# Need some help locating an old thread.

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**Created:** [September 13, 2013, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/need-some-help-locating-an-old-thread/668786 "2013-09-13T18:39:01Z")\
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**Author:** ![Lancia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lancia/32/17174_2.png) [@Lancia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lancia)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2013, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/need-some-help-locating-an-old-thread/668786/1 "2013-09-13T18:39:01Z")

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Some years back a poster asked for some relationship advice. This poster had some (in his opinion) unusually dark sexual proclivities, and was asking the masses whether or not he should be upfront about this when dating someone new so as to avoid unpleasant surprises later down the line.

IIRC this would have been posted around the time I joined, summer of 2011. I honest to God can’t remember any other details, other than he had quite a few responses and people seemed to respond seriously and with minimal snark.

Does this ring any bells? A morning searching Google has turned up zilch. Any help would be much appreciated.

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**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2013, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/need-some-help-locating-an-old-thread/668786/2 "2013-09-13T18:41:20Z")

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[Is this it?](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=612744)

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**Author:** ![Lancia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lancia/32/17174_2.png) [@Lancia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lancia)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2013, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/need-some-help-locating-an-old-thread/668786/3 "2013-09-13T19:23:34Z")

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> [@Inner\_Stickler](#):
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> [Is this it?](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=612744)

How do you guys_do_ that?! Two minutes! Sheesh.

I believe that is the thread, although there was a specific post – someone threw out a tounge-in-cheek name for a BDSM-themed sex toy shop – that I though was buried in that thread, but I’m not seeing it. Perhaps I’m totally off base about the whole thing.

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**Author:** ![Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a88e4f/32.png) [@Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Digital_is_the_new_Analog)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2013, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/need-some-help-locating-an-old-thread/668786/4 "2013-09-14T02:21:19Z")

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> [@Lancia](#):
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> How do you guys_do_ that?! Two minutes! Sheesh.
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> I believe that is the thread, although there was a specific post – someone threw out a tounge-in-cheek name for a BDSM-themed sex toy shop – that I though was buried in that thread, but I’m not seeing it. Perhaps I’m totally off base about the whole thing.

We have a team of people on standby, just for such emergencies.

You should see what happens when a thread title comes through with “Need Answer Fast!”