# my wife thinks im cheating on her, I'M NOT

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**Created:** [March 28, 2011, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-thinks-im-cheating-on-her-im-not/576250 "2011-03-28T13:13:41Z")\
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**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\
**Post date:** [May 5, 2011, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/my-wife-thinks-im-cheating-on-her-im-not/576250/94 "2011-05-05T15:49:42Z")

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> [@fjs1fs](#):
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> Holy shit, zebra, are you me? Only difference is my “first wife” is still my wife–for now. She’s in denial but evidence is mounting.

fjs1fs, over in this [thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=13762516&postcount=56), you say:

> [@Facebook friending question.... (husband issue)](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook-friending-question-husband-issue/580691/56):
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> I have almost exact same issues with my wife. About six weeks ago I realized that she had been carrying on facebook conversation for over three years (!) with a former lover of hers (from prior to her marriage) whom I specifically told during our first year of our marriage NEVER to contact her again when he called our marital home asking for her.
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> As you stated in your marriage, I’ve found a lot of other stuff that have caused EXTREME TRUST ISSUES.

You and your wife sound alot like the OP of this thread, but in reverse. Are the facebook comments back in forth with her old flame the only evidence you have of mistrust? Are the communications sexual in nature? Or is it just simple keeping in touch kind of stuff?

My wife is still friends with several old boyfriends. She’s communicates periodically with them. I have met a couple of them and had meals with them. No biggie. Some people can break up with someone and just be friends.

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