# Neither mundane or pointless: I am getting married **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [November 27, 2012, 6:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247 "2012-11-27T06:11:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![DMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@DMark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DMark)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2012, 3:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/21 "2012-11-30T03:38:17Z")
Congrats! So, when and where is the stag party? Be sure to post those pics - and all the best wishes for a long and happy! ---
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2012, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/22 "2012-11-30T16:10:02Z")
Congratulations. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness and joy. ---
**Author:** ![2gigch1](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/2gigch1/32/3313_2.png) [@2gigch1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/2gigch1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2012, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/23 "2012-11-30T16:44:23Z")
Congratulations! Sounds like you’ve dealt with all the hard part of life. Hopefully the easy / fun part is all that’s left. Either way it sounds like you _appreciate it_, which is worth a lot. ---
**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2012, 3:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/24 "2012-12-01T03:57:55Z")
Yippee! So happy for you both! ---
**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2012, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/25 "2012-12-01T17:22:34Z")
> [@sleestak](#): > > I am marrying my beautiful girl on May 4th. Congratulations! > [@](#): > > On a ‘Holy crap, you have to be kidding me’ note, my psycho exe’s sister got a job at my company. I was at another office taking a smoke break and she popped her head out. My ex was nuts. Her sister is nutsier (is that a word?) Thankfully I won’t see or deal with her often. Is this something you should tell HR? Not in the above terms but, “Just to let you know, I had a relationship with X’s sister which ended very badly.” ---
**Author:** ![sleestak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/919ad9/32.png) [@sleestak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sleestak)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2012, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247/26 "2012-12-02T02:44:54Z")
> [@Quartz](#): > > Congratulations! > > Is this something you should tell HR? Not in the above terms but, “Just to let you know, I had a relationship with X’s sister which ended very badly.” I already spoke with my boss about the ex’s sister. A bonus is that I shouldn’t have to deal with her, ever. The second is that, knowing her history, I am guessing that she won’t last long. We started picking colors the other day and, being a guy, I never realized quite how complex the process can be. And a tinnie bit stressful. But it will work out and the wedding shall be beautiful. Slee [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/neither-mundane-or-pointless-i-am-getting-married/642247.md?page=1)