If you are near Vegas, I make a hobby out of teaching people to drive stick shifts. So far have had 4 people learn to drive a stick with me, and soon to start number 5. Here is how I do it.
Stage 1
Vehicle - Ram 3500 Cummins diesel modified to 400HP/800ft-lb with 6 speed manual
Location - Empty parking lot
First get student used to where each gear is with the engine off. Keep working till they can get to any gear from neutral without having to think about it. Next start truck, and start in first gear. Have student just use the clutch start the truck rolling. The Cummins has an ‘anti-stall’ feature that will add a little fuel on its own to keep it from stalling. Once the student is used to starting from fist, we start from 2nd (this is the normal gear in this truck 1st being a ‘granny gear’). 2nd still will not stall, but the truck will hop alittle if you don’t add fuel. Once student has smooth starts from 2nd down then we go to stage 2.
Stage 2
Vehicle - Ram 3500 Cummins diesel modified to 400HP/800ft-lb with 6 speed manual.
Location - Old unused roads outside town
Once done with stage 1 student can easily get the truck rolling. Now out on the road we can get into the higher gears. This is where you expalin that it is not always required to have the clutch in when slowing down. Work with student on how to shift between 2nd and 3rd let them get the feel for how much fuel to add when shifting for a smooth shift. Work way up the gears till they can get to 5th without jerking between shifts. Once they get that down we go on to stage 3.
Stage 3
Vehicle - Porsche 924 stock with 5 speed manual
Location - Empty parking lot
Repeat Stage 1 with Porsche, but now the car will stall, and more gas is needed to keep it from stalling. Get them used to how to get it moving. This dosen’t usually take too long as they know the basics from the truck. With the Porsche I can usually get the student into 2nd gear in the parking lot so they can get used to gear changes also. Off to stage 4
Stage 4
Vehicle - Porsche 924 stock with 5 speed manual
Location - Old unused roads outside town
Same thing as stage 2, but the Porshe is a little harder to shift between gears than the truck is. Once they can get to 4th without jerking then they are done.
I also had to teach my brother how to cluthless shift, and also have tought people to drive from scratch using my truck. Once someone can drive my truck in trafic they never have had a problem driving anything else. Except my brother who now drives semi-trucks, but that dosen’t count.