# My Sister-In-Law Tracy-Not looking good at all

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 18, 2024, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871 "2024-08-18T16:14:23Z")\
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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/1 "2024-08-18T16:14:23Z")

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Late last night we got word that my SIL is in a very bad way, with multiple shut downs and a major heart attack. Another Sister-in-law Edie picked up My Beloved here in Portland very early this morning and they rushed to Spokane where other relatives are waiting. A couple minutes ago I got word that Tracy had a second major heart attack and they will try to keep her alive until Edie (the eldest sister) gets there.  
Hope, pray, wish etc. Whatever you’ve got I’ll take.

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**Author:** ![BippityBoppityBoo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bippityboppityboo/32/5745_2.png) [@BippityBoppityBoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BippityBoppityBoo)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/2 "2024-08-18T16:20:29Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> Hope, pray, wish etc. Whatever you’ve got I’ll take.

Done. Sending all the right karma your beloved’s way. May the best outcomes for all arrive at just the right time. Including for you, as her partner. She’s going need your support for the journey ahead of her.

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/779978/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats2)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/3 "2024-08-18T16:58:50Z")

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Wishing you all the consolation and strength you will need in the coming days.

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**Author:** ![Aspenglow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspenglow/32/76_2.png) [@Aspenglow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspenglow)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/4 "2024-08-18T17:01:38Z")

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I’m so sorry. Unexpected bad news like this about a family member of whom you are fond is such a kick in the teeth. I hope all goes as well as possible. Hugs to you.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/5 "2024-08-18T19:46:38Z")

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> [@BippityBoppityBoo](#):
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> May the best outcomes for all arrive at just the right time

> [@Two\_Many\_Cats2](#):
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> Wishing you all the consolation and strength you will need in the coming days.

I can’t say anything better than those two. So I’m just going to chime in and agree.

Best hopes for all of you.

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**Author:** ![Patx2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/73ab20/32.png) [@Patx2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patx2)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/6 "2024-08-18T20:11:28Z")

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Sending thoughts to you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/7 "2024-08-18T20:55:56Z")

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As am I. May Tracy fully recover, if at all possible, but if not, may the rest of her life be happy and pain-free, with her knowing there are those who love her and want only the best for her.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2024, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/8 "2024-08-18T21:02:06Z")

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I’m sorry for you guys.

Keep us posted.

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**Author:** ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/9 "2024-08-19T01:29:21Z")

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Keeping you all in my thoughts and wishing for the best.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/10 "2024-08-19T02:22:36Z")

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She is gone.

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**Author:** ![Dag\_Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/439d5e/32.png) [@Dag\_Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dag_Otto)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/11 "2024-08-19T02:24:49Z")

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Sorry to hear that. My condolences.

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/12 "2024-08-19T02:25:28Z")

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My condolences to you, your family, and everyone who loves her.

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**Author:** ![thorny\_locust](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thorny_locust/32/431_2.png) [@thorny\_locust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thorny_locust)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/13 "2024-08-19T02:39:40Z")

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I am sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/14 "2024-08-19T02:41:17Z")

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Last night we got word that multiple systems were failing and that she had a major heart attack. Edie and Renee left before 6 this morning to go to Spokane, and not too much later while they were on the road they got word that Tracey had another major heart attack and that the doctors weren’t sure Edie would make it in time. Tracey held on for a few hours, though, and then she left us.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/15 "2024-08-19T02:48:15Z")

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I didn’t get any sleep last night, got up very early to get Renee ready to be picked up. I am worried about how Renee is handling things. I am tired, numb, dizzy, sweating, afraid I’ll miss a phone call…I haven’t been this much of a wreck since I don’t know when.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/16 "2024-08-19T02:53:21Z")

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I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![Vlad\_Igor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/7feea3/32.png) [@Vlad\_Igor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vlad_Igor)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/17 "2024-08-19T14:47:11Z")

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My condolences for you and your family. This is a tough time for you and Renee, and I’m sure it will be for a while. Tracy is fortunate to have a family that cares for her enough that her death affects them so much. In our own ways, we will be with you in heart, mind, and spirit in the days to come. You are not alone in your shock and grief.

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**Author:** ![Patx2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/73ab20/32.png) [@Patx2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patx2)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/18 "2024-08-19T20:20:44Z")

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So very sorry

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**Author:** ![DavidNRockies](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidnrockies/32/6279_2.png) [@DavidNRockies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidNRockies)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/19 "2024-08-19T21:15:31Z")

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My deepest condolences to you and yours.

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**Author:** ![Yllaria](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yllaria/32/3452_2.png) [@Yllaria](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yllaria)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-sister-in-law-tracy-not-looking-good-at-all/1005871/20 "2024-08-19T21:36:16Z")

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So very sorry that you and your family are going through this. Best thoughts to all of you.

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