# News flash: Men lie about number of sex partners

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [February 17, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997 "2006-02-17T20:46:50Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/1 "2006-02-17T20:46:50Z")

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[No kidding](http://news.yahoo.com/s/space/20060217/sc_space/whymenreportmoresexpartnersthanwomen).

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> Brown and his colleagues later in the survey asked the participants to rate the truthfulness of their response. About 5 percent said they lied. In addition, more than 10 percent said they knew their answer wasn’t accurate.
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> “They gave an answer and then two minutes later admitted they had lied about the answer,” Brown said.

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### Author: ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/2 "2006-02-17T21:38:51Z")

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They’re afraid someone will think they’ve been slutty?

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### Author: ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/3 "2006-02-17T21:47:11Z")

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I’m more interested in the 10 percent who gave an answer they knew wasn’t accurate, but didn’t think that was lying…

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### Author: ![Sampiro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sampiro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sampiro)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/4 "2006-02-17T21:51:48Z")

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That’s not at all surprising. I always ask guys I have sex with their sexual history, and I would estimate that well over 800 of them lied about their number of partners. And that was just in the last two years- who knows how many have lied in all.

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### Author: ![CynicalGabe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3e96dc/32.png) [@CynicalGabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CynicalGabe)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/5 "2006-02-17T21:53:27Z")

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The study says that men claim to have more partners than they really had. But don’t some men claim fewer partners than they really have had?

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### Author: ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/6 "2006-02-17T21:56:49Z")

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What is that movie where the couple talk about their sexual history–oh, I remember! (this post comes to you in real time)–“4 Weddings and a Funeral”–and Andie MacDowell goes on and on about her partners and Hugh Grant just sits there, flabbergasted.

I like that scene. (sadly, I would have been Hugh).  
\<composes face\> What? Men lie about sex? Really? \<wide eyes\>

:eek:

That’s unbelievable!

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### Author: ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 9:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/7 "2006-02-17T21:57:48Z")

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> [@Sampiro](#):
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> That’s not at all surprising. I always ask guys I have sex with their sexual history, and I would estimate that well over 800 of them lied about their number of partners. And that was just in the last two years- who knows how many have lied in all.

Sluts are horrible, dirty, disgusting liars in general. Unfortunately, you have to know many of them deeply before you start to see the pattern.

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### Author: ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 10:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/8 "2006-02-17T22:06:26Z")

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> [@Sampiro](#):
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> well over 800 of them

Really?

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### Author: ![Wolfian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Wolfian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolfian)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 10:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/9 "2006-02-17T22:06:43Z")

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I believe that study deserves an “O RLY?”

In other news my penis is 6 inches… _around_. Think about it.

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### Author: ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/10 "2006-02-17T22:45:07Z")

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No, I will not think about your penis. I’m far too busy thinking about mine.

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### Author: ![Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c77e96/32.png) [@Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Speaker_for_the_Dead)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/11 "2006-02-17T22:54:27Z")

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You know, I don’t think I’ll ever have enough sexual partners to allow me to exaggerate their numbers. Hypothetical situation: I’ve slept with three girls (okay, so now I am exaggerating–I’m a virgin). I can’t exactly say that I’ve slept with four or five because the number’s still small enough that someone could ask me for details about each, details that I couldn’t provide. I’d have to inflate the numbers absurdly and say “eight” or “nine” if I wanted to avoid that, but then it gets into the realm of incredibility.

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### Author: ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/12 "2006-02-17T23:10:46Z")

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In (sort of) defense of the 10% that know the answer isn’t accurate…I would be one of those. Not because I would lie about the number of guys I’ve been with but simply because I honestly don’t know the exact number.

Russell

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### Author: ![saoirse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@saoirse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saoirse)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/13 "2006-02-17T23:30:13Z")

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> [@Speaker for the Dead](#):
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> You know, I don’t think I’ll ever have enough sexual partners to allow me to exaggerate their numbers. Hypothetical situation: I’ve slept with three girls (okay, so now I am exaggerating–I’m a virgin). I can’t exactly say that I’ve slept with four or five because the number’s still small enough that someone could ask me for details about each, details that I couldn’t provide. I’d have to inflate the numbers absurdly and say “eight” or “nine” if I wanted to avoid that, but then it gets into the realm of incredibility.

Right, and if I’d only had eight or nine partners in my whole life (instead of eight or nine a week whenever I’ve been single) I’d probably fib and say “twelve.”

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### Author: ![Seven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Seven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Seven)
#### Post date: [February 17, 2006, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/14 "2006-02-17T23:37:05Z")

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> [@Wolfian](#):
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> I believe that study deserves an “O RLY?”
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> In other news my penis is 6 inches… _around_. Think about it.

Deserves a _what_???

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### Author: ![Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c77e96/32.png) [@Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Speaker_for_the_Dead)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 12:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/15 "2006-02-18T00:22:00Z")

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> [@Seven](#):
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> Deserves a _what_???

An “O RLY?”, obviously. It’s best if [delivered by an owl](http://rly.ytmnd.com/). The natural confirmation is “YA RLY,” occasionally followed by a shocked “NO WAI!!!”

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### Author: ![Wolfian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Wolfian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolfian)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/16 "2006-02-18T03:50:36Z")

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> [@Seven](#):
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> Deserves a _what_???

What **Speaker** said. Its’ sacrasm. Think: I’m \*shocked \* that there’s drinking going on in this establishment!

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### Author: ![Rick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9f8e36/32.png) [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/17 "2006-02-18T05:13:32Z")

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I was spent some time taking about this story with the 47 super-models I slept with last weekend.  
I have no idea why guys inflate the number of sex partners they have had. 😕

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### Author: ![scr4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/59ef9b/32.png) [@scr4](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scr4)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 6:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/18 "2006-02-18T06:15:28Z")

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> [@Speaker for the Dead](#):
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> You know, I don’t think I’ll ever have enough sexual partners to allow me to exaggerate their numbers.

You don’t think a guy who’s had zero or 1 partner would inflate the number and say 2 or 3?

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### Author: ![Lok](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e8c25b/32.png) [@Lok](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lok)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 7:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/19 "2006-02-18T07:05:45Z")

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They might. I know I never have. Having more or less partners is not important. How you treat the one you are with at that moment is important.

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### Author: ![E.Thorp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@E.Thorp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E.Thorp)
#### Post date: [February 18, 2006, 7:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/news-flash-men-lie-about-number-of-sex-partners/344997/20 "2006-02-18T07:06:29Z")

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> [@scr4](#):
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> You don’t think a guy who’s had zero or 1 partner would inflate the number and say 2 or 3?

Or that a guy who’s had zero would inflate his partner?

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