# No easy way to say it. :( **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 16, 2002, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947 "2002-04-16T14:49:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Tansu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/67e7ee/32.png) [@Tansu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tansu)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/21 "2002-04-16T15:57:12Z")
Oh, **Tiburon** , I feel such sorrow for you and your beloved. My thoughts are with you both. ---
**Author:** ![Tranquilis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tranquilis/32/3639_2.png) [@Tranquilis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tranquilis)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/22 "2002-04-16T16:01:32Z")
☹ ---
**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/23 "2002-04-16T16:02:12Z")
My sincere condolences on your loss, **Tiburon**. There’s little anyone can do to help ease the pain you and your partner are feeling (and will be feeling for a while), but perhaps you can find some comfort and support on one of the many links on this site: [http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/miscarriage/resources.html](http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/miscarriage/resources.html) _warm hugs_ ---
**Author:** ![Lord\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecccb3/32.png) [@Lord\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lord_Jim)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/24 "2002-04-16T16:10:46Z")
I’m very sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you. Jim ---
**Author:** ![Tiburon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e36b37/32.png) [@Tiburon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tiburon)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/25 "2002-04-16T16:11:38Z")
Thank you all for the good thoughts. We’ll be going to the hospital on Friday for D&C. My stomach and head hurt just thinking about it all. Thanks again for the support. That means a lot to me. Tibs. ---
**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/26 "2002-04-16T16:17:16Z")
{{ **Tiburon** }} ---
**Author:** ![donnat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9bcb4/32.png) [@donnat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/donnat)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/27 "2002-04-16T16:25:47Z")
So sorry…☹ ---
**Author:** ![rubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rubes)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/28 "2002-04-16T16:41:56Z")
sorry to hear that ☹ ---
**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/29 "2002-04-16T16:51:19Z")
Hold each other. I’m so very sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Smashed\_Ice\_Cream](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Smashed\_Ice\_Cream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smashed_Ice_Cream)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/30 "2002-04-16T16:55:36Z")
I’m so very sorry, Tiburon. My best thoughts and wishes are with you during this difficult time. ---
**Author:** ![Gundy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b782af/32.png) [@Gundy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gundy)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/31 "2002-04-16T16:57:44Z")
How awful. I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![DeadlyAccurate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac91a4/32.png) [@DeadlyAccurate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DeadlyAccurate)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/32 "2002-04-16T17:23:33Z")
I’m very sorry to hear that. ---
**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/33 "2002-04-16T17:23:41Z")
Very sad. I’m very sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Morgainelf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Morgainelf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgainelf)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/34 "2002-04-16T17:40:47Z")
Oh Tiburon, I’m so sorry. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Ayesha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c0e974/32.png) [@Ayesha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ayesha)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/35 "2002-04-16T18:33:26Z")
I am so sorry . ☹ ---
**Author:** ![iconoplast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/3d9bf3/32.png) [@iconoplast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iconoplast)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/36 "2002-04-16T18:51:17Z")
::love:: ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Pucette](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/278dde/32.png) [@Pucette](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pucette)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/37 "2002-04-16T18:51:30Z")
☹ {{Tibs and partner}} ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_griffin-kentzel/32/14787_2.png) [@Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Griffin-Kentzel)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/38 "2002-04-16T19:20:19Z")
☹ ---
**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/39 "2002-04-16T19:20:33Z")
**Tiburon** , there’s nothing I can say that will make the pain and sorrow magically disappear… I’m so very sorry… what awful news! My thoughts are with you and your partner at this time of loss. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![El\_Elvis\_Rojo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@El\_Elvis\_Rojo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Elvis_Rojo)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2002, 8:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947/40 "2002-04-16T20:29:21Z")
Like everyone else, all I can do is offer my condolences. It’s a terrible tragedy, and there’s really nothing more we can offer than kind words and compassion. Hopefully this pain will soon be replaced with joy when you succeed on your next attempt. Best of luck, and one day i’m sure you’ll have the family you dream of. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-easy-way-to-say-it/103947.md?page=3)