# My Standards Are Not Too High For Girls **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 28, 2012, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094 "2012-03-28T23:43:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/21 "2012-03-29T00:40:34Z")
> [@florez](#): > > Yakuza, are you a 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, or 10? Free girls and escorts consider me 2 be around an 8, 9, or 10 ---
**Author:** ![conurepete](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a88e57/32.png) [@conurepete](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/conurepete)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/22 "2012-03-29T00:48:58Z")
Escorts rate you that high because that is part of what you are paying them to do. “Free” girls are telling you that to avoid hurting your feelings or temper. If “free” girls thought you were a seven or 8, you would NEVER lack for a date. If you were 8,9, Or 10, you could either move in with a sugar mama, or charge enough for your services to get a really nice place of your own. ---
**Author:** ![Waxwinged](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c2a13f/32.png) [@Waxwinged](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waxwinged)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/23 "2012-03-29T00:49:27Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Even if I didn’t spend money on escorts and had an apartment, I still wouldn’t be able 2 get a free girl because I wouldn’t be able 2 financially impress them because I have a low income job. Does it strike you that, maybe, just maybe, not all girls date guys for the money…? Just… maybe? Maybe they just want to have a nice companion to spend time and shoot the shit with…? _Facepalm_. Urge to pit, rising. ---
**Author:** ![brainstall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/35a633/32.png) [@brainstall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brainstall)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/24 "2012-03-29T00:50:14Z")
How much do you have to pay an escort to tell you that you’re a 10? ---
**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/25 "2012-03-29T00:54:18Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Free girls and escorts consider me 2 FTFY. ---
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/26 "2012-03-29T00:58:48Z")
> [@conurepete](#): > > Escorts rate you that high because that is part of what you are paying them to do. “Free” girls are telling you that to avoid hurting your feelings or temper. If “free” girls thought you were a seven or 8, you would NEVER lack for a date. If you were 8,9, Or 10, you could either move in with a sugar mama, or charge enough for your services to get a really nice place of your own. Man u a hater 4 real, but if hating is yo activity then its yo right 2 be a hater. Just because I look good doesn’t mean that I can have an easy time gettin a girl. Girls go by looks and income. I only meet half of those requirements. When I was younger, I got free girls because economics wasn’t really a factor until we got older and more independebt from our parents. And I’m not gonna move in with the kind of woman u described because most if not all women who will move a man in and provide for him are fat, old or unattractive in some way ---
**Author:** ![saje](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saje/32/3631_2.png) [@saje](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saje)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/27 "2012-03-29T01:03:22Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Girls go by looks and income. Bullhockey. I’m attracted to men who are intelligent, not self-important, and who can spell. ---
**Author:** ![Waxwinged](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c2a13f/32.png) [@Waxwinged](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waxwinged)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/28 "2012-03-29T01:03:31Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > When I was younger, I got free girls because economics wasn’t really a factor until we got older and more independebt from our parents. And I’m not gonna move in with the kind of woman u described because most if not all women who will move a man in and provide for him are fat, old or unattractive in some way Wow. Just… wow. So are you saying that any financially successful woman is unattractive if her husband’s a stay-at-home? ---
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/29 "2012-03-29T01:03:54Z")
> [@jjimm](#): > > FTFY. Your human insults possese no power 2 make me feel bad. You’re just tryin 2 deceive me into stop associating with escorts so I can feel depressed ---
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/30 "2012-03-29T01:06:59Z")
> [@Waxwinged](#): > > Wow. Just… wow. So are you saying that any financially successful woman is unattractive if her husband’s a stay-at-home? Stop putting words in my mouth, thats not what I said ---
**Author:** ![meflin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecb155/32.png) [@meflin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/meflin)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/31 "2012-03-29T01:07:21Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Its not that I blow half my money on hookers. I invest my money in escorts to keep myself from going insane Yea because if you don’t have sex you go insane. Where is that pukey smiley again? if Yakuza was my hand .. well kinda obvious 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Waxwinged](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c2a13f/32.png) [@Waxwinged](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waxwinged)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/32 "2012-03-29T01:10:37Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Stop putting words in my mouth, thats not what I said No, you’ve said that “most if not all women who will move a man in and provide for him are fat, old or unattractive in some way”. My point about such a worldview being pretty sad stands. ---
**Author:** ![Ludovic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@Ludovic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludovic)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/33 "2012-03-29T01:14:17Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > I mostly seek **gils** who are a 7 ,8, 9, or 10. Don’t worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea. ---
**Author:** ![BangBang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ebca7d/32.png) [@BangBang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BangBang)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/34 "2012-03-29T01:15:09Z")
What a shame, I’d totally go out with you - but I have to defrag my computer tonight… Oh and I must be 50% fat, old and unattractive because I hold my own financially - my poor unlucky partner! :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/35 "2012-03-29T01:16:14Z")
> [@Yakuza](#): > > Your human insults possese no power 2 make me feel bad. Yeah, **jjimm** , you should know better than to use human insults. Wait till tonight when you’ve assumed your demonic form. Sheesh. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/36 "2012-03-29T01:16:29Z")
This thread is fucking surreal. And shit. ---
**Author:** ![Maiira](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f04885/32.png) [@Maiira](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maiira)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/37 "2012-03-29T01:18:04Z")
Well, assuming you’re serious, you can start by not calling us “girls.” And not ranking us by numbers. And…y’know…treating us like actual human beings, and not some monolithic, homogeneous hive-mind with tits and asses. ---
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/38 "2012-03-29T01:20:45Z")
> [@Waxwinged](#): > > No, you’ve said that “most if not all women who will move a man in and provide for him are fat, old or unattractive in some way”. My point about such a worldview being pretty sad stands. Ok but still I didn’t say all, I just said most, if not all ---
**Author:** ![Yakuza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/bbce88/32.png) [@Yakuza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yakuza)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/39 "2012-03-29T01:23:21Z")
> [@Maiira](#): > > Well, assuming you’re serious, you can start by not calling us “girls.” > > And not ranking us by numbers. > > And…y’know…treating us like actual human beings, and not some monolithic, homogeneous hive-mind with tits and asses. I treat women with respect. I’m just being honest by saying that I can only be happy with an attractive girl. By the way, “girls” sounds cool ---
**Author:** ![Kozmik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8dc957/32.png) [@Kozmik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kozmik)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2012, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094/40 "2012-03-29T01:26:45Z")
> [@Maiira](#): > > Well, assuming you’re serious, you can start by not calling us “girls.” > > And not ranking us by numbers. > > And…y’know…treating us like actual human beings, and not some monolithic, homogeneous hive-mind with tits and asses. Ah! Don’t you see, **Maiira**? **Yakuza** wants to be a major player in the Wall Street escort futures in 25 years. He knows that the 10s are the most expensive. He wants to invest in the 7s so that he will get a big payoff. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-standards-are-not-too-high-for-girls/617094.md?page=3)