# Name One, ONE Song That Just Chokes You Up From Within The Last 20 Years: No "Cat's Cradle" Covers!

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**Created:** [August 13, 2021, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570 "2021-08-13T05:42:26Z")\
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Wish You Were Here by Delta Goodrem. (It’s not a Pink Floyd cover)

Delta was reacting to the death of a very close friend in 2007. It took a couple years to write about the loss.

Delta survived Hodgkin lymphoma at 18.

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> I want, want to tell you about the news today  
> But you wouldn’t believe me, you’d laugh it away  
> There’s a ghost standing at the foot of my bed  
> And it’s you, it’s you, it’s you, it was you
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> They told me who was in trouble  
> I couldn’t breathe on the other side of the world  
> And there was nothing I could do to help you  
> And it’s true today it’d be your birthday

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/1Wtcs5zxpcQ/maxresdefault.jpg "Delta Goodrem - Wish You Were Here (Acoustic)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Wtcs5zxpcQ)

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[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/IH-zi5Cyrg0/maxresdefault.jpg "Ideal World") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH-zi5Cyrg0)

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**Post date:** [August 14, 2021, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570/43 "2021-08-14T13:49:36Z")

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Tracey Thorn’s “Joy.”

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/maRckqODJnA/maxresdefault.jpg "Tracey Thorn / 'Joy' (Official Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maRckqODJnA)

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**Here’s To Life** , Shirley Horn. Now that I’m older and have lost family and friends, it’s especially poignant for me.

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/UTv3TONfTTQ/hqdefault.jpg "Shirley Horn - Here's To Life (Verve Records 1992)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTv3TONfTTQ)

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**Post date:** [August 14, 2021, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570/45 "2021-08-14T22:26:42Z")

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I was going to cite “No-One But You (Only the Good Die Young)” from the We Will Rock You musical, but the song apparently goes back to 1997.

Then, these two always elicit a strong reaction from me…

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/HWayL5NBH80/hqdefault.jpg "Athlete - Chances") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HWayL5NBH80)

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/Zx4Hjq6KwO0/maxresdefault.jpg "Keane - Everybody's Changing (Alternate Version)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx4Hjq6KwO0)

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**Post date:** [August 14, 2021, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570/46 "2021-08-14T22:32:44Z")

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Not so much because of the song itself, but because I always associate that song with one of the most emotional scenes from _Scrubs_ .

Another Scrubs moment that absolutely laid me out, devastated:

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/cTVpoT82toY/hqdefault.jpg "Scrubs | S08E19 | JD's Final Scene | Peter Gabriel - The Book of Love") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTVpoT82toY)

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This song came out about the time my wife left me. (In some ways I was happy she was gone, and I’m certainly happy now–everything turned out great in the long run) But it triggers all the old feelings for some reason.

> **[Picture (song)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Picture_(song))**
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> 			 
> "Picture" is a duet written by American music artists Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow, released on November 12, 2002, as the fourth single and ninth track from Kid Rock's 2001 album Cocky. The original recording on the album is performed by the song's writers. Rock re-recorded the song for radio with alternative country singer Allison Moorer because Atlantic was initially unable to get the rights from Crow's label to release the album version as a sing...

The other songs that choke me up are older.  
(Bob Dylan’s _Forever Young_, for example)

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O.k. If other people are mentioning songs older than the last 20 years, I’m going with _All I Left Behind_ – Emmylou Harris. I love the harmonizing voices.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/CYdT8Vj9u3A/maxresdefault.jpg "All I Left Behind") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CYdT8Vj9u3A)

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**Post date:** [August 14, 2021, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570/49 "2021-08-14T23:39:08Z")

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More than 20 years old, but “I Still Can’t Say Good-bye”, by Chet Atkins is a wonderful remembrance of a deceased father.

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Big Thief’s “Masterpiece” and Sufijan Stevens “Pulaski day” does it for me.

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**Post date:** [August 15, 2021, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/name-one-one-song-that-just-chokes-you-up-from-within-the-last-20-years-no-cats-cradle-covers/948570/51 "2021-08-15T02:43:07Z")

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Something that might be just a little bit different for most, is Off to Sleep, which is actually a beautiful song from a video game soundtrack (2014).

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/C20MbSC7wKQ/maxresdefault.jpg "Child of Light OST - Off to Sleep Lyrics (by Cœur de Pirate)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C20MbSC7wKQ)

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Bronte, by Gotye. It’s about losing a pet dog.

Meanwhile the Miyazaki-esque animation has its own sad beauty as it tells a different story.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/le34ygtODfI/maxresdefault.jpg "Gotye - Bronte (Official Music Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=le34ygtODfI)

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From _The Secret Of Kells_ is Aisling’s Song, aka Pangur Ban. Not actually a sad sentiment (she’s using the cat’s spirit to steal a key), just heartbreakingly sung by Christen Mooney.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/tTiSak8r9P8/hqdefault.jpg "The Secret of Kells - Pangur Ban Song") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTiSak8r9P8)

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Just squeaks in. Mad World by Gary Jules.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/jS3SxWnSbtY/hqdefault.jpg "Donnie Darko • Mad World • Gary Jules") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS3SxWnSbtY)

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Mad World, oh god, YES.

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If I can pick something more than 20 years old, “Winter” by Tori Amos.

If I can’t, 30KFT by Assemblage 23.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/dRIce9AX2fc/maxresdefault.jpg "Assemblage 23 - 30kft") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRIce9AX2fc)

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Absolutely. This was the first thing I thought of. It’s such a sad song intrinsically, but especially in view of losing so many loved ones over the past 2 years.

> [@romansperson](#):
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> This one.
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> [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds)

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I found this song, _Everything I own_ by Bread on the 46th anniversary of my father’s death. Yeah, it’s not within the last 20 years (but it was posted to Youtube in 2009, is that okay?). I don’t think I’ve cried harder than hearing the words to this song. Dad may be gone, but he is still and always will be in my heart.

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/-Q1kB0R4Ijs/hqdefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEmCOADEOgC8quKqQMa8AEB-AG-AoAC8AGKAgwIABABGGUgZShlMA8=&rs=AOn4CLAJY0Wpj6kmdMZs-piauFIeaXJZOg "Bread Everything I own.wmv") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Q1kB0R4Ijs)

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[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/dQe3DKDQRRs/maxresdefault.jpg "Alan Jackson - Drive (For Daddy Gene) (Official Music Video)") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQe3DKDQRRs)

It’s not a sad song, but my dad’s been gone for 12 years now and I still miss him. This song makes me think of him.

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Gah, I just sobbed at the end o that movie.

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