# Nearwildheaven, you're a racist piece of shit

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [December 2, 2017, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303 "2017-12-02T04:51:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2017, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/41 "2017-12-02T20:54:16Z")

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> [@StusBlues](#):
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> That did make me laugh.

Obviously she has a very full and rewarding life. Yet somehow she is able to take time out of her busy schedule to make asinine posts on a message board.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2017, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/42 "2017-12-02T21:18:28Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> If I were in charge of that board, it wouldn’t have just been a banning. It would have involved tracking you down in real life.

[Moderating]  
Threatening to track people down in real life is absolutely inappropriate. This is a formal warning not to post this kind of thing again.  
[/Moderating]

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**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2017, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/43 "2017-12-02T21:32:27Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> [Moderating]  
> Threatening to track people down in real life is absolutely inappropriate. This is a formal warning not to post this kind of thing again.  
> [/Moderating]

I don’t come to the pit that much, but when you get a warning here…hoo, boy.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2017, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/44 "2017-12-02T21:36:53Z")

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> [@StusBlues](#):
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> I don’t come to the pit that much, but when you get a warning here…hoo, boy.

In a cat fight thread too!

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**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2017, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/45 "2017-12-02T21:37:15Z")

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Holy shit. I don’t read some of the boards here. I had no idea. We should play the “What psychological disorder is this?” game.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/46 "2017-12-03T00:14:14Z")

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It must be awful to be trapped in such a worldview, so limiting and harmful to your own psyche.

I’ve always felt this poster falls into the ‘deserves pity’ category. Coupled with gratitude I’m not where they are in life. _Shiver_

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**Author:** ![Omega\_Glory](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/7c8e57/32.png) [@Omega\_Glory](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omega_Glory)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/47 "2017-12-03T01:07:06Z")

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I tended to scroll past most of her posts because they were almost always pointless :eek:-littered secondhand gossip, but then she dropped the post below in a thread. I thought that was bad, but supporting the murder of a 14 year old?

> [@Given names these days](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/given-names-these-days/798424/30):
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> > [@Given names these days](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/given-names-these-days/798424/5):
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> > I guess I am asking the wrong question.  
> > Without any disrespect to African-Americans, the names I am asking about are the ones that in the last 25 years or so have surfaced with odd to me spellings and unknown origins.  
> > Some examples are-  
> > Jedeveoon, Bonquisha,Tanisha, T’a nay, Deshaun, Tayshaun, Deron, Rau’shee, Raynell, Deontay, Taraje, Jozy, Kerron, Hyleas, Chaunte, Bershawn, Lashawn, Sanya, Trevell, Sheena, Ogonna, Dremiel , and many others.  
> > “it is largely and profoundly the legacy of African-Americans,” writes Eliza Dinwiddie-Boyd in her baby-naming book “Proud Heritage.” Shalondra and Shaday, Jenneta and Jonelle, Michandra and Milika – in some parts of the country today, nearly a third of African-American girls are given a name belonging to no one else in the state (boys’ names tend to be somewhat more conservative).  
> > Why is this so ?
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> Forget about ever getting a job with a name like that, assuming you stay out of jail long enough to ever apply for one.
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> (well, it’s true)

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**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/48 "2017-12-03T01:31:55Z")

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> [@Omega\_Glory](#):
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> I tended to scroll past most of her posts because they were almost always pointless :eek:-littered secondhand gossip, but then she dropped the post below in a thread. I thought that was bad, but supporting the murder of a 14 year old?

Now I picture \*\*nearwildheaven \*\*as John Candy’s mom in ‘Only The Lonely’, but w/o the charm of Ms O’Hara.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/49 "2017-12-03T03:02:42Z")

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I am not responding to the post here, as responses go in ATMB and via PM.

But, for clarity’s sake, Miller’s interpretation of my post is incorrect. There is no threat there, just a statement with a huge IF.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/50 "2017-12-03T03:08:46Z")

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If you read that statement as a threat (which it seems that no one else responding did), then I invite you to read it again.

