# My wife died this afternoon!!!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 24, 2004, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939 "2004-06-24T03:34:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Uncommon\_Sense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Uncommon\_Sense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uncommon_Sense)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/41 "2004-06-24T12:13:39Z")

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I had a dream the other night that I lost my wife. It really, really, really sucked.  
My deepest.

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**Author:** ![CrazyCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dfb087/32.png) [@CrazyCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrazyCatLady)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/42 "2004-06-24T12:14:01Z")

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I know there’s absolutely nothing anyone can say to make it feel any better at all, but I’m sorry for your loss. From your posts, I’d have to say Connie was a truly wonderful woman and this is a damn shame.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/43 "2004-06-24T12:14:35Z")

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I’m so sorry for your troubles, **hlanelee**. ☹  
Try to spent as little time alone as you can.  
You need people, right now.

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**Author:** ![Scarlett67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scarlett67/32/7387_2.png) [@Scarlett67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scarlett67)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/44 "2004-06-24T12:18:48Z")

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Oh my god, what a shocking thing to wake up to at my computer this morning. I’m so sorry.

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/45 "2004-06-24T12:28:56Z")

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**hlanelee** I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish you strength, peace and comfort.

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**Author:** ![Dazzling\_White\_Diamonds](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/41988e/32.png) [@Dazzling\_White\_Diamonds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dazzling_White_Diamonds)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/46 "2004-06-24T12:32:13Z")

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I am dumbfounded by this news…

**hlanelee** , I can’t begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear of your wife’s passing. Please take care of yourself… you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![N.Sane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f19dbf/32.png) [@N.Sane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/N.Sane)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/47 "2004-06-24T12:33:17Z")

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**hlanelee** , I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Faith

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**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/48 "2004-06-24T12:34:19Z")

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**hlanelee** , I am so sorry for your loss and heartbreak! I will be praying that you find comfort and strength!

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/49 "2004-06-24T12:34:54Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear this. Be well, hlanelee. If you need anything, although I can’t imagine what I could help with, my email is in my profile.

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**Author:** ![Kitchen\_Wench](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f08c70/32.png) [@Kitchen\_Wench](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kitchen_Wench)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/50 "2004-06-24T12:34:57Z")

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I never can come up with words that feel right. Even though I don’t know you or your wife, you have my deepest sympathies. Take comfort in your loved ones.

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**Author:** ![Improv\_Geek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b3f665/32.png) [@Improv\_Geek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Improv_Geek)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/51 "2004-06-24T12:38:48Z")

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I do not know you, and you don’t know me. But if there is anything I can do, if you’re coming through Atlanta and need a place or if you just need an ear, do not hesitate to let me know.

The nearest I can imagine what you must be feeling right now is a memory that is now 8 years old, the loss of my best friend. He was my pillar and my confidant after having spent every day for 4 years together.

I can only send you my deepest condolences.

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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/52 "2004-06-24T12:46:00Z")

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**hlanelee** I am very, very sorry. ☹

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**Author:** ![Lissla\_Lissar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lissla\_Lissar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissla_Lissar)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/53 "2004-06-24T12:50:36Z")

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My deepest sympathy. I’ll be praying for you and your family.

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**Author:** ![Dragwyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dragwyr/32/2855_2.png) [@Dragwyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragwyr)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/54 "2004-06-24T12:55:15Z")

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{{{ **hlanelee** }}}  
My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

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**Author:** ![GrizzRich](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7ba0ec/32.png) [@GrizzRich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrizzRich)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/55 "2004-06-24T13:00:11Z")

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Peace, friend.

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**Author:** ![BrotherCadfael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/977dab/32.png) [@BrotherCadfael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrotherCadfael)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/56 "2004-06-24T13:01:51Z")

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You have all of our condolences. May she rest in peace.

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**Author:** ![krisolov](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/krisolov/32/3724_2.png) [@krisolov](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/krisolov)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/57 "2004-06-24T13:02:40Z")

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my deepest sympathies to you and your family. May your wife’s memory give you strength.

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**Author:** ![DeVena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dec6dc/32.png) [@DeVena](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DeVena)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/58 "2004-06-24T13:08:58Z")

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☹ I am so very sorry. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/59 "2004-06-24T13:16:24Z")

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I am sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![the\_Lady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bb73d2/32.png) [@the\_Lady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/the_Lady)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2004, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-this-afternoon/251939/60 "2004-06-24T13:17:06Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. You will be in my thoughts.

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