# No I do NOT fuck on the first date

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836
**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [July 26, 2008, 12:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836 "2008-07-26T12:58:13Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2008, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/81 "2008-07-30T01:26:25Z")

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I do. Saves the time and money on a second.

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### Author: ![phall0106](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/phall0106/32/5934_2.png) [@phall0106](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/phall0106)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/82 "2008-07-30T19:25:26Z")

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[QUOTE=vetbridge]  
As a guy who sometimes puts out on the first date, I now feel dirty and used. I mean that in a good way.😉  
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**vetbridge** , how are _you_ doin’? 🆒

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### Author: ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 1:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/83 "2008-07-31T01:33:12Z")

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Hows does one date in Saudi Arabia? I mean, the woman is completly covered, right? You might be asking the Wicked Witch of the East out. 😕

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### Author: ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/84 "2008-07-31T01:36:25Z")

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PS to female dopers near SJ- I am single, I’ll take you to any bookstore and I’ll wear pleated pants too. And not expect more than a kiss 1st date- if we agree date #2 is going to happen.

😉

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### Author: ![Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffy_the_Elephant_Shrew)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 2:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/85 "2008-07-31T02:22:25Z")

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Doesn’t _anybody_ want a Walnetto?

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### Author: ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 2:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/86 "2008-07-31T02:28:55Z")

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Oh hell, give it here. Damn thing will probably stick to my dentures though. 😃

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### Author: ![Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffy_the_Elephant_Shrew)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/87 "2008-07-31T02:45:33Z")

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She didn’t even whap me with her handbag. _Score!!!_

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### Author: ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/88 "2008-07-31T03:58:29Z")

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Is it okay to wait for sex until one is married? That’s another option.

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### Author: ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/89 "2008-07-31T05:51:53Z")

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So, we’re all agreed? We need a Doper dating forum? 😃

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### Author: ![Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Paul_in_Qatar)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/90 "2008-07-31T10:40:24Z")

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No. That would be a Bad Thing. A very Bad Thing.

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### Author: ![chowder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/977dab/32.png) [@chowder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chowder)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/91 "2008-07-31T13:00:57Z")

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[QUOTE=Paul in Saudi]  
No. That would be a Bad Thing. A very Bad Thing.  
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You speak for yourself sonny 😛  
::thus spake **chowder** desperate, even more desperate than **Lust 4 Life** ::

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### Author: ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/92 "2008-07-31T13:46:13Z")

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[QUOTE=Baker]  
Is it okay to wait for sex until one is married? That’s another option.  
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Sure, but if your wife catches on. . .

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### Author: ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/93 "2008-07-31T16:52:22Z")

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I don’t have a wife, as I’m not male! 😛

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### Author: ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/94 "2008-07-31T16:54:31Z")

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[QUOTE=Baker]  
I don’t have a wife, as I’m not male! 😛  
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But…but…you are a baker, right? A big guy, all in white, with clouds of white when you clap your hands…

eta: wait till the candlestick maker hears about this!

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### Author: ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)
#### Post date: [July 31, 2008, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/95 "2008-07-31T19:24:06Z")

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[QUOTE=DrDeth]  
PS to female dopers near SJ- I am single, I’ll take you to any bookstore and I’ll wear pleated pants too. And not expect more than a kiss 1st date- if we agree date #2 is going to happen.

😉  
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Wow, and a Dr, too! What a catch!

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### Author: ![diggleblop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac91a4/32.png) [@diggleblop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/diggleblop)
#### Post date: [August 1, 2008, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/96 "2008-08-01T00:52:58Z")

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Can I have her number? I mean shit, it’s not everyday you have a woman open her legs for you on the first date. Shit… Are you sure you’re straight?

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### Author: ![Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Paul_in_Qatar)
#### Post date: [August 1, 2008, 1:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/97 "2008-08-01T01:13:01Z")

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Yes.

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### Author: ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)
#### Post date: [August 1, 2008, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/98 "2008-08-01T05:03:52Z")

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[QUOTE=Nawth Chucka]  
Wow, and a Dr, too! What a catch!  
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Yeah, but on the downside, he is deth.

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### Author: ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)
#### Post date: [August 1, 2008, 7:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/99 "2008-08-01T07:30:11Z")

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One thing I missed, hanging out with hippies all my adult life, never actually had a “date”. Hear you guys talk, doesn’t seem like I’ve missed much.

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### Author: ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)
#### Post date: [August 1, 2008, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-i-do-not-fuck-on-the-first-date/457836/100 "2008-08-01T19:41:28Z")

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[QUOTE=featherlou]  
Yeah, but on the downside, he is deth.  
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You take the good, you take the bad…

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