# My sister has been murdered **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [February 13, 2012, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731 "2012-02-13T19:01:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![janis\_and\_c0](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/janis_and_c0/32/21_2.png) [@janis\_and\_c0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/janis_and_c0)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/142 "2012-02-14T05:29:17Z")
Frank, I wish there was something I could do but add my condolences & myself to the list of people who are praying for you & your family. I sincerely hope you find some peace and closure. I’m truly sorry. ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/143 "2012-02-14T05:30:07Z")
Oh no! Words aren’t enough. ☹ I hope it all gets resolved swiftly. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/144 "2012-02-14T05:33:07Z")
Hey man, at least you know your sister is no longer living the hell on earth that has been her addiction for so many years. I’m sorry for your loss as a person, it can’t be easy. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/145 "2012-02-14T05:44:03Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > Hey man, at least you know your sister is no longer living the hell on earth that has been her addiction for so many years. Yeah, that really soothes me. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/146 "2012-02-14T05:47:39Z")
> [@Frank](#): > > Yeah, that really soothes me. ? sorry man. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 5:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/147 "2012-02-14T05:56:30Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > ? sorry man. Nobody else was happy about it, and we all had our times of being fed up with her, but she mostly enjoyed her lifestyle. She maintained it for 30 years. If you think being murdered is better than being an addict, well . . . Fuck it. ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/148 "2012-02-14T06:01:52Z")
Oh my fucking no. That is just terrible. I am so sorry that she had troubles, and I am so sorry that they ended this way. Please be well. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/149 "2012-02-14T06:03:00Z")
> [@Frank](#): > > Nobody else was happy about it, and we all had our times of being fed up with her, but she mostly enjoyed her lifestyle. She maintained it for 30 years. If you think being murdered is better than being an addict, well . . . Fuck it. .. ---
**Author:** ![Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f08c70/32.png) [@Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crowbar_of_Irony_3)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/150 "2012-02-14T06:03:05Z")
Oh my gosh, do remember to take care of yourself, **Frank**. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/151 "2012-02-14T06:18:59Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > .. Probably wise to redact whatever you posted. I’m in no mood. ---
**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/152 "2012-02-14T06:30:19Z")
I’m so sorry ☹ I don’t know what I’d do if I lost my sis. For 17 years, it was the two of us against the world. /hugs ---
**Author:** ![Captain\_Amazing](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/6de8d8/32.png) [@Captain\_Amazing](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Captain_Amazing)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/153 "2012-02-14T06:31:00Z")
My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![Gary\_Kumquat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/4491bb/32.png) [@Gary\_Kumquat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gary_Kumquat)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/154 "2012-02-14T06:32:36Z")
My condolences to you and your family. I can’t imagine how upsetting this must be. ---
**Author:** ![nonacetone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nonacetone/32/2819_2.png) [@nonacetone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nonacetone)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/155 "2012-02-14T06:37:42Z")
I’m so sorry, **Frank**. I send you my most sincere condolences. May you all find peace. ---
**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/156 "2012-02-14T06:38:38Z")
Christ, **Frank**! This is terrible to hear. All I can say is that I am sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 7:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/157 "2012-02-14T07:12:28Z")
> [@Frank](#): > > Probably wise to redact whatever you posted. I’m in no mood. All I was going to say was of course I don’t think murder is better than being an addict. Good grief no. Just that she is no longer in pain. I’m not sure why you are acting like I’ve done something wrong here. I’m just offering my condolences like everyone else. I really didn’t mean to further upset you. ---
**Author:** ![Pixiesnix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/898d66/32.png) [@Pixiesnix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixiesnix)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 7:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/158 "2012-02-14T07:18:29Z")
I’m so sorry, **Frank**. ---
**Author:** ![King\_Bobo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/c68b51/32.png) [@King\_Bobo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/King_Bobo)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 7:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/159 "2012-02-14T07:18:51Z")
Frank, so very sorry that you lost your sister in such a tragic way. I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere thoughts to you and your family at such a sad time. ---
**Author:** ![Amasia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ba9def/32.png) [@Amasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Amasia)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 7:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/160 "2012-02-14T07:26:08Z")
Dear **Frank** - I am so sorry for your loss. You have already started to do the most important thing you can- remembering the wonderful things about your sister. Thank you for sharing with us. ---
**Author:** ![Cinnamon\_Imp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Cinnamon\_Imp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cinnamon_Imp)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2012, 7:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-has-been-murdered/612731/161 "2012-02-14T07:42:16Z")
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