And, again, this is for others who may see Miller’s post and reinterpret my post as a threat, not an argument with the Warning.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/51 "2017-12-03T03:23:01Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> I am not responding to the post here, as responses go in ATMB and via PM.
> 
> But, for clarity’s sake, Miller’s interpretation of my post is incorrect. There is no threat there, just a statement with a huge IF.

It was a very creepy statement with a big IF all the same. I saw them ban a poster for less in past. Be happy you only got a warning.

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/52 "2017-12-03T03:31:01Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> I am not responding to the post here, as responses go in ATMB and via PM.
> 
> But, for clarity’s sake, Miller’s interpretation of my post is incorrect. There is no threat there, just a statement with a huge IF.

It read like a menacing statement to me.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/53 "2017-12-03T04:33:08Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> …  
> But, for clarity’s sake, Miller’s interpretation of my post is incorrect. There is no threat there, just a statement with a huge IF.

No, I looked. _ **If** _ wasn’t huge. It was the same size.

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/54 "2017-12-03T05:25:02Z")

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There’s a reason some people call him BigTard.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 7:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/55 "2017-12-03T07:04:07Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> If you read that statement as a threat (which it seems that no one else responding did), then I invite you to read it again.
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> And, again, this is for others who may see Miller’s post and reinterpret my post as a threat, not an argument with the Warning.

[Moderating]  
Complaints about moderation belong in ATMB.

Do not bring this up again in this thread.  
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**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/56 "2017-12-04T00:28:57Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Forget about ever getting a job with a name like that, assuming you stay out of jail long enough to ever apply for one.
> 
> (well, it’s true)

So much for my “not necessarily racist” hypothesis. Damn, that’s racist.

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**Author:** ![Dallas\_Jones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dallas_jones/32/3277_2.png) [@Dallas\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dallas_Jones)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/57 "2017-12-04T00:51:01Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> I am not responding to the post here, as responses go in ATMB and via PM.
> 
> But, for clarity’s sake, Miller’s interpretation of my post is incorrect. There is no threat there, just a statement with a huge IF.

Yes it was a clear threat you retch. Did you pull the chain out of the wall again and climb the stairs?

You are retch. A moralizing piece of shit whose words mean nothing to anyone else but you.

[http://www.inspirationbit.com/a-bit-of-literature-born-of-man-and-woman/](http://www.inspirationbit.com/a-bit-of-literature-born-of-man-and-woman/)

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/58 "2017-12-04T01:20:59Z")

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> [@StusBlues](#):
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> So much for my “not necessarily racist” hypothesis. Damn, that’s racist.

Seriously, what a piece of shit. I had no idea of this poster’s background before the “deserved to die” thread. I really thought/hoped I was missing some sort of context. No. Just another miserable human being.

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**Author:** ![purplehearingaid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@purplehearingaid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purplehearingaid)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/59 "2017-12-04T03:59:02Z")

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> [@nearwildheaven](#):
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> Where did I say he deserved to die because he was black and might date my (non-existent) daughters? You’re pulling something out of your rear end.
> 
> I will say that I am Caucasian, and if I’d had kids, there ARE a lot of black kids I wouldn’t have wanted them dating. There are a lot of white, Asian, etc. kids I wouldn’t have wanted them dating either.

You’re going to write off a 14 yo kid for making a bad mistake or is this more to do with the boy was Black ??? I believe in giving people a second or a third chance and if it a child or matter what race they’re I wouldn’t write them off for good !

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**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 4:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nearwildheaven-youre-a-racist-piece-of-shit/803303/60 "2017-12-04T04:59:16Z")

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NWH has always weirded me out. Like another poster mentioned, she hangs out on ‘mommy pages’ citing them for many of her posts HERE. Why would you bother reading those pages if you are a single middle-aged old crone, sans kids?

And because she read x there, it must be true for all cases of x. I mean, it follows, right?

And her use of spoiler boxes? Her OP in [this](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=833037) thread includes the hidden gem that a male friend of hers is married TO ANOTHER MAN!! OMG, HOW BIZARRE TO MARRY ANOTHER MAN.

And no way was she a pharmacist. Nobody with this much dumb would ever have the nous to complete a university course to become a fully-fledged pharmacist. I can believe she worked in a pharmacy, but as a dispensing chemist? My bullshit-o-meter pings off the gauge.

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