# My wife died tonight

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 30, 2012, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804 "2012-07-30T01:24:32Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/41 "2012-07-30T02:49:02Z")

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My condolences.

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**Author:** ![Brainiac4](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/brainiac4/32/3534_2.png) [@Brainiac4](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brainiac4)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/42 "2012-07-30T02:50:40Z")

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I’m sorry. I lost my brother in June; I can’t say that I know what you’re going through, but I think I have some idea. Take the time you need to grieve.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/43 "2012-07-30T02:56:32Z")

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I liked her. She will be missed. Of course, infinitely more for those who knew her in the real world.

I like you as well.

I am so sorry. ☹

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**Author:** ![Covered\_In\_Bees](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7ab992/32.png) [@Covered\_In\_Bees](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covered_In_Bees)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/44 "2012-07-30T03:07:14Z")

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While I am a relative newcomer compared to a lot of the previous posters, you have my deepest most heartfelt sympathies. I’m not in the most happy of places in my life with regards to people that I’m emotionally close to, but thinking of how hurt I’d be if I were to lose one of them I know I’d be devastated and thinking of how you’re feeling **Rico** from losing someone you’ve spent so much time with me has me in tears.

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/45 "2012-07-30T03:08:31Z")

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I am so sorry to hear this, Rico.

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**Author:** ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/46 "2012-07-30T03:12:40Z")

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I’m sorry, **Rico**.

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**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/47 "2012-07-30T03:13:36Z")

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So sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/48 "2012-07-30T03:14:00Z")

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How sad, I’m so sorry ☹

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/49 "2012-07-30T03:16:25Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, Ric.

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**Author:** ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/50 "2012-07-30T03:32:22Z")

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I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself Rico.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/51 "2012-07-30T03:33:05Z")

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**Rico** , I’m so very, very sorry. Kathy joined right around the same time I did and I’ve always thought of her as a wonderfully bright, sweet and thoughtful person. She was just amazing. I liked her right off the bat and I can’t imagine how much she’ll be missed. ☹ May she rest in peace.

Please take care of yourself and remember that we’re always here for you. You probably don’t know me, but I’d be happy to lend an ear. Just let us know what we can do. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/52 "2012-07-30T03:46:32Z")

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My condolences Rico.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/53 "2012-07-30T03:53:11Z")

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I’m very, sorry for this, **Rico**. I can’t even imagine what it must be like for you.

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**Author:** ![Dr.Drake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ad7895/32.png) [@Dr.Drake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Drake)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/54 "2012-07-30T04:03:31Z")

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I’m very sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/55 "2012-07-30T04:12:05Z")

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  
My deepest condolences to you and your loved ones during this sad time.

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**Author:** ![billfish678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7bcc69/32.png) [@billfish678](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/billfish678)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/56 "2012-07-30T04:12:31Z")

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My condolences.

I’ve been a member a fair number of years and lurker from the very early days so both of you have added to my virtual life here. From the wording of your post it sounds like you have already come terms with this in a very small way. Please remember to take time to take care of yourself.

Again, my condolences.

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**Author:** ![D-bear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/aeb1de/32.png) [@D-bear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D-bear)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/57 "2012-07-30T04:17:23Z")

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My condolences and love for you Ric and everyone who loved Kathy…

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**Author:** ![Pai325](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c68b51/32.png) [@Pai325](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pai325)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/58 "2012-07-30T04:17:39Z")

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I’m sorry, Rico.

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**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/59 "2012-07-30T04:18:26Z")

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You have my deepest sympathies.

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**Author:** ![Curiosity\_Kills\_Her](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8c91f0/32.png) [@Curiosity\_Kills\_Her](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Curiosity_Kills_Her)\
**Post date:** [July 30, 2012, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-died-tonight/629804/60 "2012-07-30T04:28:36Z")

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I am so sorry.

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