# "Nice Guys" vs. Decent, Albeit Clueless, Men **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 17, 2016, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nice-guys-vs-decent-albeit-clueless-men/749224 "2016-03-17T00:52:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 377
**Author:** ![Velocity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/velocity/32/18006_2.png) [@Velocity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Velocity)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2016, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nice-guys-vs-decent-albeit-clueless-men/749224/377 "2016-03-30T20:46:17Z")
> [@Pantastic](#): > > I dispute completely the premise that being concerned for oneself and one’s own needs is in any way jerkish OK, but let’s redirect, again: This behavior example, for instance, doesn’t match that definition: > [@Why doesn't geekdom get the girls?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/why-doesnt-geekdom-get-the-girls/737029/90): > > I have personally known: - > > - a girl besotted with a guy whose idea of banter was to tell everyone within earshot that she was on her period while she was begging him to shut up about it --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nice-guys-vs-decent-albeit-clueless-men/749224)._