02-13T20:21:03Z")

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So Sorry **Frank**. Not sure what else to say under such tragic circumstances.

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**Author:** ![TubaDiva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tubadiva/32/507_2.png) [@TubaDiva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TubaDiva)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/48 "2012-02-13T20:24:33Z")

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I’m so sorry to read of this, Frank. You and your family have my condolences.

You are all in my prayers.

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/49 "2012-02-13T20:25:32Z")

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Very sorry.

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**Author:** ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/50 "2012-02-13T20:27:19Z")

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I’m truly sorry about this.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/51 "2012-02-13T20:27:51Z")

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My condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/52 "2012-02-13T20:27:51Z")

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> [@Frank](#):
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> I’m not sure I want to know.

That didn’t occur to me, but I can see why you might not.

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**Author:** ![Crotalus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crotalus/32/41_2.png) [@Crotalus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crotalus)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/53 "2012-02-13T20:28:00Z")

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I’m very sorry, Frank. You have my sympathy and will be in my prayers.

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**Author:** ![Heart\_of\_Dorkness](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/4bbf92/32.png) [@Heart\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heart_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/54 "2012-02-13T20:28:13Z")

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I’m so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![chorpler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chorpler/32/2888_2.png) [@chorpler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chorpler)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/55 "2012-02-13T20:28:15Z")

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Very sorry to hear that, **Frank**.

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**Author:** ![Invisible\_Chimp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@Invisible\_Chimp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Invisible_Chimp)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/56 "2012-02-13T20:32:01Z")

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My condolences to you and yours, **Frank**.

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**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/57 "2012-02-13T20:43:35Z")

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> [@Chessic\_Sense](#):
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> Sorry, **Frank**. What would you like us to know about her?

She tucked her hair under a batting helmet and snuck in as a pinch-hitter the last game of Little League season in 1969.

She and our brother and I could sing Randy Newman’s “Short People” in perfect three-part harmony.

She started to learn to read at age four because she was determined that her older brother and sister were not going to get to do anything she couldn’t.

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**Author:** ![Soylent\_Juicy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/82dd89/32.png) [@Soylent\_Juicy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Soylent_Juicy)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/58 "2012-02-13T20:49:15Z")

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> [@Frank](#):
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> She tucked her hair under a batting helmet and snuck in as a pinch-hitter the last game of Little League season in 1969.

Awesome. Keep THOSE memories of her.

I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine…

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/59 "2012-02-13T20:49:57Z")

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I am sorry to hear your news Frank - I can’t even think of anything close to something appropriate to say, so I will stop with conveying condolences.

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**Author:** ![WordMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e8c25b/32.png) [@WordMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WordMan)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2012, 9:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/60 "2012-02-13T21:01:40Z")

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Terrible news. I am so sorry for you and your family.

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